Comments by PastaWithLink

The night the lights went out in Georgia. PL becomes dead loser.

Yes, I agree that GPS needs to be added to the TUSCL glossary. I needed to do a search after reading Papi's review of Tootsie's! Maybe the OP could be rephrased as "What do women with GPS need and how do I figure out how to give it to them?" We'd all like to step up a level or more "out of our league" (the point of SC), but no need to get all upset when perhaps your own side of the connection failed.

Have they developed a tool yet where I can bond with my dog by safely sniffing his ass? Equal rights for all who have companion animals!

I always thought it was only dudes over 70 who still used "Jew" as a verb. Way to open my eyes to younger folks using it.

Interesting how some strippers just enjoy the excitement of nudity and wildness, while most seek the thrill of the hunt and the search for the big payday. I can see how it becomes addictive and they are chasing after money. Would be tough to ride the rollercoaster of an identity based on daily income. One stripper told me her goal is to clear $500 each time she comes in.

Take the time to save them yourself and give the habit a rest. Or go around and ask five banks for $5.00 in penny rolls. It's the process, not the goal!

Report to management. You're only a PL if you let that crap happen and slink away with no ego.

Report to management. You're only a PL if you let that crap happen and slink away with no ego.

The Preacher (attributed to Solomon, probably why this dark but oh so necessary book made it into the canon) also taught about the joys of being with the wife of your youth. You've known what fewer and fewer of us will ever know. The Alzheimer's care must be a real bitter pill. Don't know if respite care for caregivers is at all available for you. Is hospice care a part of the situation? You will likely be at your wife's funeral someday and everyone will be there to lift you up through it. So sad how folks wait until then to step up. Any groups for "boring old men" in your area? A friend of mine travelled around with a group of 70's age musicians for a bit. He was the one with health problems at the time. Any friends of your wife who are understanding and skilled at care? Don't mean to be a fixer and solver. Hope tomorrow brings a better day.

https://www.instagram.com/aceofdiamondmondays/ Premium club for blacks. Only open on Mondays? Reservations required!

An LA club (Ace of Diamonds) with a famous rapper. Nice how he "taps out" on her butt cheeks when he's getting suffocated.

If you're asking the question, the answer is "yes".

Thanks for the confession, Papi. Good to know a club guru like yourself has down days too!

Norm!

Strippers pay him to go to the Champagne Room with them.

Amazing how the beer campaign succeeded. A Russian Jew from NYC who channeled his inner Don Juan.

Women have to keep their own pecking order in shape, too. It's that kind of dynamic that hits in junior high and never lets up. Guys will bash it out on the field or elsewhere and let the status ladder readjust as it will.

Thanks for the comments on my OP. Well-written and I will aim to take them to heart. Yeah, I'd say it's more of a heroin matter than a pot matter. Ouch. Last night got hustled for $700. 2 couch dances for $40, upstairs for $300 on ATM, second VIP for $360 on a credit card with 20% surcharge. So incredibly stupid. Thought I was being a player, but just got played. Dancer hit me with 4-5 qualities about myself that wife had long since forgotten, plus reminded me of my first girlfriend. Also, bummed at a potential ATF whom I had blown $400 on two weeks ago at a different club but then didn't brighten up when I stopped in for a visit without more VIP. I had thought the $400 would get at least some attention carried over. Not a free dance, but "so glad you're back". Whatever. No, didn't profess "love" to either, or ran that around the bend, but heavy "lust at first sight" with laughter, conversation and plenty of contact. Agree with rules. 1 and 2, followed by CASH only in the club - leave the plastic outside! Again, thanks for spot-on comments. Putting the P in PL.

... Been able to back off later with a better perspective? Or is it just bad to worse?

JS69, I'm back to clubbing after a 15 year break. Separated from my wife and headed to divorce. Yeah, it's $ for fantasy, intimacy and sex. Just not the rapid fire I used to be and maybe not quite as single as I think I am. Also trying to get my game back and communicate directly. Happy clubbing!

Also, an LD where you are close to LDK but not quite is rather enjoyable to extend for a song or two!

I'd like to LDK, but I'd rather have a condom on or the strip club shorts product to catch the jizz. I also think it's crude to do it w/out warning the dancer. A wet spot on your own trousers is bad enough! So, it becomes not only a hot enough dance, but also talking it over to set the stage. All in all, an HJ at an AMP works better for me. Both parties know what's coming.

Give it a rest on Mother's Day, dudes. Set aside some funds for another holiday.