Comments by Titus23 (page 2)

At my peak, I juggled 5 SBs. I'm in a small town market, so offering $100 a week will have girls jumping all over it (literally). Plus, there's lots of single moms that are just lonely and use SA to meet people and get some help. I've had legit FWB situations develop from SBs. Hell, my current girlfriend started as an SB. She's got cancer and was looking for someone to help with some bills. I taught her about managing debt, we connected hardcore, and recently made the decision that this shit isn't just an arrangement anymore, its what we want for our lives for the foreseeable future. Her only stipulation is cut out the SBs (I can keep the FWBs though which is sweet). So, to answer your question, what do we get? Sometimes just a physical connection. Sometimes a new friend. Sometimes something even more than that. Though, I'm not even 30, so my view is understandably skewed.

She's 18 with two kids by 2 dudes (has custody of one). Was arrested as a minor, but otherwise her record is clean. She started doing this stuff because her ex-boyfriend would beat the shit out of her if she didn't make enough money for them to stay in a hotel room while he traveled the country smoking dope and living out of motel 6s and an overdue rental car. She finally called the cops on his ass a few weeks back. He's now in jail with no money for bail, and she's saving money to come back to the town I live in. Oddly enough, she's originally from here.

I know a girl that sells a premium snapchat. Guys give her $20 and she adds them. She just never, ever posts anything. Same girl gets guys to send her hundreds of dollars, I'm talking like, in the thousands every week, so that she will fly out to them. She never goes. She's had guys buy her a plane ticket, and she just no-shows. Oh no, my car broke down, send me money to fix it and buy another ticket... The girl is raking it in, but damn, she's a piece of work.

Only time I've ever gotten extras was similar to this, except I got to BBFS. No charge or anything. Instead, she asked me to give her a ride home after work, so I did, and we finished up in her Aunt's bed. Good business tactic for her though, as I spent all my club money on her for the next few weeks, until I realized it wasn't gonna happen again and she had only done it in the first place to cultivate a high spender.

My ATF and I text pretty much every day. Just sorta bullshit about whatever. Or if she's dealing with some drama, she'll vent to me. She's started travel dancing recently, which actually helps me. Now, she travels to a club that's an hour from me, rather than me driving two hours to see her. Saves on hotel costs for me. Anyways, she hit me up this past weekend to see what day this week would be best for her to come to the club. We agreed on Tuesday and met up. Long story short, we both got too drunk to drive, so she had her friend (also a dancer) give us both a ride back to her apartment (about an hour further away from my house). I ended up spending the night there before taking a $100 uber back to my car in the morning. When I got home, and went to take a shower, I noticed bite marks and claw marks all over my neck, shoulders, back and chest, and a pretty good cut on my lower lip. I really wish I had been sober enough to remember the details.

SA is all I do now. I barely go to the clubs. Why would I when I can hang out with a different college girl each night for less than $400 a month each? I love being in a small-town locale. The girls don't need much, they don't ask for much, and when you give them attention, they melt. I've ended up with several real FWBs (no exchange at all) off the site just because the pool is so small in the area, and all they really want is a connection. That said, I'm still looking for the illusive long-term arrangement. I think I may have found something, but we'll see..

Damn General, I haven't logged on in ages. Just been lurking, but nice callback right there. For the record, I didn't even get to Des Moines. I have discovered SA though..

I've heard the exact opposite. Guys that come in in suits and ties around me are the ones that never spend. The dancers always complain about them. Now, I've been told that natural fibers for pants are best, as the chemicals on fake ones can cause skin-irritation/ A dancer I know told me that she would take a rougher natural fabric over a softer fake one.

I've only ever made it rain when I was asked to. Typically when I go, it's only to see one dancer. I remember once being asked to make it rain on her at a club that doesn't take anything from dances. All I had was 20s and 5s. I ended up throwing $250 on stage (10 $20s and 10 $5s). She loved it. After she came off stage se grabbed me and pulled me into the closed off VIP area. We stayed there for an hour and she didn't ask for a dime after.

Just because you're encouraged not to, doesn't mean you can't! Just close the door for a mid-morning office-jack.

@General, I get it man. Basic human decency is pretty crazy nowadays. I mean, who the hell respects women, let alone dancers? Must be a psycho. I've said it before, and I'll say it again. I'll spend all night long in the club spending money, but I will not pay extra for extras, and I don't pay for play outside. I've never had to. I know that's a foreign concept for some. And I'm not from Kansas. I'm forced to live here for my job. I'm originally from New England. So, the better comparison would be the Boston strangler.

My,friend recommends the lumber yard. It's byob and open til 5am

A girl I know dances there all the time. I'll ask her

Des Moines isn't that far. About 4.5 hours from me. And I'm actually off work that weekend of the 29th. I had plans, but they fell through (surprise, surprise). Hmm.. Definite maybe.

Quick story about a few weeks back. We got a crap ton of girl scout cookies in for free at work. I mean cases of them (12 boxes per case). I had a bunch of thin mints (6 cases), so I took them to my favorite club on a Sunday night. I figured I'd hand them out and build some favor with the girls. I mean, they were free, why the hell not? It was super slow and I jokingly tipped a box to a girl I know when she was on stage. She was ecstatic! I ended up spending the night tipping nothing but cookies. My CF (for lack of a better term) gave me 3 dances per box. Management got a case too. It was a bizarre night, and I was pretty much the only guy that came in. There were girls everywhere just chowing down on thin mints. I still have new dancers come up and ask me if I'm the guy that brought the cookies.

The only dancer I've ever done anything ITC with told me exactly who she's done stuff ITC with. She wasn't trying to hide it from me. Maybe she's done it with more people, but considering she was very specific about the 3 other guys, I don't see why she wouldn't just tell me about everyone else too. Either way, I don't really care what she does on her time. I just care what she does when we're together.

Typoed trucidos above. Autocorrect got the better of me. Normally when,I ignore someone their comments don't bump posts. For some reason, his still do. I don't click on them, but still. Makes it a pain to scroll to stuff I,care about.

What's frustrating me is that for some reason, ignore doesn't make these old threads disappear. I still see last comment by tricks of and they sit at the top.

Highest weekend for me was 2800 spread across 4 days. Highest single trip was 1500. I average about a grand every week, though I'm about to have an extended absence due to work.

Most dances I've had with one girl in one night is 34 (20 straight at one point). Totaled 49 dances that night across 3 girls. I have no idea my total dances with anyone. I've also had nights where I don't get many dances at all. It depends on what I'm feeling. Hell, last Saturday I spent about 7 dances with my CF just napping. She was coming down from being stoned out of her mind, so she curled up on me and went to sleep until the lights came up. We ended up going back to her place for some more rest.

^I recognized the sarcasm given the recent, very public falls from grace by military officials. I was simply commenting that I've removed or avoided all potential pitfalls that would place me on the wrong side of UCMJ. Thankfully hanging out with dancers and consensual sexual relations are not yet against the rules. Maybe someday... But not yet!

@minnow I'm a long ways away from being someone worth investigating. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed of anything I've participated in, and I have yet to pay for play. All money's spent on dancers is my own. I'm no longer married, so there's no infidelity at play. Everything is consensual. I think I'm good to go.

^ But then how am I supposed to humble-brag about my weekend?

I was dancing with a girl last weekend when She grabbed my hand and put it over her panties. She told me not to go under, and proceeded to grind like a mad woman into my fingers. We did that for about 5 minutes or so, until she came so hard that her panties soaked through and leaked down her thighs. She looked at me, smiled, and said thanks, that song is on me. I got a few more dances with her and she explained that grinding on dick all night makes her crazy horny, and sometimes she finds the right guy and just can't help herself. For a bit of explanation, I had another dancer tell me that "compared to these other dudes, you look like George Fricking Clooney, and you treat us like princesses." So, I'm guessing it depends on the PL for if the dancer gets turned on. The fat smelly dudes, probably not. Younger, fit guys, yah, I bet they do.

^Flag, the trick is to bring her to the club, lock her down all night, and bring her home, that way the only sperm you taste is your own.