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7 years ago
I did not know siren but i knew a few PLs and ladies that posted. Over the years a few ladies i knew well were discussed there.
It was on assc that i learned just how many PLs fell in love and thought this one is different and she really does see me a different from her other customers
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7 years ago
PL comes from the usenet days when one dancer didnt realize she was sending to the group. She thought it was a private reply to another dancer. We adopted the title as a badge if honor much like deplorable has been in the past year
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7 years ago
It happens to me on most overnight stays and with dancers new to OTC. For the new ladies i think they feel more like it was a date
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7 years ago
Every few years we hear nonsense about pole shifts and dwarf stars and what have you but nothing ever happens. I predict that after being wrong yet again, these people will just pick a different date.
Pointing out the absurdity of such claims and explaining the science behind it is as useless as telling a PL to not fall in love with a stripper.
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7 years ago
Ok, i believe this.
Only you can answer if it is too much. Have you discussed with her what you expect? She might plan on providing a girl on girl show and give you a bj after while you expect a PSE.
Yes. Let her pick but you get to approve. You want her comfortable.
Yes i have. Many times. Most recently last week but i do prefer one on one.
You are asking this crowd if it is a good idea? We are the wrong group to ask for help in making good choices.
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7 years ago
One other thing I forgot to post above.
Dancers are dancers because of poor choices. A series of them. Make sure you know what choices she made that lead her to be and stay a dancer. Is she still making poor choices like jumping into bed with a guy she hardly knows rather than wait to build a relationship and be sure he wants the same thing?
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7 years ago
Mark94
he may not be a newbie. This could be our friendly neighborhood piscator trying to get a respite from the abuse he knew he would get posting under his usual handle.
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7 years ago
The following is true of most but not all
She will probably go running to the ex when he calls her. You may end up thinking you are the father of his second child.
You will be baby sitting her kid(s) while she's at work. And when she parties with her friends. Or when she doesn't come home for a few days. Or when she and her friends go on vacation or to work in Miami or Las Vegas or...
She will think you are a bad boyfriend if you do things like go to bed at a reasonable time or go to work instead of partying with her.
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7 years ago
Carmelita, one of my favorite zevon songs
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B9L8jLPE84g
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7 years ago
Cashman
I don't do stripper trips, or rarely do. These are business trips or vacations I would take any way. I bring a young lady or two along if they want to go. I never take someone I haven't spent an over night with and enjoyed a few other activities with. I cover the expenses and rarely pay for their time.
If you haven't done one yet, I suggest you start with adding to your existing sessions. Dinner and other activities. Over night stay. If you take a trip with the wrong lady, it can be a very expensive hell
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7 years ago
I've known a few women named Lita but I recall only one dancer named Lita and that was back when Lita ford was popular in the late 80's.
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7 years ago
ndnman
There was a feature dancer named Jessica London back in the 90's. I wonder if your Jessica London and mine are the same. Friends of mine and I saw her at a local club. It was a great night but it isn't my story to tell.
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7 years ago
Estafador
You don't understand the allure of looking at hot young women and fucking them at the end of the day? It really isn't any more complicated than that.
I am on a business trip right now. Last night I had an excellent meal then to a bar with a woman half my age. She was dressed sexy as hell. We had great sex before bed. Tonight after work will be more of the same.
She's asleep in the other room of our suite. My client is very late getting to work after the holiday and I am getting paid to sit here in my room. if she wakes up before he gets in I may be able to say I was getting paid while having sex.
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7 years ago
Are you really afraid she might get fingered or that she might get fingered and you wont be there to see it happen?
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7 years ago
Why do I bring them to dinner?
I like going to nice restaurants. Sometimes I go with friends, family or dates. Not all of them want to or can afford to go to a fancy restaurant. Some feel uncomfortable if I pay every time. I don't want to date much right now. That leaves hot young dancers to take with me. Dinner, a show and some back to the hotel makes for a great night.
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7 years ago
Most guys don't have a plan. Do you want to get together sometime is lame. Calling at the last minute is lame. Forgetting to tell her you will pay for her time is a non starter.
Come up with a plan for a night you know she isn't working and ask her several days in advance.
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7 years ago
I always pay cash and never run a tab in a SC to avoid this and other problems
"Wrong especially sense I using cash all night and tipping her it made me mad enough to not let it slide and return to talk to the manager."
You were using cash all night but somehow she over charged you and you signed a receipt ?
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7 years ago
I usually don't drink any alcohol in strip clubs. They don't have craft beer nor good quality wine. Some of them claim to have quality whiskey but I strongly suspect they are crap in the bottles of better whiskey.
When I take one of the ladies out we go to places I know we can get good wine and good cocktails. Most of them are impressed by such a simple thing
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7 years ago
After closing they usual want to go to IHOP or a local diner. There are many good diners here in NJ.
When we meet up I like to go to an upscale restaurant for good food, good wine and good service. If she stays overnight, depending on the weather, room service or breakfast on the river side.
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7 years ago
in my experience SC bartenders don't know how to make good mixed drinks. Keep it simple, a martini or a gin and tonic. Anything else and you will confuse them or get a poorly made drink.
Find yourself a good cocktail bar. yelp and google will help you. The waitress or bartender in a good craft cocktail bar will help you decide what to try.
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7 years ago
I've participated in a few. Other than a few high fives over her back or some incidental hand to hand contact when the other guy handed me a beer, there was no contact between us.
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7 years ago
Cashman
Does a Brazilian named Elle still work there? Short woman. Jet black hair. oversized bolt ons.
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7 years ago
Cashman gave you a solid recommendation on a club. The ladies at the hitching post wont pressure you for a dance but the dollar parade can get a bit annoying at times. That is true of almost all NJ clubs. I haven't been to the Post in a year so I'll defer to Cashman as the recent expert.
None of the clubs in Newark will pressure you for a dance. Lap dances and private dances are illegal in Newark.
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7 years ago
TFP
Navigate to the club you want to review. Below the "read reviews" button should be a link to "write Review"
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7 years ago
Most of them think the dirty girls are the ones that do more than she does. If she does a hand job than those that do blow jobs are dirty. If she will do a BJ than those that provide FS are dirty. and so on.