Comments by duomaxwell

And when no one is looking you fire up the ol' digital porno machine and head right on over to blondes gettin' blacked

It's the incels that really get me

I was in a champagne room where a relatively famous porn star was doing a room after her feature set next door. For $16k. I heard a lot of sex noises.

He ain't lyin' *shrug*

There was a mixed Indian girl working at Delilah's back when I worked there in... 2012, maybe?

Some cities/counties require a license. Vegas & Atlanta are the two that come to mind. And Baton Rouge. Frankly, I'm not comfortable with the whole licensing aspect. Especially if that information is publicly accessible, there are some people that come into clubs that I am just not comfortable with knowing my full name/address.

Heh, we all know letting her sell you dances is a chumps game! Front room makeout sesh and then RDNPO.

If you're looking for a specific "type" of girl, definitely ask the staff. Not all of the dancers hang out on the floor all of the time, so if Phat Ass is upstairs in the dressing room someone will fetch her for you.

@rockstar666 I only know a couple escorts but if they are in a relationship it's usually open or polyamorous. I'd think that those kinds of things are a lot easier to manage if you're escorting?

If you have a group of 5 girls: Girl 1 is single, Girl 2 is in a committed relationship, Girl 3 is dating around, Girl 4 is in a shitty relationship and Girl 5 is a lesbian.

I prefer the D.E.N.N.I.S system

^ that's in interesting point about how negotiations would work in a SC economy where somebody's income is dependent on regulars. In OPs post he said he saw them once/twice a month with time in between...so his ability to talk them down would largely depend on whether or not they care about the additional income.

You can always try to renegotiate, but you have to realize that since these girls (particularly the Vegas one) have a) other options and b) have become accustomed to the price they'll likely either walk or not be as enthusiastic. Once you've become accustomed to making a certain amount of money it becomes thoroughly unenticing to accept less. And depending on where you live it's pretty easy to find guys that will actually just pay you for your time. If YOU think it's worth it, keep paying, but you'd have a lot better luck just extending the time spent with them than trying to reduce the price at this point.

@larryfisherman that's a percentage to be sure, but IME it's a small one. The majority have a back-up plan, a side hustle, alternate streams of income OR are financially savvy career strippers. If they had a 9 to 5 to go back to then wouldn't that mean that they had qualifications aside from stripping? This could also be entirely dependent on where they work but if someone has been dancing up to the age of 35 they've probably had a bit of work done to ensure they can stay in the game a little longer. That 35 year old you're thinking of is probably closer to 50 and has a house, a husband, and a couple grandkids they aren't talking about in the club :)

@GoVikings OH HI!!

OH, and another thing that I would like to add about the reasons that some women become strippers: child rearing. For most women it's either having a child or having a successful career. Paid maternity leave isn't as common as you'd think (some people have to use a combination of paid sick leave/vacation time) and with the current political climate it's going to become rarer. This is one of the only industries where there's a high earning potential and really no limit to the amount of time off you can take. Women can work while their children are in school during the day OR work at night after their children are asleep so they can spend time with them during the day. It's just a very pragmatic choice for some women.

Anyone who uses Tinder.

@subraman apparently Deja Vu has a monopoly in SF and owns ALL of the clubs, so that one is either not affiliated with the Penthouse chain OR is used with permission of the owner of the magazine like with the Hustler/Barely Legal clubs.

postuler pour un travail

Just about all of the girls that I've worked with over the years are either married or in a serious relationship. Those relationships are subject to the same rate of failure/success as any other relationship in America. There are doctors and lawyers with drug problems, there are strippers that cook for everyone in the club and plan baby showers in pole studios for their friends. There are married men that are unfaithful--as evidenced from a lot of the comments here ;). The same pitfalls exist when dating ANYONE, HOWEVER most people don't date too far out of their socioeconomic sphere ... so, if you are someone dating a girl that you met at a strip club (especially if the "relationship" is or starts out being a compensated one) that you would not have otherwise met anywhere else there exists a different set of issues.The "relationship" being seen as a business transaction is an issue. As an aside, beautiful people can have fucked up pasts too. That's why you'll get trailer trash that work in upscale clubs and plain looking grad students in dives. It's an actual grab bag and you are never going to be sure what "kind" of stripper you'll be dealing with. I know girls that have married their regulars and went on to have children and be happy as clams. I also know girls that come into the dressing room and act genuinely confused about why some guy keeps bringing her flowers at work and texting her that he already misses her after they did a champagne room.

Have you considered going into the establishments that you wish to work at and perhaps... filling out an application?

That's just plain rude.

Deja Vu/Larry Flynt's Hustler Clubs are run by the same people, certain clubs have a regional manager and the day-to-day operations are very homogenized with the only real differences being state/city laws (Hustler in Baltimore is nude, Hustler in NOLA is topless, etc.) I work at a Hustler club. There's a Scores in New Orleans that (afaik) isn't affiliated with the Scores in NYC; the Rick's Cabaret in New Orleans is also not affiliated with the Rick's in NYC either. Penthouse clubs are all affiliated with each other. Really, the only thing that the "brand name" can tell you is whether or not the girls will be high quality lookswise. Penthouse is notorious for only hiring girls with the "Penthouse" look. That's really why they're paying to use the name, so the name will do the advertising for them.

"Bitchy" doesn't work, "Confident and fun" works. It's all about (to borrow from the PUA lexicon) how you "frame" the interaction.