Longest time that has gone by since you have heard from a stripper.....and is it
Warrenboy75
Anywhere in the USA on any given day
Yesterday afternoon I received three text messages from three different women all hitting me up to come see them again on some level.........
In the case of the first one I haven't heard from her in over two years.......she started off tentatively as did I because she had a different phone number......eventually she told me who she was but it was both weird and a bit creepy....I mean no contact for two years and bang she wants to meet me when I come back into the area again.......says she came across my name......which leaves a lot open for interpretation.
As this is going on I get another text from a different girl.......haven't heard from her in nearly a year..........at least it was from the same number ......but the intent of the text was the same ( come see me....lets meet OTC for coffee....)
And then the bomb drops......my ex...recent......bad breakup...........comes from Vegas area code...........which is on the other side of the country for me and as far as I was concerned would probably never hear from again...........knowing her as I do or at least think I do this is a foot in the door contact........letting me know something I don't need to know about her life at the moment.........which I didn't reply at all.......
So is any of this normal.......does the word normal even apply with dancers?
In the case of the first one I haven't heard from her in over two years.......she started off tentatively as did I because she had a different phone number......eventually she told me who she was but it was both weird and a bit creepy....I mean no contact for two years and bang she wants to meet me when I come back into the area again.......says she came across my name......which leaves a lot open for interpretation.
As this is going on I get another text from a different girl.......haven't heard from her in nearly a year..........at least it was from the same number ......but the intent of the text was the same ( come see me....lets meet OTC for coffee....)
And then the bomb drops......my ex...recent......bad breakup...........comes from Vegas area code...........which is on the other side of the country for me and as far as I was concerned would probably never hear from again...........knowing her as I do or at least think I do this is a foot in the door contact........letting me know something I don't need to know about her life at the moment.........which I didn't reply at all.......
So is any of this normal.......does the word normal even apply with dancers?
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Longest for me was about 5 years. She’d left town and then come back. Given that it wasn’t that great the last time, I just said “Hi.” Didn’t hear back after that.
3 in one day is insane.
Want to make it even crazier? My ATF was in Vegas when I was seeing her at the time (just like your ex) and I’m pretty sure I grew up close to where you’re from.
Small world.
In that case there is no time limit to when they will reach out.
Nevertheless sometimes old times are worth revisiting.
But it was the comment coming across my name along with the second and third contact in one afternoon that caused me to comment on here....... it seems more than a bit strange. I tend to think money as the reason and it probably is with all three but the timing along with prolonged no contact from two of them?
My ex is a different matter entirely and in some ways more disturbing. She's the only one I ever would consider more than an arrangement because we met prior to her becoming a stripper. And she had to have a motive. I didn't reply or acknowledge her in any way.
Shailynn I am constantly amazed at how small our world has become.