How long was it ?
Papi_Chulo
Miami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
1) From the time you started SCing regularly till you found out extras could be had in a strip club?
2) How did you find out:
+ dancer propositioned you?
+ you asked a dancer?
+ friend/fellow-clubber?
+ TUSCL?
+ other
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1) About 12 years for me believe it or not – for one I'm not much of an extras guy and my first 10 years of SCing were mostly in Dallas which is not an extras hub – I always assumed the Champagne Room was just a way to milk you out of more money but not much else going on (which was true in Dallas for the most part AFAIK)
2) I actually learned of the prevalence of extras in SCs when I joined TUSCL
2. How did I find out? A dancer unzipped me and pulled out my dick.
2) By getting laid in a strip club. :)
It's only been in the past 5-10 years that I've gone to clubs where ITC extras have been on the menu. I knew right away from TUSCL and from the dancers.
1. i'm not sure; a few weeks i guess
2. TUSCL. to this day, i've still never been offered extras. that said, most of my clubbing is done in low to mid mileage areas (due to where i live) where extras aren't common; they're rare
2) Dancer propositioned me (see above).
2). Dancer offered me a blow job. I accepted.
2. Reading reviews on a similar site to TUSCL
At another club, a girl outside kept hanging around my car. She wanted a ride. The dancer I was going out with didn't offer extras but she did a nice nude dance at her place. I usually felt a bit drained before I even saw her though. My first extra may have been another girl who invited me over to her place on Sunday. she did extras at her place. She told me she was a model and going back to Vegas the next day so I didn't see her much.
2) The first time I knew extras were available was in 2011. At one club in my tour of Indianapolis, a dancer asked if I had any boundaries. When I said no, she undid the pants, pulled out the lollipop, and licked it every now and again during the dances. Later that night, at another Indy club, the last dance turned into a mini make-out session and then a blowjob there on the main floor. And, yes, I did go back the next night.
2) Maybe I need to show more often!
Mine was the first trip back after taking a decade and a half off from the clubs. But back in 2011, I experienced paradise by the neon strip club light...
When extras were offered to me I always thought it was just a bait and switch to get me to spend more money. I never believed it. I thought dancers gave me their numbers because they just really enjoyed texting with me. I always had this preconceived notion that extras were illegal and out of the question, that strippers were professionals, and if I tried anything I'd end up arrested and on the cover of one of those "Busted" magazines at the gas station as well as on a sex offender registry.
As I entered more serious relationships and just had more experience with women in general I think my expectations changed. But it wasn't until I came to TUSCL after reading numerous reviews that I realized extras were a real thing.
Had I only known then what I knew now.