What we really want from favorites

5/6/2014 11:32:29 AM

Anyone ever find themselves in this situation...

I meet a smoking hot new dancer and set out to win her attention and succeed. ITC and OTC. Txt's, phone calls, lunches, dinners, gifts, favors etc...all this sets a precedent for future behavior and expectations.

Pretty soon, I start asking myself what my objective is. Do I want a gf? No. Do I want to be a sugar daddy? Maybe, but I like variety. Do I want to just fuck as desired? Yea, but I like more of a connection.

P4P or not, spend enough time with someone and your lives inevitably become intertwined on some level. My problem is, I easily become enamored and go all out to win her attention and get as close as possible to her as quick as possible.

Once I succeed though,I start wondering what my original objective was and how I can tactfully back track to something more comfortable.

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LMN

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11 years ago

While this may be like deciphering the rosetta stone for you, what I want from my "favorite" is inserting my penis in her orifices until I reach climax, while taking psychotropic drugs

motorhead

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11 years ago

I want world peace

Hard4Dancers

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11 years ago

Lone_Wolf

Posts like these seem to reinforce my observation that most customers are just as fucked up mentally as the strippers are.

Sounds like what you want from your favorites is drama. You wouldn't be the only one, though.

Dougster

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11 years ago

Lone_Wolf: "Anyone ever find themselves in this situation..."

Are you knowingly trying to be the ultimate PL even knowing the consequence? Could be a masochistic streak?

steve229

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11 years ago

"Yo I'll tell you what I want, what I really really want,
So tell me what you want, what you really really want,
I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really
really really wanna zigazig ha."

tumblingdice

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11 years ago

Never had a Favorite.Every time I'm done with a stripper her name becomes a verb.

Hard4Dancers

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11 years ago

Many men choose not to be in a committed relationship, Hotstuff. Relationships and marriage benefit women, not men. Also know that humans are not monogamous by nature.

Subraman

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11 years ago

"Once I succeed though,I start wondering what my original objective was and how I can tactfully back track to something more comfortable. "

It's the pursuit and the winning that's exciting to you, once you've achieved your goal the adrenaline and the chase is gone, and now you've got a weird thing going on with a woman whose life you don't want to be part of too closely and who you don't want to have as your one-and-only stripper. I think it's not too terribly uncommon a psychology.

gawker

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11 years ago

While I bounced from dancer to dancer for a year when I started clubbing at age 62, I met a dancer who physically and emotionally was exactly what I sought. She became my favorite and is my ATF and always will be. She doesn't. Complain when I wander, she's helped me knock lots of sex items off my bucket list, makes herself available ( when she's not drugged out of her mind) and we still enjoy each other's company. We spent several hours together tonight and the time flew by before I knew it.
What is my expectation? Sexual adventures, honesty, and an understanding of my problems and issues. I pay her well and I get what I pay for. I , after 5 years, still think she's drop dead gorgeous. We talk for hours and she hangs on every word out of my mouth.

ilbbaicnl

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11 years ago

Highly confusing. I always thought the whole "hard to get" thing was, at best, one of the many forms of self-distracting drama that substitute for actually working towards something useful. At worst, it creates a great environment for date rape to flourish in. It's big part of the crap that is bad enough that I want to substitute the crap that goes with strippers for it. Really don't get it why you'd want a steamy combo pile of both types of crap. Whether it's Steve Jobs or that blonde with the giant bolt-ons, whenever someone can make you feel they are doing you a favor by selling you something, you can be sure you are getting hustled majorly.

Lone_Wolf

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11 years ago

"whenever someone can make you feel they are doing you a favor by selling you something, you can be sure you are getting hustled majorly."

Sage words indeed.

alabegonz

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11 years ago

Sex is the gateway to her life.

Enter the portal and you get to encounter her life as well.

You can't separate the two.

Buy one get one free.

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