are strippers the most fiscally irresponsible people in the world?
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I was seeing a girl consistently otc. I was giving her $900 per visit and $1.2k if it was late at night instead of going to work. She was making probably 7k off me monthly. Now that's $7,000 in cash that she wasn't paying taxes on. So, if we prorated that back to a tax bracket and said 7k/month was her post tax earnings - she was basically a six figure earner annually - way above the national average!
Yet somehow, she was always broke and blowing up my phone to meet or asking to borrow money. What the fuck? She did have a drug problem but I also bought all her drugs for her so it wasn't being spent on that. Her car was a piece of shit and she lived in the ghetto. There was no boyfriend/pimp. She was 20 years old and didn't go to college so I doubt much debt.
I stopped seeing her for a few months due to some personal issues and she got evicted as she was unable to pay her rent.
To my understanding, she quit her job and spent all the money I gave her on expensive nightclubs and bottle service. One time she told me she paid for a table at a nightclub next to a few famous rappers. I imagine that table was 5-10k.
So my point is, what is wrong with these people? Is it part of the same pathology that makes one strip that also makes one unable to budget their income?
Please share your experiences with strippers and their inability to have any fiscal responsibility.
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It's athletes. Watch the ESPN 30 for 30 "BROKE"
Lack of responsibility? Agree.
Just boggles my mind how this chick burned through that much cash to end up broke and homeless
The sad (pathetic) reality of strippers is that you couldn't find a lower net-worth group of individuals on the planet. They blow 98 percent of what they make ON blow...and weed...and tattoos...and handbags...and loser boyfriends who are the only people even more parasitic than they are.
Investment? Fuck an investment...Mama needs some new heels!
My point was though...her biggest expense, which was cocaine, I was already paying for and there wasn't a boyfriend/pimp. it was truly all spent on bottle service at night clubs.
But you are correct in your assessment. Whenever I'd give this chick a big stack of 20's she'd take pictures of it in all sorts of angles. Then pictures of herself smoking weed, holding the stacks of money, like a rapper or something. Lol.
Many young people also have a “live for today†attitude or a “hey I’m only young once so let me live it up†attitude.
If she has a drug problem; then forget it – many have lost fortunes b/c of it.
Most folks live at the level of their income (and above via credit cards) – kinda the American way. There are many people making over $100k/yr that have filed for bankruptcy or have very little savings.
Yeah – strippers for the most part are pretty irresponsible – but in all honesty so are most Americans when it comes to finances.
Some of those characters go through their $150K-$250K annual salaries faster than any stripper can piss away her dough.
I remember one kid who bragged to me about his $10K/mo payments for all his big-boy toys. Guess what happened to him when the oil patch went into one of its regular downturns?..............pounding nails for $12/hr.
Shed basically tell me about going to these extremely high end clubs and getting bottle service. LIV on a weekend is usually a $1.5k table minimum. When Mark Cuban went to LIV the table MINIMUMS jumped up to $5k-10k.
This is the kind of shit this chick was doing. You can't support that lifestyle on 7k/month. You can't support that lifestyle on 20k/month, really.
I'm also under the impression she left her job on a bad note. She made it seem like she told all the dancers, management, bouncer's to go fuck themselves because she found someone to support her and was "paid" now.
Bottle service, lol. That's a good one. At least buy some Powerball tickets or something. But it totally fits a stripper's mentality of being totally incapable of thinking long term, and how life is just one big non-stop party to them. Wouldn't be surprised if she made it rain on the ballers at the night clubs too.
If she was driving around in a brand new panamera turbo and living at the Ritz, it'd make more sense. I'm puzzled how someone with no expenses and all disposable income ends up broke.
Of course. $100 in singles is a lot of money...when it's spread out. Who cares if it isn't shit in reality? The important thing is that it LOOKS like a lot of money. Lol
In all the years I've been doing the SC thing, I can count on 1 hand the number of strippers I've met that have their life put together in a somewhat normal fashion and strip because they want to and not because it's the only way they can make a living without working 40+ hours a week.
The normal stripper shift is 4.5 to 7 hours. Most of them don't work every day and only work the minimum they have to on the days they do work. I have no sympathy when they complain about how hard they've had to work and still have trouble making ends meet. I regularly clock 50-60 hours a week at my job and have a life to pay for, and manage just fine honey, I'm not interested in hearing about your woes when you're clock 5-6 hours at work 3-4 days/evenings a week and can't pay your bills.
@superdude: I don't know. She posts it on instagram or something. I don't use social media. She says she doesn't have many friends though. I also don't really give a shit, lol.
Maybe similar minds attract. I meet more of the responsible dancers and LMN meets the ones wanting fast money because they will spend it fast. Of course I've met several dancers who blow money fast as well. They often try to move on to easier targets when they find out I'm not willing to spend a whole lot.
Yeah, I'm sure you paying them for sex helped them get their act together. Lol.
The ivy league student moonlighting as a stripper to pay for her education is a myth at best. Young women that strip and have sex for money tend not to end up being doctors and lawyers.
Maybe I attract the especially frivolous, wild strippers because of my tendency to do drugs with them but at the end of the day the spectrum of stripper's mentality doesn't exactly range too much. I've always assumed the ones who claim to be paying for school and aspiring to have X profession were just using that as a hustle for stupid customers.
Just like I hate the "gfe" concept, I want these chick's to be straight with me and in turn I'm straight with them. They know that I only have more money than them because of my parents. I can be real about that. Just like I expect them to be real that they aspire to do nothing other than live off someone else's funds.
Most all of them have zero concept of how to save money for another day when they might actually really need it.
As the old saying goes.... "Here today and gone... later today"