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7 years ago
Papi
Yes i am.
I believe i posted about those guys. With weirdos like that, a guy wearing headphones would not even register.
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7 years ago
A customer at my favorite club dresses like superman. Another guy gets lead around on a leash. I wouldnt even notice headphones
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7 years ago
I see no need to choose. I have a current favorite but still enjoy variety. My current favorite(s) I see more often. In the club I am going to get a dance with my CF first. Later if I choose to get additional dances, they will likely be with a different dancer than the previous visit.
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7 years ago
building on lone wolf's comments
More than a few ladies have told me the reason they went with me and not some other dude is I asked. He was too much of a pussy to ask. I wasn't. Other guys will drop hints or suggestions and the dancers don't have time for that. They often don't know if the guy is talking about a civilian date, a paid date or some fantasy he has.
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7 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
Cashman
I sent a note declining her invite. If only I had waited, I could have had a witty reply for her but I thought waiting would be unfair. She now has time to find another date for this afternoon or tonight.
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7 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
I just got two unsolicited texts. Bills are due.
"I AM working keep me company"
and from another
"i'm boring, let's have a date tonight" I am sure she meant bored.
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7 years ago
A dancer recently shared my name and information about our dates. I told her she lost my business. I expect discretion and I know they expect it as well.
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7 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
Me: ETA?
Stripper #1: "We are on the way see you in 15"
Stripper #2: "Can't wait"
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7 years ago
ITC- no, I have too good of an idea where her mouth has been.
OTC- absolutely. No kissing is almost a deal breaker.
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7 years ago
I am not good looking but I clean up well and carry myself well. The dancers I see claim they prefer this to straight up good looks. I know much of that is SS but a few insist it Is true. Dressed for one of our evenings out, they get to show off their successful sugar daddy.
A few have also complained that handsome guys think that handsome is enough and don't show the proper appreciation to a young beautiful woman.
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7 years ago
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LiwetIf she walks away smiling, you spent too much.
Drunk or not, she is still a person. I avoid any dancers so under the influence she does not know what she is doing. Not only because I do have some scruples but because I know I won't enjoy myself. I also want to avoid the messy complications later of any he said/she said situations.
As georgmicrodong puts it, "Too many willing sober..." why invite trouble or accept poor performance.
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7 years ago
You don't have time to get one by may with the standard process. you can expedite by mail for an extra $60 but you need to get that started now if you want it by may. Or you can expedite in person. They asked me to show proof of my travel plans when I did it in person.
Pay the extra money and get both the book and the card. My car was accepted at every store in Europe for the VAT refund. I did not have to risk losing my passport book. It has been accepted everywhere in the US or abroad for any time I need to prove my identity other than immigration purposes. If you lose the book, the US consulates will accept it as proof of identity to issue you another.
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7 years ago
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Cashman1234He/Him - He’s a filthy pig. That’s him in VIP with another whore.
As we sometimes hit the same clubs, would you mind sharing here or in a DM, the club?
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7 years ago
Why does it happen? Because we are people buying a service from people.
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7 years ago
As a contractor, I shut up. I do occasionally take a client to a strip club but only after he has made it clear he wants me to. I cannot imagine any upside to me discussing strip clubs or other aspects of my hobby. If anyone is offended for any reason I might lose the contract. My brother the minister would suffer embarrassment. Under no situation do I see anyone saying, "hey, K's a monger, let's throw more money at him." There is absolutely no upside to me saying anything.
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7 years ago
there is another option for the clubs besides making them employees. Treat the dancers as contractors.
Treating them as contractors is more complicated than telling them they are contractors and having them sign a contract. But not much more complicated.
As has been pointed out, the club took a chance and got caught.
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7 years ago
Every club should hire an employment lawyer to ensure they comply with federal and state laws. It may only be a few minor changes to make them independent contractors and not employees.
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7 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
I researched annuities years ago and decided they are such a bad option for me I haven't looked at them in 25 years. This is dated and possibly inaccurate. Age and alcohol may have affected my memory.
typically if you die the annuity dies with you. Your heirs get nothing.
Start doing some real research now, set up a good diversified portfolio. The standard back of the envelope calculations are a diversified portfolio will give you an average 7% over 15 or 20 year spans. With inflation and fees taking 3 % you have 4% to pull out. If you start with 1 million, you can pull out 40K per year with occasional adjustments for inflation and never go broke. Most annuities pay out in about the 4% range. Some won't adjust for inflation. All they are doing is diversifying your portfolio and waiting for you to die so they can keep all of your money. Your heirs get nothing and you lose the ability to sell off your portfolio to take unexpected expenses.
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7 years ago
La fin du monde is on tap at my favorite bar a few times a year. It would be a long trip for you but it might be worth it
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7 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
So everyone knows it but you will figure it out for us? Perhaps your premises is seriously flawed
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7 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
I'm having dinner with two strippers. I asked them as soon as they got back from the ladies room. They have no idea what you are talking about.
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7 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
I have been going to strip clubs for 40 years. I have dated dancers and bartenders, i am friends with dancers and staff. Hell, one landlord owned a strip club. I have never seen this pinnacle dancer they all bow to.
But going with a modified question. Have i fucked the most popular dancers at a club? Yes.
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7 years ago
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gothamytefrom that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham
Im not sure what you mean. The hottest is a matter of personal taste and changes as dancers come and go and age.
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7 years ago
Having a st bernardus quad and a good burger. Then off for a few lap dances and finish the weekend with a massage and some fun.
Not bad for a sunday outside of footbal season
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7 years ago
late 90's early 2000's I was hanging with a group of eastern Europeans ladies. They told me of a guy in his 70's that showered them with gifts and money. I did not believe it but they introduced me to him one night at the club. Guy was throwing money around but was dressed like a bum. We went to his house to party. The place was huge and obviously expensive. He had beautiful antiques and art .. He got nothing from them for all of this. As near as I could tell he had all of his mental abilities intact. He was terrified of being alone and he desperately wanted a young women to love him.
I got to know him better. His son had tried to get him declared incompetent but failed. It was determined he was fine mentally. Making poor financial choices is not illegal.
These guys do exist. They are rare. They look at all they spent and are afraid to stop because they would have to realize they pissed away a fortune. If they keep spending, they can pretend things they fine.