Comments by Hard4Dancers

rockstar666 Fair enough. I have to ask, though: what were you doing as a younger man? Surely you had your share of twentysomethings back then. Seems kind of unfair to your actual...um, girlfriend.

Gentlemen Stop. It's cringeworthy. Am I the only one here who utilizes strip clubs for what they are--a type of entertainment? I suppose so. And it isn't a fantasy for me either, either. The money I withdraw from my checking account sure is real. Her vagina sure feels real. What is apparent is that many (most?) of the people posting here seem to have the perspective--and I could be wrong about this--that strippers are basically surrogate girlfriends. There's nothing wrong with wanting companionship and intimacy, and certainly strippers are people too, but here's my question to you gentlemen: if you want a girlfriend, why not just get one? That way you can avoid dealing with the baggage of strippers and have someone return the affections. Perhaps many of you are not sexually attracted to women your age. That's fine, but at least be honest with yourself about the nature of the transaction, being that a) it's business for her, and b) your affections are unrequited As I'm writing this, I have come to understand what you guys mean when you refer to a fantasy...fantasy in the sense that you want her to be your girlfriend. But she isn't.

LMN Of course. $100 in singles is a lot of money...when it's spread out. Who cares if it isn't shit in reality? The important thing is that it LOOKS like a lot of money. Lol

But that's my point, LMN--if you weren't supplying her the drugs for free, she would've just spent it on that. But since her biggest expense was already accounted for, she just spent it on worthless bullshit. Bottle service, lol. That's a good one. At least buy some Powerball tickets or something. But it totally fits a stripper's mentality of being totally incapable of thinking long term, and how life is just one big non-stop party to them. Wouldn't be surprised if she made it rain on the ballers at the night clubs too.

Lol, you niggas get so happy when you get a number. You know how many times they do that a night? Plus, it's probably strictly business on her end. Not trying to be a dick here; just pointing some things out.

Pharmaceutical salesman.

Strippers love to brag about how they got this guy to give them X amount of dollars, or how they got Y out of that guy without having to do much. They also love to talk about how they make enough money to fill a Brinks truck every night. They can get ANY dude to give them ANYthing. You ever hear that from the girls in the club? The sad (pathetic) reality of strippers is that you couldn't find a lower net-worth group of individuals on the planet. They blow 98 percent of what they make ON blow...and weed...and tattoos...and handbags...and loser boyfriends who are the only people even more parasitic than they are. Investment? Fuck an investment...Mama needs some new heels!

If they had any semblance of ambition or responsibility, they wouldn't have become strippers in the first place.

It was the review where the dancer told me she loved me because I blew several thousand dollars on lap dances and drinks with her. Oh, wait...

mikeya02 Yes.

GoVikings I wasn't looking for a consensus view to begin with. Obviously everything I wrote was based on MY opinions and observations. It is generally assumed, when you post something on an online discussion forum, that the opinions shared by posters are just that: their opinions. Apparently my word is law around here now. Hey...cool with me. Everyone reading this sentence must give me $3000 right now.

As stated earlier I had several theories as to why strippers tend to date mostly black dudes: - most drug dealers are black guys? We know strippers like their drugs and you can't beat the convenience of a boyfriend. This is probably the biggest reason - the loser boyfriends are often supported financially by the stripper, so they're literally pimps. Most pimps tend to be black dudes... - strippers often have unstable lives typical of the American underclass (homeless/mentally ill/prisoners/unemployable) and this group is filled with black dudes - the media glorifies thug culture and black dudes are seen as more masculine to women with low self-esteem (many strippers). These women are drawn to masculine types - black dudes are less likely to tolerate their bullshit at home and more likely to keep them in check? - the big dick stereotype? It's common knowledge that strippers are sluttier than other groups of women

Many men choose not to be in a committed relationship, Hotstuff. Relationships and marriage benefit women, not men. Also know that humans are not monogamous by nature.

Lone_Wolf Posts like these seem to reinforce my observation that most customers are just as fucked up mentally as the strippers are. Sounds like what you want from your favorites is drama. You wouldn't be the only one, though.

Any state bordering Michigan.

In my mind those are two separate issues. I don't give a fuck if he was taped in an igloo in the middle of Antarctica. It'll never be right and the NBA did the right thing. If you don't want to deal with issues that could arise from making racist comments...then don't make racist comments. Sterling has the freedom to say what he wants but he also has the freedom to face the consequences of saying what he wants.

Most porn stars--but not all--were strippers at one point, I'd say maybe 70 percent. A lot of strippers become porn stars precisely because they can earn more money doing "feature dancing". So the mentality and lifestyle is very similar.

And it's responsive. That's even worse. ):

You're welcome, sweetheart.

Hotstuff69babi What you need to understand is that, from the club's perspective, you (the stripper) are a customer of the club too. You're paying them for the opportunity to solicit a business transaction with the opposite sex just like the male customers are. The difference is that your cover charge (tipout) is higher so that the male-female ratio is skewed enough to maximize profit for the club. As far as the club is concerned, management couldn't give two fucks if you sold a thousand dances or zero. At the end of the day they're still going to get their tipout from you. If I sat in a club for five hours one night and no dancers stopped by to sell me dances, the manager wouldn't give a shit if I said something about it. Why would he? He's already made his drink and cover charges off of me before I even saw the entire rotation. He's going to tell me the exact same thing he would tell a stripper with a similar complaint about no one spending: "Oh well...nothin' we can do. See ya tomorrow." One day I'm going to come down there and give the girls a very basic team meeting on microeconomics.

*ahem*

You've got more clubbing hours than anyone on this board save for possibly Clubber, and you can't think of a good response to this? Please return your balls to the nearest mailbox.

We have some private business matters to consult with in person.

I'm there if Rediger's there.

We knew you were having unprotected sex with prostitutes, but nutting inside them unprotected is a whole different can of worms. I shudder to think that there could be hundreds, possibly thousands, of rickdugans mongering about the Midwest and South by now.