Comments by whodey (page 28)

I usually just use the search feature on TUSCL to find any of the dozens of discussions about this topic. I close my eyes and randomly scroll for a few seconds and whatever attire is listed in the first comment at the top of page is what I wear. This has led me to wear anything from a white three piece suit to a Scottish Kilt. There have also been some odd nights ranging from wearing nothing but liquid lapdance to a terrible night wearing heavy denim jeans and a belt buckle so large even a native Texan would say it was too big.

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That's a shame. A friend had sent me a link to a Facebook post about her being missing a few days. I thought about posting the link here in case anyone would recognize her dancing elsewhere, but the post had her real name and a couple of other personal details so it wouldn't have been appropriate to post openly.

They were using AirDrop to send them to nereby devices.

Depends on the location. If there are other options nearby that I am either familiar with or seem decent based on reviews on here I will only give it 15-30 minutes to see if I can find anyone worthwhile to spend time with. If I am in an area with no other decent options nereby I will give it at least an hour. I'll also give it longer if I had already been drinking beforehand and had to Uber to the club so I don't keep wasting money on Ubers from club to club.

I like them for short periods but I get tired of them after a while. Has this board run out of things to talk about? The fact that this discussion is about a group of actors that are all long dead. Hell, Curly stopped acting after a stroke more than 75 freaking years ago. Shemp died in 1955, how old are you that you were watching them in high school? It had to be reruns that you were watching back in high school, right?

My condolences on your transfer from Detroit to Dayton. Cheeks is bar far your best bet in Dayton but the contact level is only mild by most TUSCLers standards but it is the best in Dayton these days. Diamonds has a fantastic looking lineup of girls but the mileage is only a step above the air dance level. I have been offered takeout at Diamonds but the pricing has been WAY too high for me with several asking $1k+ so I have never followed through with it. Never been to Cheetah's but the reviews aren't too enticing. Katie's Place is a hole in the wall dump that is among the more depressing strip clubs you could ever go to. Indianapolis and Columbus are both hit or miss and can be fun with the right girl but Detroit style extras are not an option. Honestly my last couple of trips to each of them this year have been total busts. If you do make the drive I would suggest Brad's in Indianapolis and Vanity or Columbus Gold in Columbus as your best bets. The clubs across the river from Cincinnati should be avoided at all costs as a complete waste of time and money. Just across the Indiana line from Cincinnati you can try Concepts in Lawrenceburg and the do decent lapdances but nothing better than you would get at Cheeks in Dayton. Louisville and Lexington are both great options for some high mileage dances and a chance for extras. A lot of people on here prefer Lexington over Louisville but I personally prefer Louisville. I would recommend Thorobred, Pussycat Lounge and Foxy Lady in Louisville as well as Cowboys and Divas in Lexington. But honestly if you are going to drive 2.5 hours from Dayton to Louisville or Lexington you may as well drive 3 hours to Detroit instead.

Never been to Delilah's but most nude clubs don't require the girls to get fully nude. Usually the free market works it out and girls either realize they need to get naked to make money in a full nude club or they leave and work in a topless club if that is what they are comfortable with. I have met a few girls at nude clubs that charged extra to take their bottoms off but it is usually like an extra $10/song or a $20 flat fee that they charge. There isn't a pussy on earth that is worth paying $500 just to see it in a strip club. For that price extras would have to be included to be worth it. Since the club is full nude I would call her out by name in a review so others know not to buy a dance from her if they are wanting full nude.

To me a person isn't old until they hit the general retirement age in their mid 60s. Anyone from around 40-65 I would consider middle aged and now that I am 40 that is how I see myself. However, in terms of strip clubs I assume most dancers would consider anyone more than about 10-12 years older than them as old. An 18 year old stripper at the beginning of her stripping career might consider someone in their early 30s old but by the time she is 30 herself she probably doesn't consider anyone under 40 to be old. As far as how customers view strippers ages it is a completely different scale. I consider any stripper under about 22-23 to be young, any stripper from 23-32 as prime aged career wise and any dancer 33 or older as old for a dancer. I enjoy each of those age groups at different times depending on what I am looking for at the time. If I am just looking for eye candy on stage and just a couple of regular lapdances I go for a young dancer. If I am looking for a wild energetic vip I go for the prime aged dancers. If I am looking for a good conversation and a sensual vip I look for an older dancer.

I use a similar service from Kroger called Kroger Boost. It is a little cheaper since I chose the option that includes next day delivery($59/yr) instead of same day delivery ($99/yr). About the only time I go into the grocery anymore is just for certain produce and items from the butcher counter. I'll even get basic produce (bananas, apples, etc) and any packaged meats delivered and I have never had an issue with any of them. I went with Kroger instead of the Walmart option mainly because I prefer the meat and produce from Kroger. The fuel point discount program is also a nice perk with Kroger. I thought about Walmart + because of the larger selection of general merchandise but I figured most of the general merchandise I would order from Walmart I usually just order it from Amazon instead.

BubbleYum you are right that an STD is nobody's business but the person with the diagnosis. Unless that dancer is offering extras without telling the men and then that is a problem. In most jurisdictions it is illegal for someone who is diagnosed with an STD to have sex with someone without disclosing the STD. Sure the extras are illegal to begin with, but someone doing extras without disclosing a diagnosed STD is on a whole different level. Do you recall a board member (must likely a lying troll, but still) on here talking about having sex with dancers despite being diagnosed HIV+ and not telling them. He was universally attack for what he was claiming to be doing and I wouldn't blame a dancer that knew his identity if she told every dancer she could to avoid him. Why would it be any different for a dancer if she is risking spreading a disease without telling customers. Of course, in the case that started this I have know knowledge of the dancer and if the allegations are true or not or if she does extras or not. If the allegations are fake or she doesn't do extras then there is no reason for anyone to discuss her health.

If we are going to be ranting, what's with all the focus on either old geezers or young guys? What about us middle age guys in our 40s or 50s? We can offer some of the best aspects of both the old geezers and young bucks. We have more disposable income than the 20-somethings and we are in more of a rush to get dances than the retirees since we have other responsibilities to attend to so we don't need the hour long slow sales pitch. This can lead to either a series of multiple dances or a more lucrative VIP room session with just a minimal sales pitch. Who am I kidding, the dancers probably lump anyone like me who is 40+ into the old geezers category.

Wait ... you gave her money so she could go fuck another guy's BBC? Please marry her so we can enjoy the stories thar are sure to come along with this arrangement.

The areas that I have noticed it the most are Detroit, Indianapolis and to a lesser extent Columbus. Other areas of the midwest seem to have this issue on occasion, particularly either during a day shift when that day is several degrees cooler outside than it was the day before or at night after a cold front and storms passed through and dropped the temperature considerably compared to earlier in the day. It's almost like they just set the AC to full blast for the summer and they forget to adjust it as the weather fluctuates. Personally I would rather be in a club that is a little cold than one that is too hot. Besides making the girls nipples harder it is also a good excuse to either cuddle up in the main room or provide extra friction during a dance to help warm her up. I'm sure it is terrible for the girls though to be stuck wearing as little as possible in a cold building for hours.

25 both of the stimulus checks sent out by Trump where authorized by Congress. The 1st was part of the "CARES Act" passed in March 2020 and the 2nd was authorized by "Coronavirus Response and Relief Supplemental Appropriations Act of 2021" in December of 2020. There were two additional proposed stimulus checks (CARES 2 and HEROS Act) that were shot down by Congress in between those two. I'll agree the whole delay in the checks so that he could get his signature on them was his oversized ego getting in the way of what was being done. I also agree that both sides bend the rules to get what they want, but POTUS spending $300,000,000,000+ without Congress authorizing it isn't bending the rules. It is flat out ignoring the Constitution.

I am not ashamed of going to a strip club so why would I care about people seeing me go into one? I may be a little ashamed of how often I go or about how much I sometimes spend in a strip club but unless someone is stalking me they would never know about either of those just from seeing me walk in as they drive by.

25 the difference is usually they money they use to buy the votes goes through the proper congressional channels like it did with all of the stimulus checks, Trump's corporate tax cuts, the "inflation reduction act" and other bribes to the electorate.

Putting aside the issue of whether it is right to cancel the debt or not, I have a question for those who support this decision. What gives the POTUS the ability to spend that kind of money without Congress allocating it? Was the money that POTUS just committed to spending authorized by Congress in some way that I am unaware of? Both parties spend a ton of money on priorities that I don't agree with and I have resigned myself to the fact that it will continue to happen. However, usually it requires a majority of Senators and a majority in the House of Representatives to vote on authorizing it. My understanding of the Constitution was that Congress has to authorize any federal spending.

Worst. Trip. Ever.

"So then shouldn't strippers cheat left and right because we get the treatment regardless." Yes, they should. In fact, I encourage a lot of the strippers I do business with to cheat on their boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wife or whoever with me in exchange for money.

Gobstopper as a manager in a credit card company's collections department I can tell you that most credit card debt is dischargeable in bankruptcy. The main times that it isn't is if you take a cash advance or make large luxury purchases within the few months leading up to filing bankruptcy or you use the card to pay for things like tax debts or student loans that are not dischargeable under bankruptcy law. As for student loans being cleared by Biden, while I will benefit to the tune of almost $18k I don't feel that it is fair. I knew what I was doing when I took out my loans and so did anyone else who took out loans for college, or at least they should have unless the colleges were admitting people that were too stupid to understand how a loan works but that is a completely different problem. I made the choice to take out loans for school knowing full well that it would take me a couple of decades to pay them off because it was the only way I could afford to go to college. Why did I do it? I did it because I thought it was a better alternative than a lifetime of low paying and physically destructive work that I had seen everyone else in my family go through. My father is a diesel mechanic and my mother works on a factory assembly line. My older brother and most of my father's side of the family are all mechanics and most of my mother's side of the family works as manual laborers in the construction field. I knew that I didn't want to tear my body up doing anything like those trades so I racked up almost $70k worth of debt that over the past 18 years I have paid down to just under $18k based on my last statement. Since I make under $125k and received Pell grants that full remaining balance could be wiped out which would certainly help me financially. I don't think that it is the least bit fair though to think that people like my parents, brother and cousins are going to get stuck paying off my student loans when they chose not to go to college and have instead worked long hours in physically demanding jobs to pay their bills. If this was going to somehow be a cure all to stop generation after generation from continuing to go into debt to pay for college I could possibly be convinced to get on board, but it won't. Tuition is still way too high and rising quickly at public universities. The only way the government can use money to fix the problem would be to increase funding for public universities and put a cap on tuition at those universities. If they want to spend $300,000,000,000 that would be a good place to start. I also don't see how the POTUS has any legal authority to spend $300,000,000,000 of taxpayer money to do this without Congress passing any legislation to authorize it since the Constitution gives all of the power related to federal spending to Congress and not the executive branch. Even Pelosi said last year she didn't believe Biden had the legal authority to do this. In the I am glad that I went to college, but I wish I had never started law school before changing my mind and withdrawing before my 3rd year after realizing it wasn't how I wanted to spend my life. That would have saved me about $45k worth of debt. I also wish I would have worked full-time and went to school part-time like my little sister did. It took her 7 years to get her bachelor's degree but she paid her way through without any student loans. Clearly I wasn't as smart as she was about it.

He can't be an AI since that implies intelligence.

Tip #12 - Have fun however you want instead of how others tell you that you should have fun. As long as it is consensual for all parties do whatever you enjoy whether it be just tipping stage side, LDK'ing during lapdandes, FS in vip or anything in between.

I don't blame a girl (whether it is a stripper, sugar baby, escort or civie) for giving out a temporary phone number to a guy she just met. She is just being cautious because there are a lot of weird freaks out there, just look at some of the weird freaks that have been part of this board. Honestly, I use a Google voice number for all of my hobby related contacts. I have never given any girl I do p4p with my personal or work cellphone number. There are just as many crazy girls we need to be cautious of as well.

I've only had a dancer ask me to wait for a vip room once and she stayed with me for about 25 minutes before we went to the back. When I asked her why she wanted to wait she said it was because it was almost time for the day manager to leave and the night manager to take over. She said the night manager was much more laid back and while they both let the girls do whatever they wanted the day manager liked to watch it on the monitors and that creeped her out.