Comments by Notsosly (page 5)

Miami-Fort Lauderdale area has VERY high mileage and isn't that expensive, it's my personal favorite city (of the ones I've been to) for such things. San Diego has hot dancers, but ZERO mileage, though in some clubs, a lot of OTC action is offered. Las Vegas is EXTREMELY expensive (in relation to other clubs in Miami/San Diego), but the women are unreal beautiful and there are large quantities of them. However, it's very hard to get actual HJ/BJ/FS type of mileage, but hands can roam.

Depends on where in CA. In San Diego, topless is a full bar, but fully nude is juice bar only. And all dances are air dances or very strict 1-way contact for the most part. This is why San Diego sucks for SCs, and most people go to Vegas or TJ to get their fix.

The club I most frequent is, at times, probably half full with "just-of-the-boat" cubans, and central and south americans. About half of them can speak enough english to hold a conversation with me, and some do it just to increase their english skills (cudos!). But there are several of them who speak only the most basic "wanna dance" or "you tip me for dance?" english, and only for those two purposes do they speak to a white boy like me. They almost always stick with the latinos customers in the club, and I'll only get them to come over to me if I flag them down and ask them to get a dance.

Depends on if I have a lot of time, and what I can spend. Less time/money, I just go in looking to have a beer or two, kill some time, maybe get a lap dance or two... but I don't really expect extras (since I can't afford them!). It's great when they happen for free though. More time/money, I go in to get FS. What I'm looking for also determines which club I'm going to. If I just want to get in/get out with a quick BJ or FS, then I'll go to a place like the Pink Pony in Doral, FL, where the girls are essentially hookers and get right to the point. If I'm looking to chill out and enjoy some beers and a game and several different dancers over the span of several hours, I'll go to Showgirls in south dade. But yeah, I always have a financial goal (limit), and almost always have a mileage goal.

Depends on a ton of factors.... What am I wearing (pants? shorts) and how thin/soft/loose are they? How much have I had to drink? Did I fire off a practice round before coming to the club, or have I been having a lot of it over the past few days/weeks? All that considered, the girl has to pin it just in the right spot and has to be doing a lot more than just grinding (e.g. kissing, sucking ear lobes or my neck, using her hands all over, etc). She also has to be into it herself, or at least a very good actress. Basically what I'm saying is that depending on the factors I could get off in just a couple dances with the right dancer and all those things lined up, or I could never get off. It just depends. I prefer not to, as I'd rather enjoy the extras later on!

I personally don't care one way or the other, but like Chandler says, its more about the spirit of the spank than the fact its happening. My ATF does it and its always a good thing. ------------------------------------------------- ^^^ This. ^^^

high heel. I'm only 5'9" so those big lift/platform shoes invariably make the stripper taller than me, which I'm not really a fan of.

Apology accepted. Heh. Yeah, totally agree with Chandler here.

I agree with Chandler. I'd only consider it if the club has a rock-solid reputation (in terms of management and staying power) and has been established for several years... and that I live in the area and am going to be frequenting the club enough that I recoup my money!

Lol, just being in Miami requires one to habla espanol! I swear that city is a latin country unto itself.

Meh, to each their own. Some prefer the svelte 20-something bodies (I do too), some prefer more voluptuous, full-figured women. Could Judy stand to lose a few pounds and firm up some areas like her mid-section and legs? Yeah... but nothing that couldn't be fixed in a month or two of working on it. If she begins dancing--and/or hitting the gym--regularly, those pounds will probably drop off quickly, and the legs/belly will firm up. Her rack (it's a nice one btw!) seems to roughly match her hips, so that's good.

I'd stay far away from them, imo, because yes, they are "scammy" in that they use your IP address to show you girls "in your area" but those girls are the same ones for all of us. I know at work, my IP makes it look like I'm in the Atlanta, GA area, while my home IP shows my true location. They are the same girls with the same names in the adds. My advice is to hit up theeroticreview.com and find one of those if you are interested. And in my experience, you are FAR better off avoiding the service provider companies. Instead, look for the independent girls. Service provider companies always require a minimum fee up front (most seem between $200 and $300), before you even begin to negotiate services with the girl. Also, they NEVER send you the girl in the picture, and in fact many of the pictures are just stolen from online porn sites or purchased stock footage. There are tons of independent girls on TER. It's very much like this site. I've heard some mixed reviews about adultfriendfinder.com and other similar sites. Some rave about it and say they've found several booty-call-buddies from it, others say it's mostly just hookers broadening their marketing campaign. I will say that most of the girls on those sites seem to be of the heavier variety from what little I've seen. But YMMV.

Yeah, that's the problem. Women hit their stride between 35 and 50. Men hit theirs right around 18-25. At 18, I would have thought I'd died and gone to heaven if a well-built, good-looking 35-40 year old woman "taught me the ropes." I know most 18 year old males probably feel/felt the same. You go girl! Have some fun! Unleash your inner cougar!

Never even heard of that club. Glad it wasn't one of my favorites!

I like costumes (catholic school girl is my favorite), as long as it's not too involved (saw a dancer once in a head-to-toe "sexy stormtrooper outfit... she was WAY into star wars). But simple thong or lingerie work for me too. I'm not a fan of the full dresses or gowns that some places have the girls wear. I also hate pasties and the nylon briefs some counties require girls wear when they have on thongs. I know some people must like them, but fishnets really turn me off. Whether they are stockings or those long gloves, or whatever. I remember one dancer that I used to get a ton of dances with came out one day wearing a fishnet dress, completely naked underneath. After a few turn downs, she finally got me to admit my "problem" was her outfit. She lauged and went back to the dressing room and returned in a much better outfit.

I only have 2 on mine at the moment. One is because I frequent their place the most and I want to know if anything new has been posted. The second and third are Treasures in Houston, TX and Foxy in El Paso, TX, because I'm going to them in a month and like to have a quick link to see any new reviews. I'll likely remove them once I've been and gone. And in the future I'll add clubs I like to keep track of, or ones where I am a regular.

A longtime friend of the family got busted by his wife when she walked in on him... ah... "mid-coitus" with a mother-daughter combo. It was quite the scandal in the small southern town where it happened. Personally, the "cougar and youngin" version of a 3-some is pretty hot. But the addition of the "mother-daughter" facet of it really doesn't do anything for me... other than make me feel vaguely creepy.

antiseptic mouthwash doesn't do anything vs. viral STDs (HIV, Herpes) because virii aren't "living" and therefore can't be "killed" by any anti-bacterial/anti-biotic. Personally, those would be the 2 that I would be most worried about, so ya.... It doesn't help at all.

In a group of buddies where we're having a party, or watching a game or something, I prefer a little crowded (but not standing room only). Alone, like I usually am, I prefer far less crowded and laid back. You get more time with dancers to chat them up, and feel them out regarding whether you should get a dance from them or not... plus they tend to have less of the "wannadance" robots.

I know here in South FL, I seem to hear about a club getting raided about once a year or so... but then again, I likely don't hear about them all. And South FL SCs are far more raunchy than the other parts of the country I've been too (but that's not saying much, as I haven't been to SCs in a lot of different places... San Diego, L.A., Las Vegas, and South Florida is about it).

Lol, Jablake... you can be a real buzz-kill on a SC message board.

I think the clubs would probably hire a couple girls to go around selling it... I can see some little half-naked spinner with bloodshot eyes walking around with a tray asking, "Alcapulco Gold? Purple Skunk? Bubonic Chronic?" As for my own personal views, it should have been legalized, regulated, and taxed by the government long ago. I probably would partake now and then, but I'm sure it would eventually become like cigarettes are to me now... a smelly, annoying irritant. Jablake -- There are many versions of testing for marijuana use, and with many different sensitivity thresholds. Some will pick up second hand smoke, some only pick up regular use... and still others for every level of use in between. It depends on how stringent the company/organization wants to be. Sounds like the military wasn't that stringent. I know a couple buddies who work at a defense contractor who say they could test positive from just watching a trailer for a cheech and chong movie. Secondly, if you tell an officer that "no, I don't agree to a search,"--which you always should, imo--it is absolutely illegal for them to do so. The exception is when there is probable cause (cop sees a weapon, empty alcohol containers, or drug paraphenalia in the car, or smells alcohol/marijuana eminating from the vehicle or driver, etc.). Glad you didn't get busted, but unless that cop saw any of those, he was WAY out of line. That said, it doesn't surprise me.

You're missing the point... and that is that Antiseptic mouth-wash does NOTHING with regards to protecting you (or her) from STDs. Soooo... don't be silly, wrap that willy!