How do you decide when to stop?

First like many of the others I always negotiate for multiple dances unless I'm just feeling out a new dancer and then I always wait for a 2 for 1. When I enter a club I have a preset amount that I am willing to spend for that days entertainment. Admittedly the beer goggles can take over but usually I only take that amount into the club and leave other forms of money back in my room or home. ATM is too tempting when you get the googles on and a hot thing is hanging on your arm. I've found that if I control the spending I never am pissed off on my way back to my home or hotel. If I don't I'll drive back and think darn - I could of had a three some with 2 porn stars for what I spent lol but that was on a weekend in Vegas and that's another story lol

Depends on a combination of 1) How much money I have left 2) How much more fun I can have (stand) with present dancer 3) How many other dancers in club that I'd like to try.

The most I've done recently was 20 in a row from a hot little Mexican/American dancer in San Diego. Dances where ten dollars each and she was doing a very convincing job of keeping me in extasy bordering on insanity. I knew after about the fourth dance that I wasn't going to pop one but I was having a great time and decided to blow my LD budget on her.

It's actually pretty rare for me to get laps from more than one girl in a club. I usually choose the girl who most appeals to me, and then if I enjoy them I keep getting dances until I run out of money. If I'm not enjoying them I'll stop sooner and leave.

I once got 16 LD's in a row without stopping from my ATF. That's my limit. Seriously, if I plan to get more than 2 I'll usually just go for the VIP room if there is one.

I'm surprised that nearly everybody says they stop at two. I see a lot of guys in the clubs going on forever, getting at least 5-10 dances at a time. Maybe they're newbies. I used to get more than I do now.

Does it have to be a bad dance for you to only get one? Not me. It only means that I don't anticipate it getting much better if I were to continue. So she doesn't get the wrong idea, I say something like, "Thanks. That was awesome."

Hard to say. I have only one guideline and that is quit while still peaking (i.e. still at the highest return on fun for the money). How to identify that peak is the trick. Once I start to feel like I'm getting less satisfaction I figure I'm passed the peak and its time to go. I also sometimes have a set time to leave or a set monetary limit.

I usually do two unless the first is horrible...of course if the dances are over the top I don't have a problem doing 4 or 5.

It depends. With familiar girls, we set a limit. As for unfamiliar ones, it depends, but usually it's just 2 at the most. Of course, there's always the possibility I really like the girl.

Thanks, Bones. I was mainly reacting to FONDL's reply, hoping to nip in the bud a sidetrack on overall spending limits.

What Clubber said.

I may not have made my question clear. I'm not asking about how much you spend for the night. I'm asking about any series of lap dances. How do you decide when to stop after 1, 2, 4, 6, 10 dances or whatever.

For instance, I usually get no more than two at a time, one if it's my first time with a dancer. Then, if she stays around, I might get more after a break, still one or two at a time. I don't like to agree to more than one in advance because I like to keep my options open. And I always try to stop before the peak of mileage or our vibe, whatever. I hate it when, soon into a last dance, I know the best is over already.

Oh, and I throw all that out when I'm on the road.

Shadowcat: I wrote my last posts before seeing yours. That's exactly what I was asking.

chandler,

I will see how things progress. If I am not ready to bust a nut after about two or three dances, we are done.

Never done more than two. Don't get me wrong-I love the journey as well as the destination, but for me popping is the logical desirable conclusion of any Lap. And if the gurl's any good at all, two should be more than enough to accomplish that.Hell, the best can do it in half a song even if you're an old fart who hasn't felt particularly horny since '04. An experienced and attractive gurl will get it up and out of you in no time. It's all about chemistry and technique-some robotic grinders leave you wondering how quickly you can get out of there. Other solicitous sex bombs can get you off with a look and a stroke.

I decide long before I ever get to the club. I only carry as much money as I'm willing to spend. When it's gone, so am I. And the only times I spend it all are when I find a girl I really like.