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5 years ago
Estafador "To be fair to her, you also didn't fully confirm when you'd come in. You sorta just came on your own volatile without her confirming. "
This is a HUGE point everyone else (except wyohio) seems to be missing. I get irritated if a stripper misses an appointment with me, but there was no appointment made. elitecorey, anyone inexperienced, naive, or foolish enough to believe a stripper will be there when she tells you her schedule, or the club when they tell you who is there, is just going to run into this over and over, and be frustrated over and over. As someone who typically makes appointments with his fave strippers, I will tell you I exactly follow wyohio's advice... actually, I go beyond, since I typically know when I'm going to schedule an SC trip a couple of days in advance. So on Wednesday, I'll text her, "I'm headed to the club Friday, are you working, or can you add on?", then I text her within an hour of when I'm going. If she doesn't respond to either text, either I don't go, or go to another club, or go but expect she might not be there and I'll need to switch to plan B. It is COMPLETELY unrealistic to have a stripper tell you her schedule a week in advance, and then think she'll actually stick to it. All of that is your mistake. Her mistake in not texting you back, too, given how much you've spent on her, but not the end of the world. In the end, you had a terrible experience because you had incredibly unrealistic expectations.
If you're too irritated right now to deal with her, then move on. Otherwise, I'd chalk this up to poor decisions on your part, and consider either just texting her to ask her OTC, or try to see her ITC one more time but this time follow the protocol
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5 years ago
The rickpocalypse is coming. Rickpent while you have a chance!
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5 years ago
Spoiler alert: I will not be buying any lapdances
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5 years ago
" I’d let her try to beak me."
I don't know what beaking is, but it sounds hot. Count me in!
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5 years ago
It's like the trolls aren't even trying anymore. I remember when the trolls used to have some pride. This was way back in like, February. Ever since March, it's been nothing but a disappointment
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5 years ago
Like many of the others, I admire what it took to get there, but it's peeking over into a little less-than-feminine for me. In addition, usually women with these types of bodies have man asses. Not as much with this particular girl, but she also doesn't have the most feminine ass in the world either, based on just a couple of pics
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5 years ago
The bodies I like best, tend to look best in thongs and g-strings, so that tends to be my fave. Kneesocks can often look great. Huge not-fan of school girl outfits
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5 years ago
Longball: "Try the rachet belts... trust me, you will never buy a belt with holes again."
When I'm not SCing or otherwise making use of that moneybelt (e.g., it doesn't set off the metal detector at TSA), I have moved 100% to ratchetbelts. Easy to put on, easy to take off, easy to adjust throughout the day. Love them! Still like the moneybelt better for the SC: it's cheaper, I've got the extra emergency cash, and it's indestructible
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5 years ago
I find this whole thread very ricksulting
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5 years ago
Things like weather, etc. never bothered me. In fact, in some ways I liked going on cold rainy days. Often, fewer customers show up, and I'm not made of spun sugar and have no problem with the rain or cold. However, the hour drive, and horrific traffic that can almost double that if I mis-time my entry and exit, does sometimes get me just staying home. I sometimes go on the train (and uber to the club once in the city), which avoids all the traffic and allows me to go beyond a drink an hour, but has its own pitfalls, most importantly, the train itself can take a looong time to get there if I can't nab an express, so I'll be spending a lot of time on it -- which is why we always take the train when there's a group of us, but I've gone back to driving when I'm by myself
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5 years ago
-->"Very early-on as a very-green SCer a dancer told me I should not wear belts nor jeans to the club - it actually gets in the way of the PL's and dancer's comfort"
I used to do that when I liked more "traditional" lapdances. I can definitely see LDKers and guys who just enjoy regular dances where she's grinding, to go the more "soft pants no belt" route, it makes sense. The only time I do a standard-regulation $20 lapdance these days is if I'm traveling, I only do VIP rooms locally. And there, I am happy to encourage her not to sit on stiffie and wiggle around, I'd rather her face, neck, tits, pussy, or ass be in my face, not necessarily in that order, and her hands be somewhere they shouldn't be. So jeans and belts it is; if that discourages her from sitting there and grinding, I'm ok with that!
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5 years ago
Please, 25 with the hard r
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5 years ago
Nerd confession time! I wear a money belt to the strip club like this one: https://www.amazon.com/Travel-Security-Belt-Hidden-Approved/dp/B07M7MVBR4/ref=sr_1_11?keywords=money+belt&qid=1583685284&sr=8-11 (there's a zillion of them like it on Amazon, I don't have that one specifically).
I stick $100 in the compartment as emergency cash, although I've never had to dip into it. I know you classy guys want leather, but hey, it's the strip club, it's dark so no one sees your belt anyone, plus most of us wear our shirts out I imagine. These belts do not care about lap dances, there's no holes to rip or metal shackle to be destroyed. The first one of these belts I got, I probably wore to 10 years of strip clubbing before upgrading to a belt that was a little wider -- it was otherwise still in perfect condition
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5 years ago
" I have been told that is a universal signal to wait staff to not pick up your drink.. Not sure how many patrons know that or care. "
I think that signal is universal, period; nearly anyone who goes to bars knows what it means. The card idea is cute. The one caveat I'd give is that whether you use the card or a napkin, don't drink the beverage you left.
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5 years ago
"cuck" doesn't apply to sex workers lol! I'm fine with my buddies doing dances with my CF ITC, but just prefer to keep a bit of privacy beyond that. Once he gets her a little drunk and wild, who needs her blabbing about my belly button fetish or my obsession with clumsy waitress / angry customer who got soup spilled on him roleplay.
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5 years ago
Papi: "Being that I hit mostly all-black clubs this is something that is part-and-parcel of my SCing "
I was going to say that IME, it's mostly black strippers wearing wigs. Unfortunately, natural African style hair isn't a big part of our culture's beauty standard.
My notable exception is that sometimes some of the super alt girls who have shaved their heads, also wear wigs.
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5 years ago
This isn't the first time Rando's crowed about "we're turning states blue!", oblivious to the irony that the whole reason people are leaving is because it's so fucked up here, but he thinks it's a point to brag about.
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5 years ago
"Speaking as a former Californian who escaped the people's republic, not all of us leave and try to turn our new states into what we escaped from. "
Agree. It's pretty dicky to brag about the fact that CA is so fucked up that people are leaving it in droves, going into states where there is an actual high quality of life, and then basically turning those states into adopting the policies that fucked up CA so atrociously. Bragging about it is as craven and despicable as you can get. Really. I plan to retire in a free state with lower cost of living and better quality of life, and hope that state hasn't been fucked into a mini-CA by then, by people bragging about improving that state by making it more like CA. Fucked up.
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5 years ago
Think I'd do the same as you. "oh shit I was sitting there", and if he refused to move, I'd go elsewhere, definitely not worth the hassle. Most of the time I'm SCing either with a buddy or two, or on a super slow shift, so this is never an issue -- the 3 other customers in the place would usually grab one of the other 25 tables that is unoccupied, rather than the one that's got drinks and napkins all over it :)
I have in the past done something like left a mostly-finished drink with a napkin on top -- universal symbol of "I'm coming back". When I do come back, I never touch that drink
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5 years ago
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OrgManLooking for an organization to join...
Unfortunately, I was forced out as treasurer due to the Hot Takis debacle
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5 years ago
Just because you have a tiny penis, shouldn't change the way you look for a stripper, juice
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5 years ago
This all just goes to show that strip club loyalty is like a plate of chicken chettinad. Sure, at first it's delicious and spicy, maybe rub your naan in there to pick up the sauce, but the next day, you always pay for it.
You are welcome for me sharing the wisdom of my people.
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5 years ago
Fuck those guys who go to the SC sick, though. Get their germs all over those busty beauties, who then give it to me
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5 years ago
#covidlife
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5 years ago
By "loyalty" you mean "exclusivity", Muddy? I think they're entirely separate concepts. I am probably one of the folks on tuscl who tends to get relatively closer to his CFs and ATFs than most here, and I have never cared, valued, or asked for exclusivity with any stripper or SB. I just don't see a long term future and don't see the point or value in exclusivity, especially given how easy it would be for her to be fucking someone else and just hiding it -- and a 20-something super hot partygirl is definitely going to be fucking someone besides me, I figure.
I do strongly value consistency, reliability, etc