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13 years ago
However much she thinks she's worth
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13 years ago
I'll put a different spin on things. Because of my profession and the things I see, if I were to marry, infidelity would be grounds for divorce. I don't consider infidelity to be a safe zone nor is it safe in general. I believe this whole " monogamy isn't for everyone" and "it doesn't mean you don't love your wife" shit only works if she is kept abreast of what is going on and you have a mutual agreement. I don't believe, though, that any man it woman needs to deal with it based on this whole "nature" crap. People that feel the need to cheat without their partner knowing are lacking somewhere. Humans want what they can't have...but wait...they can have it. They can have their cake and eat it too. Why? because they want to. This is what is wrong with people and the family system these days. People need to learn self control. Just because you want something doesn't make it good or right.
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13 years ago
A partial bj is cheating. Regardless, you do need to find ways to get some of your needs satisfied. You should have a talk with your wife. She should know how you're feeling. All else fails, get on anti depressants. They'll kill your sex drive and you won't even miss it. Jk :) bad joke maybe
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13 years ago
@dolfan- I usually ask someone within three to five minutes if they want to dance. I don't camp out but I don't just fly by asking "wanna dance". I think a good balance would be saying your hellos and if you know right away you don't want to dance or you're waiting for someone, just say it. Id say hello though, and then move on. Most girls will be ok with that. It rarely happens but every once in awhile I will get someone who says no before I've even said hello. Im very quick and I have a rebuttal for everything. I mean everything. You say no in one second and I have ten things to say back that will make you say "ya know, I think I will try one".
If you've been nice and a dancer is too sensitive, it isn't your fault.
If you don't want to flat out say no right away but you want her to know you're not interested, don't make eye contact when she's speaking. I know that sounds crappy but eye contact equals interest. If you truly have a stage five clinger, you're going to have to just going to have to tell her to get lost.
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13 years ago
Oh for gods sake I hate this auto correct.
Miss - piss
Dander- dancer
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13 years ago
The quickest way to miss off a dancer is to tell them you don't want a dance within the first couple of seconds they walk up to you, before they've asked. Customers who do are usually screamed at or on their way home depending on the mood of the dander that night. Seen it a million times.
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13 years ago
It wasn't right of you to do that. Pride and ego got the best of you. If you don't want women to walk all over you, don't go to strip clubs, don't get married, don't walk down the street. Some of us do it intentionally, some do not. Everyone is known to tell lies in the club, customers and dancers. Just blow it off and find someone new.
If she had found out, would she know it was you? Because your "you shit on me and I get even" comment could be thrown back in your face if she is as hateful as you are.
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13 years ago
@steve229- yes, you can deduct those things as an independent contractor.
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13 years ago
@looneylarry- yup!
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13 years ago
Clubgoer- As you know, my stance on the whole thing is....Arghh!
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13 years ago
It's tough out there for a stripper. Pimpin ain't easy either.
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13 years ago
@rickdugan-How could you trash Vicki's secret? Im so pissed lol
And for the rest of you, I had no idea customers had significant others. All this time I thought I was their only one. This blows!
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13 years ago
@alucard- you're sweet.
@looneylarry- I figured that was the case.
@rlionheart- now thats a thought.:)
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13 years ago
@muchfun- I read your earlier post. For the record, I don't have free sex with asshole bastards outside or inside the club. Nice guys finish first inside and outside the club with me. Honest guys also. Ive slept with three assholes in my life and that was before I started dancing. That was enough for me. Plus I believe I'm past the " I love guys who treat me like dirt" phase.
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13 years ago
@looneylarry- Mmmm what kind of salute?
@alucard- I like nice guys. All of my serious regulars are nice guys. They follow through with things, they show appreciation for me, they are as honest as you can expect from a customer. I'm comfortable with them. I don't usually have a lasting club relationship with an asshole. We'll see eachother a couple times and then it fizzles. Many of my coworkers may.disagree but I also stay away from the really drunk customers. Some girls will tell you the drunker they are, the easier they are. I find the opposite to be true.
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13 years ago
@looneylarry and alucard- That is a statement of fact. I figured I'd catch a little shit for that.
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13 years ago
I understand the dancers side, obviously, and I also can see the customers side. Every regular of mine that goes and dances with someone else always comes back. So please, go dance with other girls and have a great time but you'll always come back. No one does it like I do.
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13 years ago
My dislike for Obama has been growing at a considerable rate since he was elected. I won't be voting for him next year.
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13 years ago
Many people talk about not getting violent, getting "blocked out" and finding another dancer, etc.. These are good ideas. There are customers though, I've had one in particular, who don't see finding another dancer or not getting emotional over one particular dancer an option. I am speaking in full honesty when I say this. This customer spent $1500 on me a week without fail for a year an a half. Three days of $500 dances. He honestly thought that the money he spent bought him rights to me. He.would be at the club when I arrived and walk up to my car to make sure "there weren't any guys in there". He wrote me checks for lap dances because he "wanted me to know his address". He had memorized my license plate. He didn't want a backup, he wanted me. I'm glad I got away from him.
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13 years ago
I've dealt with really creepy shit more than a few times. Ive learned to be very alert and careful.
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13 years ago
@looneylarry- Thanks
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13 years ago
@stenton- you honestly can't see the difference between stripping on a stage to an audience who pays admission and being discussed on the worldwide web?
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13 years ago
While I'm usually not on the customer end, when I do find myself as a customer, facial looks and body are important but I would say how the dancer moves across the room and carries herself is important.
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13 years ago
Send it my way lover
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13 years ago
Wow joejos12..nice