Comments by Diva1975 (page 22)

I also dance at a club in nj. My advice to you is to not do anything that crosses your boundaries or makes you uncomfortable. It will erode your self esteem. Also set an income goal and an exit strategy because you do not want to do this career long term. I wish you the best of luck!

Not at all Steve. I was just trying to make an analogy!

No it's just a question of free time. If you're doing ITC and OTC there is no time left to be your authentic self. That's just me though.

I think as a dancer I can offer some insight as to why a girl does not want to meet up outside of the club. It's about boundaries. At the club we are portraying a fantasy and this amount of pretending can be exhausting. So when works over, work is over simple as that. Would you bureaucrats enjoy bringing stacks of paperwork home with you every night? Of course not.

Your discussions belong on another blog

This is the most depressing thread I have ever read. No wonder strip clubs exist, as an escape from reality. Even as a dancer I sometimes enjoy the escape too.

Impressive!

I work in a topless bar, and we have to take our tops off within 30 seconds of first song, regardless of who is tipping or not tipping. Management is very strict about this.

If you're paying for VIP she shouldn't mind, unless she's totally uptight and in the wrong line of work

Yes, I've worked in clubs that fail to understand this concept and they all eventually shut down

Ok flu shot is on this week's to do list. Thanks for everybody's input.

I agree 3 legged, it is a very intimate act, which is an interesting indication that a lot of guys who go to strip clubs are more starved for intimacy than they are for sex.

That was just plain rude on her part. I'm sorry you had that experience. I think we dancers tend to take the kind men for granted while getting walked all over by pieces of shit. Live and learn.

That is one sick fuck. I vehemently agree with JohnSmith69: if this man truly wanted to pray for these women, God surely has their names on file. Wow.

WOW!

Thanks guys. I actually was going to stick up for jerikson,because it seemed to me that he was an unfair target of bullying, but now I understand why people pick on him. I understand that men, especially the ones on this forum, are driven by sex, hell that's what keeps the species going. I don't mind the raunchy humor I think I was a dirty old man in a past life. Thank you for all the positive feedback I will post more in the future:)

I thought it meant pussy lover lol

Thanks clubber! You guys shouldn't call yourselves that!

What is a PL?

Well the sentiment was nice at least

Giving a dancer a $20 gift card to the Dollar Tree is downright insulting, and I think you are intelligent enough to know that, so I can't help but come to the conclusion that you have some very condescending attitudes towards certain dancers. Very catty in my opinion. Mery Christmas Trixxi