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15 years ago
As far as ther topic of diminished sexual desire, I would have to say for me it has been just the opposite. This venture has has added quite a bit of spice to my relationship and I personally have been more active than I have ever been.
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15 years ago
It is of my opinion that a light gentle kiss on the lips does work, as far as a french kiss.....it just does not seem like the right place for this.
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15 years ago
Thank yo uvery much Neoloki!!!!!!!!
So very kind of you!!!
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15 years ago
TUSCL_Brother- Sounds like you have had some experience with this situation. I think you have it all figured out. I am still working on honing my skills in this department.
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15 years ago
Guys,
From my experience, I would recomend a loose fitting pair of pants with nothing underneath. I would make sure if they have a zipper that they hang low as the zipper could cause a degree of discomfort while the extra's are supplied.
That's my two cents.........
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15 years ago
I can see where you may feel that way as did i. But when it comes to entering in your personal data to be a member.......it makes me a bit nervous.
Add that to what I was told about the place and it can be perplexing to say the least.
For me......I will stay away.
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15 years ago
Urban legend....very possible.
For me, not even worth the risk. Be certain, more valuable information available on this site as opposed to the pink one.
Judy
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15 years ago
Kale15,
There are a few things you must consider when entering into this venture. I am quite new to this whole thing and have learned a bit about it.
The first thing you need to ask yourselves is why are you guys considering this.- Is it for financial reasons? If so you must take a good look at your marriage to see if it is strong enough to go through this. Right now you may say yes but you must also consider the changes in your wife as well as the relationship.How do you feel about your wife being asked for "extras" and then following through on them.
Next, is this purely an idea to have some fun? If so I would recommend you leave it at just that. With that being said I would limit your "fun" to an occational visit.
If you would like to discuss this further....please give me a shout and I can share with you some of my experiences and then you can wieght things out for you two
Judy
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15 years ago
Shadow,
I would certainly participate in something like this. It sounds like fun. Situation would have to be right for me.
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15 years ago
is this a joke?
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15 years ago
soliciting
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15 years ago
I have done a total of 8 LD'S in my life and I never negotiated a price prior to the dance. I agreed to dance when I was asked. Keep in mind I was not a regular at the club and was not walking around sliciting dances. I was approached by the guy in each and every case, and 3 of the times it was while I was sitting at my table. Anyway I never quoted a price and the least I recieved was 20.00 and the most was 50.00.
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15 years ago
well, I may be a bit new to this but it seems to me that once some trust is established ...why not just ask?
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15 years ago
Well if that were the case Book Guy I would certainly admit to it. But it is not...I am merely trying to learn a bit here.
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15 years ago
Well, I can tell you guys this....flattery will get you everywhere.
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15 years ago
Thanks for all the feedback......i will do everything I can not to be in the way or cause problems.
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15 years ago
I assume you a referring to me Shadow.....And you are right , I am here for the curiousity. Not sure how long I will remain curious. You all certainly have some great points of view. I can assure you this, I am not looking to drum up any business. Once again just having some fun in life....trying not to hurt anyone along the way.
So now I guess I must ask....am I in anyway causing problems for you or any other guests of this site?
I certainly hope not as I have already explained my intent.
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15 years ago
Thank you all for your input on this!!!!!!
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15 years ago
Thanks for your input on this!!!!
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15 years ago
If I look back to the post ARE YOU GOAL ORIENTED....I get mixed feeling on what you guys want. I guess it varies by individual. Was wondering if there was one thing that you all had in common......remember I aim to please!!!!!!!!!1
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15 years ago
can't we all just get along?
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15 years ago
Well, I have to tell you...I am really enjoying this whole thing. It is very exciting for me. I will not be a full time dancer ever...not even a part time dancer. This is strictly for my pleasure, and I have to tell you with that being said it allows me to be more effective when I do chooose to dance.
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15 years ago
I sure hope I did not cause a problem here.....sorry if I did.
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15 years ago
Having only done this once, I think it is imperative that a dancer have some rules...to be broke at her descretion.
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15 years ago
Do dancers actually give out HJ's and BJ's at the clubs?