Comments by hoarker (page 2)

I did a club tour in Portland a week ago and have been there many times previously. There is mileage, but extras have eluded me. Unless a Portland local can provide some good intel otherwise, Portland clubs are now off my TDL. I’m done with blue balls.

You’re one lucky bastard.

He seeking the wrong kind of acting jobs. He needs to do porn and would have no shortage of gigs.

Even if she lost/broke her phone, it sounds like she knows where you live. She could seek you out. If you told her that you don’t normally go to clubs, then I would definitely not return to that one. She’ll then know you are there for her. You can’t do that. Take this advice from an above post: “If she decides to get back in touch with you - you’ve put yourself in a submissive position. That sets a bad precedent for the relationship going forward.” If you have any hope of a healthy relationship, you need to reverse this immediately. Stop smothering her with emotions and gifts. It’s psych 101. Every woman, and man for that matter, seeks leadership. Except for megalomaniacs and sociopaths. Women want strong men, not wusses. I repeat, do not go back to that club. Do not answer any texts from her for at least a week. Many of us were just like you. Making these same dumb mistakes. I wish I had advice like this when I was in my 20s.

I meant if scenario 2 is true, these actions will draw her back.

Agree with the above. There are two scenarios here: 1. She’s done with you. 2. She does love you, but is pulling back for any of many reasons. In either case, your actions should be the same. Immediately STOP!! Don’t send anymore texts to her!!! You need show control and confidence. Don’t be an emotional wus. If she texts you, ignore for at least a week or even better 3 weeks. Play it cool. Get busy with something else important that you have been meaning to do for awhile. Like going to the gym, or taking a vacation, or focusing on a big work project, training for a marathon. Then when and if you do meet up with her, you can tell her truthfully that you have been busy with important shit. You’re very young. If you’re mind is focused on her, you miss all the wonderful things that happen around you constantly. Lastly, find the radio station that has Tom Likess(sp?) show. If scenario 1 is true, these actions will draw her back.

Did you find out who yet?

You’re from Washington. That’s why the reviews don’t have what you seek. The only club where I’ve had a minimal amount of success is Pandora’s. Most will do HJ. Some will FS. And very few will BJ. Time of day is relevant. Better early. Generally, all clubs in Seattle are waste of time. No booze and no smoking.

Thanks for comments. It would be very low profile. There would no signage or advertising. Word of mouth would be the PR. And sites like this board. The camp would only be stationary for 3 days max. By the time 99% of locals, including LE, find out, it would be long gone to another venue. Local LE wouldn’t bother since they have bigger issues. Now the Feds, that’s a different story. The Feds have plenty of resources to spend issues like Stormy Daniels and investigating other illicit consenting affairs from 15 years ago. We would only select regions of the country that are debauchery-friendly. And near military bases.

6. Is the most likely.

Diamond dolls in pompano beach 3 yrs ago. 5’5” spinner cute blonde. And she was working it just like the rest of them. Agreed on 200 and we went into one of the curtained booths. She produced a condom and we went at it. I released deep. Then pulled out to take the condom off and found that the entire end of the condom was gone. Oops. Got her cell for an OTC the next day. We agreed on 400 for an hour at my hotel. Texted her the next day and she wanted 1K. Fuck no.

Another example of an accepted review: “Came in before the holidays before heading out of town. Paid the $10 cover and $5 drink and found a seat to my liking. Watched the full rotation of strippers before deciding on who to try out lap dances with. Tried out a thin blonde girl who let my hands roam for $30 per song as well as a brunette who offered me the vip but was out of my budget. Had a good time here and plan on coming back after the long weekend.”

“So how does work.. if one us who is VIP writes a review does it need to be approved by the guys as well???” If you go to daily reviews, you will see a link for unpublished reviews. Read, then decide if it is worthy.

I get it subruman. My buddy owned a sports bar. Managing the waitresses was worse than kindergarteners. I can imagine SCs are far worse. However, some clubs do well and get great reviews. And they get huge crowds. Someone pointed out on another topic, how many patrons even know about TUSCL? I bet less than 5%.

If you’re on the west coast, tnaboard.com

I prefer spinners. Compared to Serena, I would be the spinner.

Skibum nailed it. Also, before using the words racist or racism, one should consider the definition. I’ve sat at a piano many times. I must be a pianist.

I’m from Seattle. Compared to here, it’s strip club paradise. There are many. Once at casa D I saw 2 hot girls on stage going at it pussy to pussy with a 2’ double dildo. However, most clubs have cameras everywhere. I’ve never gotten extras. Lots of OTC offers though. A local pooner can provide better intel.

If you find the right club, it’s nearly a sure thing. You go in, spot the girl of your taste, small talk, strike a deal, and mission accomplished. No appointments. No screening. No bait & switch. And you can usually get a number for OTC, meaning instead of a 15 min BNG, you can meet for an hour for not much more $.

As well I agreed with ezly. I only negotiate for head. When I drank my first scotch it was gross. But then you develop a taste. Same with negotiations. Ideally, like any sale, you try to develop trust with the person. Maybe it will take you a few visits to the club. If you are a salesman and you take a client golfing do you try to make a deal on the course? Fuck no.

“The process always sucks, but such is life. I find most dancers with their salt are at least easier to negotiate with than car salesmen.“ LOL!! Absolutely. If you can’t make a deal with a car salesman, he still keeps the car and you still have your cash. With a stripper, if there is no deal, you keep your cash. What does she keep? Guys we have all the power. I negotiate business deals for a living. The pooner/stripper deal is one of the most one-sided negotiations you will ever encounter. But they do have pussy power. The worst thing in any negotiation is to have the mindset that you must have a deal. You must set a limit beforehand and be prepared to walk away.

Exactly Anthony. It does cause price inflation tho. People like me have some monthly descetionary funds. So we go to a club, and behold, some tool just dropped a G on some dancer for low mileage. Word spreads and the dancers are all giddy that it will happen to them. Instant inflation. Some old old retired dudes told me that the best time to go to a club is during day shift. On the 4th or 18th of the month. 4th, rent is 3 days late. 18th, bmw payment is 3 days late. Deflation.

I agree salty. Negotiating is all about developing trust. Buy her a drink or two. Ask her some thoughtful questions. Some clubs are factories. The dancers don’t want to socialize. They immediately want to know if you want dances and start talking $.

Outcomes: 1. In some odd twist of fate, the boss finds out. a). You get fired. b). Boss knows his daughter is a puta and doesn’t care. 2. You father her child and then you become family. You then get the magic carpet ride and leap years ahead in the company pecking order. Play it smart, shoot for option 2.