Comments by jayhawk123 (page 4)

Exactly what I was going to say

I am guessing this was directed at Larry

I don't believe you when you say you will not talk to or get VIP from ex ATF again. I don't believe you for two reasons. First because you said you would "probably" not do VIP with her again and secondly you were all mad at her for tantrum but all she had to do is going decide to come over to you and all was good with you again and you went to VIP when she asked you. Trust me I understand.

The only club in Tampa I have been to is Mons. One time I went and only saw like 3 to 5 dancers during weekday but the one I saw on stage was best looking dancer I had seen up to that point so I didn't need 50 girls there. The other 2 times were a Friday and Saturday about midnight and it seemed like things were just starting to get real busy. I had a hot girl about every 30 seconds walking up to me standing by the wall putting her hand on my chest or trying to take my hand to lead me to a dance. I said no about 15 times to girls that would be probably the best looking girl at my home club but I had heard about Mons and was being picky and waiting not wanting to settle for an 8 or 9 but waited for a 10 and finally this blonde 10 walked up to me and I said sure. Got dances from her that night and went back the next night and she saw me about 10 minutes after I walked in and remembered my name which shocked me because she knew I was from out of town and didn't know if she would ever see me again.

That is a 10 in my book unless she has a bad attitude and personality then she loses a point

I agree with what was mentioned above with personality adding to the number. My CF is a 9 but when you add on her personality and just how fun she is to talk too then she becomes a 10 to me.

The last link above shows video of her nude

I had a CF once agree to dinner after cancelling many times. An hour before we meet she texts and says she is $100 short of being able to pay her car repairs and asks me if I can give her $100 when we meet for dinner. She says she will "owe me big time". So when I pick her up for dinner I ask her what she meant by owing me big time. I think she thought I was just going to give her the money and didn't think I would ask that. She agreed to give me 5 free dances ($100 value at her club) the next time I came in. I wasn't convinced she would follow thru on the promise but I had been a regular for a year and don't think she wanted to lose my business. She didn't do 5 free all the next visit. We did 1st three dances were free the 1st visit then next visit the first 2 were free so she followed thru on her promise

she looked great to me

You missed my point. It is always said on here that a dancer won't text back very often or it will take awhile if it is just small talk but will text immediately if asking about when they are working. That was my point.

Wow...buying a dancer a car? Don't do it. I have a dancer that I thought was really cool and I could trust up until last week. Now have not heard from in almost a week and I didn't even give her anything. I am very glad for that.

@cashman....thanks. I intend to enjoy it while it lasts

"They are willing to do everything for a reasonable price" I just want to know what JS69 feels is a reasonable price...I am sure way more than I would call reasonable...haha

I appreciate the responses. My thing is why does a dancer feel the need to offer up that they will text me tomorrow about OTC that we discussed in the club if she has no intention of actually texting me? I mean all she has to do is not promise things she isn't going to follow thru on. I know...you guys are going to say that is how they string you along. There are 2 dancers right now that are getting ready to get dropped from the rotation.

@war...why do you say to text only and not talk on phone? Also how do you get them to text with you EVERY day?

My new CF comes over and cuddles up with me. She will put her leg over mine. She will offer to give a neck, back rub. Will do a few dances then just sit and talk for awhile. Last time I saw her she spent 3 hours hanging with me.

I have heard many times that the battery died so they couldn't text me back until the next day. I have a charger in my house and one in my car to make sure my phone doesn't die and I am not a dancer who like mentioned above needs to have it to keep regulars

I hate when this happens. I had an old CF that would say I will be right back (bathroom or whatever). She would stop and hug and chat with either other customers or other dancers while I am waiting for her to do dances.

@JS69...I sent you a PM

@Rickdugan...I sent you a PM

@JS69...I sent you a PM

@Shailynn...where did you read anywhere that I have offered her meeting on neutral ground and she has rebuffed it? That was never said. She suggested her place from start and I said ok

I agree with Orlando. When I was there after the 1st air dance I asked the girl if that is all she could do and she said yes. She suggested Tampa or I think Cocoa Beach or something.

@Sam...yes that is what is odd in my mind that she was so willing to say we could go back to her place like it was no big deal. She says she can tell I am a good guy and feels safe. I even brought up with her asking if any boyfriend or crazy ex that may be around and she said No