Shadow’s thread about negotiating for extras had me think of something else, the guys that don’t negotiate and pay whatever price the dancer asks for.
A few weeks ago, a few guys were sitting at a table next to mine. One guy was a regular and the other guy was a friend he brought with him.
The friend had never been to this club before. He was real talkative. In fact, he talked too much. The guy wouldn’t STFU. But, during our conversation I got some insight into the approach some of these guys take. I could tell that the guy who brought him to the club had deep pockets. A dancer came over to their table and within 10 seconds, he was taking her upstairs. The friend told me, “He’s paying her $500”.
This guy later returned to his table with a different girl who took his friend upstairs. I am certain that this guy had already paid this girl whatever her asking price was to entertain his friend.
I thought this guy was overpaying, and contributing to price inflation. There is no doubt that when this happens, word gets out to the other dancers and their prices go up and it is harder to negotiate. However, I made a very smart decision and kept my mouth shut about the whole situation. We all have our own set amount that we are willing to spend. I undestand that someone with deep pockets can comfortably spend $1000 on a strip club visit because that is just pocket change to them. It’s his money and he has the right to spend that much just as much as I have a right to refuse to spend that much.
However, this has me thinking. When you know that someone just overpaid, what thoughts go through your head and how do you react?

