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7 years ago
Ive been told i am the biggest dick they know.
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7 years ago
You cant find what you are looking for in irvington? Try showplace, visons or any delilahs. If you are willing to head south try PH.
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7 years ago
You say you havent had luck at the spots that offer extras. Which places have you tried?
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7 years ago
A full nude private dance is rare. There are no extras at ggr but extras are common at several other clubs mentioned.
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7 years ago
Darkblue- as in specific dancers? for GGR and PH yes. I'd do that in private messages for some of the well established posters. BHF is probably a better source for the PH. I don't frequent the other clubs enough to rate specific dancers.
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7 years ago
some rambling thoughts on NJ
NJ clubs with alcohol are bikini bars. This does not mean you can't get high mileage dances. The clubs in Irvington, Delilah's in Hazlet and the Showplace in Dover all have alcohol and provide high mileage dances.
I don't care for the clubs in Irvington because I don't find the dancers attractive and privacy can be hard to come by. The showplace in Dover usually smells of piss, the dancers are aggressive, making it hard to relax and find one you are attracted to and unless you tip the bouncer he is likely to poke his head in after every song.
Newark does not allow lap dances. All of the clubs are bikini bars with the exception of Sights. Sights is an after hours strip club. I am not sure it is still open so check before you go. The Newark clubs are good for setting up dates with Brazilian women. I use the word dates because many of them expect dinner and drinks before getting down to business. Since the closing of Al's Bar about fifteen years ago I am unaware of any high mileage places in Newark. That place was amazing.
Go Go Rama (GGR) - full nude dances. My home club. No alcohol. Not even BYO. Dances are timed, five Fifteen or thirty minutes. A light signals the end of each dance. You cannot get shorted. They use a take a number system. Tell the DJ who you want and when she is available he will call your number. Dances are full two way contact. If a dancer gets caught doing extras she is suspended. On Friday and Saturday nights, lesbian shows on stage are common. Most of the women are selective WRT OTC. You will need to get to know her first. Some of the ladies will be expensive because an hour of VIP gets her 240 before any tips.
Playhouse- The PH is so famous BHF named himself for this club. BYO. The DJ calls out the number of dances. The dances are timed. You can't get shorted here. Lots of two way contact. You have to try real hard to not get laid here. The tip parade can get aggressive. Be prepared to put your dollars in your pocket and say no thank you firmly and repeatedly.
Delilah's in Manville or Toms River. full nude. High contact dances with most of the ladies. You will get shorted. Most customers are in and out in half an hour. Sit and watch the stage show for more than a dancer or two and the staff will think something is wrong.
XXXV - BHF may like this place but on weekends they often nickel and dime you. I haven't been here in months but I was hit up for parking, admission, cell phone check, my date had to check her bag, we were charged more to sit in certain areas and management gave us shit if they thought we were not tipping enough. Even if they have reformed, I am happy to go elsewhere.
Visions, formerly the den in Sayreville. You might get propositioned in the parking lot.
If you aren't looking for extras, I think GGR is the best option. Timed dances, the deli system means you will eventually get a dance with the lady of your choice, the full contact and the lesbian shows on weekends all add up to the best value. The ladies are not allowed to ask for a tip so this might be the only club in NJ with out a tip parade.
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7 years ago
Would you want to get laid at Vic's?
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7 years ago
That isnt really in the philly area. Depending on time if day, that is at least a two hour drive.
I sent you a message with some suggestions. GGR is full contact private dances but extras are not to be had in the club. What nights will you be in the area? Some places are better on certain nights
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7 years ago
It is not unusual. I have run into dancers over a decade later but i think six years is the longest for a phone call. She was getting divorced and needed off the books income. There have been a few two and three year gaps when they found my card, came back to the area, found my number on their phone or got out of jail.
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7 years ago
Sirlapdancealot
She set him straight. I dont think he will ever do that again. He asked some questions and got a few answers he did not like.
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7 years ago
I am often the other customer. Sometimes it ruins the other guy's night.
Last week a dancer sat with me between her stage sets and when she wasn't doing private dances. we take care of each other so she likes to keep me happy and I think she genuinely enjoys my company. Or so she says and we know that can't be SS.
Another customer kept trying to get her attention and would go up to her when she was away from me. after her third or fourth visit to hang out with me he decided to come over and sit with us. Before I had a chance to say anything, she addressed him by name and told him he was not invited to join us. He started blubbering that he just wanted to sit and talk to her and had been looking forward to that all day. She took care of it but the guy left heart broken a few minutes later. For some guys, another women just isn't the answer.
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7 years ago
It is my code name.
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7 years ago
If she is from the club you reviewed, she sounds like one of the better ones. You could have stepped into a real mess.
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7 years ago
Of course i do. I think the more vague and unclear i am the better.
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7 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Orange
You have good taste
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7 years ago
We all pay. Money, aggrevation or a piece of your soul. Keep it to money. That way it wont hurt so much when her BF gets out of jail and she dumps you or she blows her dealer because she is short on cash.
I have had several strippers and former strippers as friends. It is possible. Ive seen it hapoen but a proper answer woild take more than i care to write and i think you dont want advice. Like most newbies, you want permission to do what you have already decided.
Consider writing a review or two.
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7 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
Warhawks
He made a mistake. He corrects his 40 to 50 in the second post. A thread title cant be modified.
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7 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
amateurs. 45.
No std. No i love you. No drugs. Never worked in a club. Never cried over a dancer.
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7 years ago
Cashman
I think his problem is he wants a spinner, That begs the question, why is he going to the post? Most any club in that area will be filled with curvy Latinas and tall Eastern Europeans. He isn't only looking for a small woman, he wants an 8 or better. I don't recall seeing a spinner in the Post but it isn't one of my go to clubs so I may be mistaken.
He also doesn't want high mileage dancers. Most of the women in the Post have Popeye Arm from all the HJ's. Any spinner an 8 or better that does extras will not be low mileage for long.
To answer his final question, there is no go to spot for what he is looking for. If there was, I think you or I would have mentioned it by now. There are several places to have a great time in NJ.
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7 years ago
I find odds of getting a response improve when i discuss business. "Hey how are you" will be ignored. Questions like "I want to get a 15 minute dance, when are you working" or "i just got paid, do you have an hour or two before work tonight" get answered every time
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7 years ago
Complaints about RJ go back years. It has only been recently that management cared. Ginger Banks has some posts and videos about him. Even porn stars want to consent before being touched. I do wonder why women still agreed to work or appear with him. His behavior wasnt a secret and his defense was this is what the customers want.
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7 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
Keep it secret so she can give it to you again.
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7 years ago
That is a large part of what i do for a living. Back in the 80s, i worked for a company with eight factories. Each factory had a roomful of clerks. These clerks calulated machine assignments, line speeds, resource utilization and so on. There were over 100 of them across all factories. They were replaced by a pc with a 10 meg hard drive and a couple of data entry clerks.
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7 years ago
All the pua crap is just that crap. You dont need game. You need confidence, a plan and thick skin.
Find a woman you want to take out, plan a date, approach her and ask her confidently to go on that date with you. The thick skin is for the occasional brutal rejections. But those will be few and far between. Most rejections will be a polite no.
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7 years ago
Amazingly i found the same advice applies. Grow a set and ask her.