Why do strippers almost exclusively have black boyfriends?
When I sat down and thought about it, almost every stripper I've ever known--regardless of their own ethnicity or state they grew up in--had black kids. Just an observation I've noticed (and apparently Randy as well).
I have several theories as to why that is, but I wanted to hear your thoughts first. Strippers: feel free to chime in here too.
I have several theories as to why that is, but I wanted to hear your thoughts first. Strippers: feel free to chime in here too.
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In standard WASP culture, a significant other that strips or has sex for money would be unacceptable. Rap music and inner city urban youths find it to be an accepted if not prized trait.
Fuck buddy, sugar daddy, friends with benefits....maybe. A real long lasting relationship? Not a chance in hell!
Anyway, I have no problems with black BFs, as along as they don't bring them to the club or pose with them on Instagram ;)
- most drug dealers are black guys? We know strippers like their drugs and you can't beat the convenience of a boyfriend. This is probably the biggest reason
- the loser boyfriends are often supported financially by the stripper, so they're literally pimps. Most pimps tend to be black dudes...
- strippers often have unstable lives typical of the American underclass (homeless/mentally ill/prisoners/unemployable) and this group is filled with black dudes
- the media glorifies thug culture and black dudes are seen as more masculine to women with low self-esteem (many strippers). These women are drawn to masculine types
- black dudes are less likely to tolerate their bullshit at home and more likely to keep them in check?
- the big dick stereotype? It's common knowledge that strippers are sluttier than other groups of women
Anyway my point is he had a theory about stripper boyfriends as well regardless of race. He would always complain that most of the strippers he would meet would have scrawny loser boyfriends that lived in their moms basements and played video games all day. His theory was strippers would only date guys that they perceived as sub-par to the their own image to protect their egos. (I.e.) if a stripper is dating a loser, that loser will put up with the bullshit and drama because they know they can't get a better girl. Which on the other hand most successful guys aren't going to put up with the bullshit and if the stripper acted up she'd be replaced quickly.
He would always give me examples and he was right. This theory also continued into bars where girls are glorified as well in places like hooters, tilted kilt, etc. I used to think he was full of shit until I found out that at that at my local (sports bar which has female only waitresses who tend to dress provocative... ) every hot girl working there was dating a black guy.
I'm not stereo typing African Americans as being lazy - it's just a common correlation that most of their boyfriends are either African American or losers.
Looks like you're outta luck if you're a WASP, You can be her sugar daddy but not her boyfriend
She says I accidentally hit her g-spot once and sadly I have no rhythm but she still loves me. Lol.
I have to agree.
Right now, with the popularity of The Shahs of Sunset, more than a number of dancers I know of have a Persian boyfriend of some means.
But I do realize who they approach in the club probably doesn't have much to do with who they choose to date.
Either way, the results of this thread (so far) don't indicate that strippers boyfriends are normally black. There's no consensus view here.
I asked this question on Stripperweb, but that faggot Yoda deleted the thread.
I wasn't looking for a consensus view to begin with. Obviously everything I wrote was based on MY opinions and observations. It is generally assumed, when you post something on an online discussion forum, that the opinions shared by posters are just that: their opinions.
Apparently my word is law around here now. Hey...cool with me. Everyone reading this sentence must give me $3000 right now.
Yes.
I *have* noticed some dancers date black guys - we do not live in a color blind society and interracial dating still raises eyebrows – if one notices a couple of dancers have black BFs; then it may appear as if this is the norm/trend – i.e. since interracial dating is still not kosher for many in society; a few white chicks dating black guys is a few too many thus making some react as if this was the norm or a trend – its kinda an overreaction IMO – I’d venture to say white dancers w/ black BFs is more of the exception and perhaps maybe just a bit more common than in general society but not by a large amount.
I have to agree …â€
@ shadow;
I don’t think td got the jab LOL
Because they have big dicks?
Oh, wait...
I wonder when bonesbrother will chime in on this matter?
+1 ranukam
Never mind. Not worth the effort to type it.
Both Blacks and strippers are often treated as though the were inferiors. The way they are treated as inferiors is often different. I think it's very hard to quantify mistreatment. But if you think you've managed to do it, I won't argue with you. Does your opinion of strippers cause you to treat them negatively, is that why you resist my comparison?
Based on years of personal experience, I do pigeonhole dancers as all being flakes. I'm sure there's some out there that aren't, but that's not been my experience. I'm amazed how to a woman they don't have the same sense of personal integrity as average people. Of course if I knew as many dancers as I do black people, maybe I'd stop thinking that way...?
Yes lots of strippers are flakey. But hello, George W. Bush was elected US President. Once again, not a unique population parameter of strippers.
BTW I'm no foaming at the mouth W hater, I'd enjoy having a few beers with the guy. I just have my doubts he'd even be able to run a supermarket well. And I'm talking one store, not a chain.
Does the same hold true for the dancer population? Not from my observations. All one has to do now is become Facebook friends with a handful of dancers. Then you can find just about every dancer in the club. Conservatively, it's about one out of four, or 25%
In other words, almost double what you would predict from the general population. So, while it's no where near what the OP suggests, it does seem to occur at a much higher rate than expected
But like I and others said - I think it very much could be regional.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TYRNxNnhP…
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hPC6-Q6l…
Strip clubs draw girls (as the commodity) because of the draw to rap and hip hop. However, a large marojity of women are not drawn into stripping because they are not drawn into rap and hip-hop.
Which strip clubs are more an more in the domain of rap and hip hop.
A white girl who likes a group like "The Cranberry's" is not going to be drawn to stirp clubs in the way that a white girl who likes .50 cents. That's just the nature of realitly. So of course in that domain a white girl is morel ikely to have a black boyfriend.
It's just a reflection the culture that presently has the greatest influence on strip clubs. It's not something that about strip clubs in an of themselves.