Porn actresses

I understand the primary area of interest here is on strip clubs and their denizen, however, I’d like to take slight detour. I suspect if you’re over 60 and have a social media account and you indicate that you’re single, you get “friend” requests frequently from young women. I normally decline after taking a peek at their page or a look at common friends.
About a year ago I checked out a request and she was very HOT with no common friends, so I accepted her as a friend. After exchanging pleasantries she said a friend had told her I’d be a good guy to know.
We switched to WhatsApp and have been texting several times a day ever since. She is 50 years younger than I, told me up front that she had made “a bunch” of short porn videos, hated herself for doing so and wanted to put her past behind her. With little urging she sent me samples and literally hundreds of pictures. She has bolt-ons and a moderate number of tats but not bad. We set up a number of times to meet noon time coffee to a $260 hotel room and she stood me up every time. However she had a verifiable excuse every time.
Then she started asking for help ($$$$) and I did send her money more than once. I did get a copy of her drivers license and frankly enjoyed our banter.
She was not working and one day she told me that she was flying to LA and would be gone a week shooting a large production porn video that would be posted on a very popular web site featuring white women and black men all with about 3 to 4 times the size of my little dingaling. She said the male actor and she had known each other years before and she was to pay a part of the production costs and would then be paid residuals based on viewership. I put up 1/2 her share and she put up the other 1/2. His estimate is that she’ll earn 25 to 30k in year one and a decreasing amount as long as it’s still getting views. About a month after her return she took off for two weeks to shoot another allegedly for a flat fee of $5k. Each shoot has a director, sound tech, photographer, lighting tech. Videographer and make up artist.
Earlier this week we finally got together and honestly I could not keep up. She is truly a very beautiful sexy woman and I’m a tired ass old man - hearing aids, false teeth, prescriptions for Viagra and Cialis.
Now she says that no other man has supported her emotionally and financially the way that I have and she wants us to marry and spend the rest of our lives together. She achieves orgasm more easily than any woman I’ve ever been with, is very comfortable pleasuring herself if I’ve “petered out” and is a joy. I’ve told her that my pension ends 30 seconds after my last heart beat and what few assets I have are in an irrevocable trust controlled by my 46 year old daughter who I don’t think would be thrilled to have a step mother 20 years younger than she.
What problems do you foresee if we were to marry? How about if we were just living together? I know where her current (old) videos are posted and it’s not a high traffic site (her videos have had 25 to 30,000 views. When her latest is posted where she thinks it’s going, most have 15 to 25 million views. I told her the everyone will know she has done porn because everyone looks at porn. She pretty much has no family and I have a daughter and 3 grandkids under 10. What do you think? Marry & move far away? There are worse ways to spend your golden years.