Posts by chandler

Mine was finding a club outside of Lawrence, Kansas. I think it was the Flamingo. This was back in 1995, before the internet made maps and directions as easy as they are now. The problem was numbered streets and roads…

Barring orgasm or other self-explanatory reasons, how do you decide when to tell your lap dancer you've had enough dances? For example, do you typically set a maximum to stay within? Do you prefer to agree to a bulk deal…

I like it when strippers who appear innocent behave badly. Yeah, I know, how innocent can she be, but anyway. Sometimes you can tell from the start that there's a bad girl behind the innocent face. And other times you…

Does it make any difference to you whether the club takes a cut out of every dance, counts dances, or charges additional admission to a lapdance room? Is it a matter of principle, or do you find that such policies…

We answered this before, only personality was included. Guess what lost? Let's try it again, leaving personality out of it. Which matters more to you when choosing a dancer, her face or her body? For me, it's her face. It's what…

I just read this in another thread, and I've often seen it written as though it's accepted wisdom that, if you want the best dance, you should pass up the best looking dancers, because homely girls try harder. If anything…

Suppose it's your first time at a club where the girls aren't circulating, so the waitress asks what type of girl you'd like her to send your way. What would you tell her? Myself, I'm not crazy about relying on an…

As some of you may have noticed, the 'Ignore' feature now works within threads as well as for topics. Now, let's talk about strippers!

Once, in private, a girl started giving me a lap dance sort of as foreplay. After about a minute, we stopped pretending it was dance and just reverted to regular making out. For me, a lapdance feels needlessly contrived unless…

Have you ever moved in on a girl while the guy she was with left her side for a while? Or have you been on the other end of the switch?

Your sitting alone at a table that seats four in a crowded club. You want to keep it that way so that dancers will be apt join you and not have other strangers at the table invading your space. What…

Thinking about sports has long been considered by many to be an effective suppressant for a raging boner or premature ejaculation. On the other hand, one of us posted that he listens to sports talk radio on the way to…