Just some context:
- Texted her Monday so see if she would be in the club this week. She responded that she would be in every single night this week. Okay cool, so I left it at that because that's all I needed to know.
- She texts me randomly today (was debating to see her tonight anyway, or the next night for sure) with a "How's your week going? " followed by some other stupid tibid that's not important.
- I responded to her pointless text followed by a "I'm thinking of visiting you either tonight or tomorrow night". I felt this is good on my part, because if she wasn't working this would be the indication to let me know. No response back.
- Based off Mondays text, and her text today, there was no doubt in my mind she would be there tonight. I decided I wanted to do tonight anyway as I potentially had other plans the following day. So I drove up there tonight and arrived pretty early, 2 hours after the club opened.
- When I get to the club, I noticed her name wasn't on the roll call board. So I asked the club manager if she was working tonight and he said yes she is, she just went to go get food real quick. Then the manager wrote her name on the board below everyone else. So I paid the overpriced cover charge and sat my happy ass down.
- I sat around for 30 minutes in a dead club. Finally told myself I should shoot her a text seeing if she would be returning and letting her know I was there. No response.
- Well this isn't happening tonight I realized (had $1k on me for some stripper shit) and got a dance with another girl. When I went to the bathroom I looked down at my pants and saw that there was actual fucking period blood on them. Okay that's cool I guess, but don't forget the weird old man who was also in the bathroom and just splashed his hands with water without washing them during a pandemic. God damn what a night so far. So I left.
I've only seen her three times, and have dropped probably over 3k on VIPS/drinks/tips/etc etc. Too much? Potentially, I'm in a time where I have some fuck you money as I'm entering a new career. I enjoyed the ITC time, and I understand it was nothing more than that even though she has given me her real name, facebook, and she's told me her entire life. blah blah blah. She felt comfortable clearly with me, so I was going to ask for OTC tonight or after was the plan, which I definitely could of asked for sooner.
Honestly I can't say if shes fully to blame, or club is to an extent, but I still think it's bad business on her end. I really don't want to return to that club anymore as well, it's a small area club that is FUCKING dead, so it's super depressing in general with rip off prices. I'm talking no closed off VIP's, vegas pricing, and it is the most garbage club around. Should I tell her I won't be re-returning (not in fuck you kind of way, but like that was really lame) and now bring up OTC? Or just ignore her when the inevitable text comes because her business is that bad and left a client pissed off with period blooded pants I just bought lol.
Thanks and sorry for the long post .

