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9 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
I've had a few occaisons where the girl won't ask me for money and I'll remind her. And even a few where they refuse any payment even for a few extras. And I've even had a girl offer me money because I said I was leaving because I was out of money. Been offered drinks. But I've never gone home with a stripper.
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9 years ago
Beauty is to a woman as power is to a man.
So a guy with lots of money is like a girl with a great set of tits.
It's not everything but it's just one part of the equation. I think it has more to do with how you use the money to present yourself.
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9 years ago
Strip clubs have made me a better tipper in general I think about lying conniving dancers and I think surly this guy serving my food and trying to make an honest earning deserves a better tip.
And then when I am at the club, I just think about the tip I left at dinner and think "well I tipped my waitress more than that and she didn't even have to take off her clothes."
So either way I end up throwing away a few extra bucks.
Thats why I'm a sucker.
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9 years ago
Beaver rave. Sounds awesome.
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9 years ago
I'm sure there will be a lot of dancers there being the reopening and all. Platinum west was the same way when they opened. But dances will be low mileage. And judging from the last review it's just pasties.
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9 years ago
I'll only try it if they offer it on Amazon.
Delivered by drone.
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9 years ago
What do you think it means when a dancer offers you drinks?
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9 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Everytime OTC has been mentioned to me it's always been brought up by the dancer.
I think it puts a bit of pressure on them if you straight up proposition them and it shifts their mindset when things are stated so explicitly.
I always try to treat dancers the way I would treat any other girl. And I think it requires offering some degree of plausible deniability. Women want sex on the first date just like we do. They just need an excuse. Let them blame it on the wine. The heat of the momment. Let them know you're non judgemental. If a dancer ever comments on how another stripper is giving extras I always say something like we'll who am I to judge what two consenting adults agree too or we all have to pay the bills somehow.
I think most are willing to prostitute but only if you can let them see it as something else.
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9 years ago
Eat it raw
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9 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Not my place to really judge someone. But seen a dancer once who was a burn victim and her partner was a midget. I was to weirded out to even leave a courtesy sympathy tip
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9 years ago
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BigPoppa99;)Florida-hooking up with Ms. EveHartley, since 2010!
The nude clubs I've been to have been BYOB which would be my preference anyway.
The downside is that in my limited experience, nude clubs tend to have girls that don't look as good and also a less number of girls. Plus some nude clubs limit the contact for private dances.
Going by how much fun I've had in past experiences
1. Topless-- you can always negotiate for more in VIP
2. Nude
the rest I wouldn't be interested enough to entertain. you can see bikinis at the beach. you can approach the girls and talk to them. you can strike up a conversation with anyone and i'd rather have genuine interest than paid interest. i'll pay for nudity and grinding though.
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9 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I started clubbing maybe circa 2004. It wasn't a regular thing for me, maybe once or twice a year initially. Back then I was younger, better looking, in better shape. But then it was just an opportunity to see some titties. I started going more frequently when work got busier, I had less time for dating, and I realized a night at a strip club cost less than a date and was a guarantee for a good time.
When extras were offered to me I always thought it was just a bait and switch to get me to spend more money. I never believed it. I thought dancers gave me their numbers because they just really enjoyed texting with me. I always had this preconceived notion that extras were illegal and out of the question, that strippers were professionals, and if I tried anything I'd end up arrested and on the cover of one of those "Busted" magazines at the gas station as well as on a sex offender registry.
As I entered more serious relationships and just had more experience with women in general I think my expectations changed. But it wasn't until I came to TUSCL after reading numerous reviews that I realized extras were a real thing.
Had I only known then what I knew now.
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9 years ago
Goddammit south carolina strip clubs. I've been going to the crazy horse since the platinum crackdown just to bide my time. Place is a disgusting dive but figured I'd go for the low hanging fruit. Looks like it's back to just Internet porn.
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9 years ago
So is she quitting for good or just moving over to west?
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9 years ago
A few months I was talking to a dancer with whom I'm conversational with. I'm not a regular of hers. Don't do OTC. But whenever I'm in the club she will sit and chat and give me the scoop just to kill the time.
She told me at the time that some of the girls were trying to get together to open another club at the old Heartbreakers. Said it would be "lingere modeling." I took it to mean jack shack and at the time didn't think it would ever happen. I've heard girls talk about opening their own clubs before. Always pipe dreams.
But with as lame as the club scene has gotten in columbia I really wish it would be true.
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9 years ago
Fatter girls have a harder time running away. And when they do they are easier to chase down. And catch.
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9 years ago
I'll swing in time to time to see if the rules relax any. But until things change won't be getting any dances. I noticed that at PP Columbia the room next to the bar was bouncer free.
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10 years ago
So what blows my mind is how they spent something like 10k at the Strip club. Wonder how they selected the officers for that. Volunteers? Lottery?
What also blows my mind is that the average customer spends something like $37 dollars A visit. What the hell does that buy you besides cover, a beer and something from the vending machine.
also wonder what that means for the entrapment argument since the story makes it out as though the officers came in and spent an inordinate amount of money creating and artificial scenario to trick the girls into solicitation. Wonder also if any of the officers partook.
On my last visit to PP Columbia last week I saw a few big spenders and two champagne room purchases. It makes me wonder if the same thing is about to go down Here
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10 years ago
http://www.greenvilleonline.com/story/news/local/2015/04/30/open-closed-platinum-plus-decision-come-today/26648307/
Article include affidavit I believe
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10 years ago
Laugh out a fart. That's the guy! When I read your pm I was afraid you were going to tell me you were Mr. D and to lay off the overalls.
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10 years ago
Back when Heartbreakers were still around I used to see this customer lurk around in dirty overalls and a duck hat. Probably in his 80s. Not sure what angle he was going for.
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10 years ago
Wonder where all the girls are going if the situation down in Columbia is tight as well. There's a trophy club up in asheville an hour away but very different set up
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10 years ago
I know I'm of the minority side here but negotiating a price takes the fun out of it for me.
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10 years ago
Met an Asian stripper with a peg leg. Her name was Irene.
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10 years ago
There's a huge difference between delightfully plump with a nice face and smile and the methamphetamine sunken eye look.
I usually won't give any attention to an even remotely overweight girl at a club, but there have been a few so skinny that i'll feign interest in talking to a porker just to avoid having the cachexic sit down next to me.
in my dating experience I have only gone for skinny to healthy normal. But there have been two lapses of judgement when Ive hooked up with a plump girl and from my limited experience I find what they say about fat girls and bjs generally true.