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6 years ago
Management of a club can establish the attitudes of the dancers and also what they are supposed to sell to patrons so they can profit. Its also a baseline that sets what type of dancers they generally attract and keep. So yea it matters but individual personalities still vary all over the map but you might get more of one type at a certain club vs. another.
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6 years ago
Many of us appreciate your candor Nina. Its good stuff for pl debates and navel gazing.
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6 years ago
Probably no.
I have an image like fucking Fran Drescher (who is physically hot) and then listening to that horrible nasally voice "ohhhh baaaaby, yeeya, yeeya, ohhh my gawwd". SMH
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6 years ago
Taking the story at face value its really not about Nina its just about the pl and why he wants to give away his money. She of course accepts free money with no expressed obligations. Its a different story if its here is X if we can do Y which is a verbal agreement and its not fulfilled. But thats not the story here.
Why do some guys do it? I think its simply because it makes them feel good they are helping someone else out. It could be a Karma thing or just feeling sorry for someone in apparent need. He could have been RIL angling for something more but gambling she would take the next action but he did not want to establish himself as a typical p4p pl. Who knows, we would have to ask him.
I only did that once years ago with an established 2 year relationship to help my once ATF to finish school. I thought it might demonstrate my commitment to be there as her go-to main guy as I was RIL. I also ended up regretting it as she showed little appreciation for my assistance and in fact starting hustling for more and was seeing me less. This was like a splash of cold water on my face and a realization I was just another pl to hustle. It wasnt long after that we both moved on with me the wiser. Not my proudest moment but I learned a hard lesson early on which did not cost me too much from my bankroll.
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6 years ago
"Yes, a lap dance is so much better when the stripper is cryin"
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6 years ago
No. But I know one local stripper I used to hang out with posted here and she saw my reviews/messages and and said I was naughty. Apparently not too naughty or just naughty enough ;)
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7 years ago
He obviously got her respect lol
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7 years ago
Papi I think Jack got it right and I Jack I was thinking the same thing. But yes Farmerarts ATF story is a great example of misguided PL behavior that applies in this case.
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7 years ago
Haha BJ. One regular local divorcee who has a hot lean body and enhanced boobs. She wants to see me all the time but I try and keep it regulated to on occasion so she/we dont develop feelings. One other married girl I rarely see in my travels but we keep in touch. I actually have tried to avoid these as a married guy and the baggage it can bring. But in your case BJ I am willing to make another exception and am ready for tryouts :P
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7 years ago
I would say its an amateur cockblocking move than can irritate a dancer if its an overzelous minnow. Saying that I will tip a girl at several stages if she is not getting any action and we are already locked up for dances. If she is mine later and getting the $$ on the stage I stay the hell out of the way from her income.
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7 years ago
Its the opposite of "...I left with blue balls and was pissed".
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7 years ago
Never
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7 years ago
Cashman I have eaten at Rachels a couple of times and the steaks were outstanding (the filet oscar was amazing). Easily competing with a upper tier steakhouse.
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7 years ago
Lol. I was there a couple years ago and they claimed they had better food than Rachels. I diddnt eat but did ultimately go OTC with a dancer. Now we know the secret ingrediant. Yuck!
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7 years ago
Lol. Good one!
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7 years ago
I would not be that nice if she was that full of shit. You made it easy for her and you. But then again one of my pet peeves is someone wasting my time or late/ no show.
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7 years ago
Prescreening with something like Snapchat, Whatsapp, Kik...helps prevent this situation. I have done distance SA relationships and will only go that route for an exceptional girl. Its a pain in the ass when there are plenty of local options. Present girl is like 10 minutes from work and life is super easy.
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7 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
Lol I better clarify since I hit submit too soon. I just got C just once and at the time had three partners, dancer and two SA girls.
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7 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
The other two were SA girls, one covered the other uncovered. I have no idea on the source but it got handled.
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7 years ago
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I did get Chlamidya once and definately figured out something was not right with Mr. Citizen. He was itchy and sneezy. I figured it was from impulsiveness with one low volume dancer and was a regular bb (who had implant birth control). I took care of it immediately by going to the doc and did the right thing and told all three right away as soon as I was diagnosed. All three were appreciative
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7 years ago
16 or early 17 with an older college art school girl. I just remembered the funny awkward shit when I put the condom on the wrong way (lube on inside) and when I came and pulled out there was no condom...oops how embarresing :). She pulled it out and fortunately she was on the pill too.
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7 years ago
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Getting an honest answer to this questionon this forum would be like a stripper polling stripperweb for "How many of you do extras?"
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7 years ago
With all due respect 8 mile road is a border area and not that bad as much as its made out to to be. There really rough ares to the south of that where most of the trouble occurs. Its relatively safe during the day and you just need tp exercise basic precautions like not getting gas at 1am or loitering about. I felt much less safe in strip club places like East St. Louis, MO or Hammond Indiana.
Dont let the negative hype spoil your potential fun. Get in, valet and get out, no worries.
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7 years ago
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