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17 years ago
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Book GuyI write it like I mean it, but mostly they just want my money.
I somehow missed this thread. I guess not much was happening here if you're talking about the pink site. About my only experience was visiting the site when this site was down. Created a username and then found out the name I created was the same name as an existing one except I didn't capitalize the name I had. Looked like a bunch of female stuff that didn't interest me. I guess it could be entertaining if you're bored.
I can understand a bunch of dancers grouping together and putting down dancers who break the rules and are nasty as I heard one dancer say in a club one time. However a number of guys like nasty girls. What she is doing could be illegal as well though so I don't think you'll find very much nasty girl club discussions except from one point of view. Knowing or thinking this leads one to believe that the web site discussion will only get input from those already who feel like them.
I might be curious what their idea of looking normal in a club might be when a dancer tells me this while the club is full of weirdos in her own words.
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17 years ago
Too bad there aren't any clubs that upscale here in South Carolina. I wouldn't mind visiting a club with lots of eye candy and get ignored because I'm not spending hardly any money. Sometimes you just want to sit and watch, other times you don't.
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17 years ago
shadowcat, I was in your favorite club last night. One dancer told me I looked normal. She said there was a bunch of weirdos in the club. I'm thinking, I wonder what kind of crowd showed up when I look that normal? I was wearing my normal summertime outdoor clothes though which I don't usually wear into clubs. I don't typically wear white shorts into strip clubs. I was glowing in the dark. I was fucking up your prices too by paying 2 for 30 instead of 2 for 25 or 2 for 20. I did pay the last two dances at 2 for 25 after I thought about it. The first dancer told me two for 30. I wasn't going to get any more dances from her because she asked for a tip which I really do not like to be asked unless she was really good. She wasn't that good. One thing I don't like about this sister club is that the sofas are not as big or as tall as the one's in Greenville and aren't as comfortable as a result. I was surprised at how many dancers recognized me as well. One nice looking blonde remembers me from the other club. I got tired of getting asked for dances and left after 3 hours.
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17 years ago
I'm not really into all the piercings either. I think it's more of a turn off rather than a turn on. Maybe some dancers and girls do like them. I just let them be. If she's pretty enough, I might overlook her piercings and get a dance from her anyway. However typically I will often not be as interested in dancers with lots of piercings. If a piercing makes a dancer look ugly, I'll just try to get rid of her and never say a word about it. One dancer told me a number of piercings feel good to the dancer or enhance her feelings. I wasn't ever that interested. She seemed to like her clit piercing though. It was so small I hardly even noticed.
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17 years ago
I know a dancer who is still dancing, looks great, and is the same age as me. 30 years old is still young for a lot of dancers especially if they still look good. At the club I'm thinking about, one waitress used to dance for me and the girl at the door (at least occasionally) used to dance for me as well. I'm trying to decide what club I want to go to tonight in case you can't tell since it's still early. I'm around 39.
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17 years ago
If a dancer wants to start a sexual relationship or boyfriend girlfriend type thing with you, the dancers I've known will do so or try to do so right away. There isn't any time to become a regular or any of that stringing someone along. A few of my favorite dancers at different times have reduced their prices to me so that I keep getting dances from them.
Obviously the girl in the example above was stringing the guy along to make money off of him, he forgot that most dancers are all about the money if you're not already screwing her for free. They like money for time spent with people they see as customers. I guess if she's not a full time dancer and only moonlights on the weekend she may treat people different though.
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17 years ago
I have favorite dancers at different clubs as well. It can get interesting if a dancer from one club decides to try out another club you're visiting. I remember one dancer I used to see at one club, then the next week I saw her at another club (she was surprised to see me again saying I must get around). Then I had to take a trip the next week to another city about 80 miles away and the very second I walked in the door, there she was dancing on a satellite stage. She was surprised and so was I.
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17 years ago
I think this is like the question, do you have one favorite dancer or multiple favorite dancers? I like having more than one favorite. I do have more than one favorite club and I visit all the ones I like. Not every week. I guess I have one that is at the top of the list. I spend the most money at the place I like the best. I think it seems to work the same way with favorite dancers. I have a lot more favorite dancers than I do clubs though. Cover charges and fees can add up fast if clubs don't have a small cover. If one club had everything, it'd be like Walmart and I wouldn't feel a need to go other places. Of course not even Walmart has everything you may be looking for.
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17 years ago
Getting fired by a dancer sounds amusing to me. I don't have any dancers that I always get dances from every single week. Some may try to keep it that way but it's not that consistent. It's been my experience if you have sex with a dancer, she starts acting all funny afterwards. You know like sitting with you in the club for quite some time without asking for any dances and calling you up on the phone for no particular reason.
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17 years ago
I thought I read it in a litte blurb in a Bottom Line article. I haven't been on my home pc for the past 3 days. Seemed like a long time. I think I'm getting more interested in playing with stocks than I am in checking up on my health. I bought one stock and then sold it a couple of days later for a nice return. It's all in my retirement money though so I don't have it available for spending cash. I wanted to make up for a small drop I had in one stock. I didn't expect to do all that in 3 days. I'm taking some supplements and I think they are making me feel better. Making money in the stock market in only 3 days makes me feel even better though. It would be enough for me to have a fun night out but it's not that much. Now if I had used options. I need to study the game a little bit more.
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17 years ago
Maybe I'm going to the wrong clubs. I haven't noticed any increase in mileage. In fact it has decreased for me. Bouncers walking around making sure nothing is going on and hidden cameras were installed several months ago. I'm even paying more from two hot dancers than I would normally pay any dancer. However I don't or didn't expect to keep seeing the one and now two very hot dancers and for them to be offering me 2 for $40 lap dances. That's 10 to 20 more than I pay any other dancer. The one dancer called me a good businessman acting like I was getting a real good deal from her. Maybe she's used to getting more money since I believe she's either a 9 or 10 on the looks scale. However if I'm spending my money on better looking dancers, I'm not going to have much left for other dancers and it does seem like I have been seeing lots of dancers in the clubs lately.
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17 years ago
If it's just one way contact and it's not turning you on, then it does get old or expensive. I would prefer to simply tip the dancers on stage and save the money. I can get more mileage in a sports bar with some wild girls there. I think if I lived in the Atlanta area, I would probably be busy with the regular night life instead of strip clubs. I guess I could do that now but I have an old habit where it seems fun to party in a strip club.
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17 years ago
I think it works better if you're getting new favorites and looking for dancers to stop getting dances from. That's more like a regular telling a favorite "you're fired". However I don't want to burn bridges. If it's a slow night and she's the only old favorite around, then she'll be in luck.
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17 years ago
I had a dancer suggest raising her prices on me. I immediately said to her, "well, I guess I won't be getting any more dances from you if you do." She dropped the subject. I don't care if I do get dances from her or not. I'm looking for ways to cut back my spending right now but I don't like passing up good opportunities with hot dancers.
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17 years ago
I think it's hard to be fired for being cheap if you haven't been spending that much on her in the first place. Well I call an amount whether it's 30, 60, 80 or even 100 dollars a big to large amount for a group of lap dances. I have a number of favorites and they come and go and so do I. I try not to spend too much time with one dancer in the first place because my time is limited and I wouldn't get to see any of the other dancers in a club if I spent a lot of time with just one or two. Besides with a dancers way of thinking, long term might be 2 or 3 weeks. Sometimes long term for some dancers might only be a few days away. Fire a customer one day, then a week later she might say "that was a long time ago, don't you want a dance?"
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17 years ago
In the past I used to occasionally see dancers that looked repulsive to me. I still see some that don't look that great to me. It doesn't take much imagination to pretend to be nice to them but not really want to be too nice or they'll be coming back to you a whole lot more than you want. I have seen a tiny dancer doing a table dance for one guy that must have been about 3 times as wide as her. I would find that very repulsive. I don't see how they do it.
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17 years ago
I remember one dancer told me a few times I should be dancing for her. I like things the way they are. I guess she was trying to compliment me or something. What I sometimes find a bit weird is when a dancer says I smell good. I try to be clean but I don't put anything special on. I figure either others customers must stink a lot or 1 up to 5 dancers rubbed off on me and the dancer who said that is smelling all those dancer smells on me. I have run into a few dancers who smell a bit bad or have body odor etc. I usually keep quiet about it 99.9 percent of the time since my sense of smell seems to be better than most people. Now when a dancer smells like food, I like that. (The vanilla smell reminds me of some delicious cake.) That's actually a major drawback to going anyplace crowded, most people stink and don't even know it. I'm thinking with allergies my sense of smell must be superhuman gone crazy or something at times. I've actually debated a couple of times whether or not I should tell some dancers their body odor is a bit strong. If some dancers knew how much of them I could smell, they might be surprised. I don't really enjoy smelling their feminine hygene products but usually don't if my nose isn't within a couple of feet. So for me, many dancers do smell and they don't always smell good. But with alcohol and a smoky club, that usually drowns it out sufficiently.
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17 years ago
I think I was nutz. Instead of taking the drivers license out of my wallet, I handed over my wallet (all in my view though). I immediately started feeling very uncomfortable about the whole situation though.
I remember another club in the area tried swiping my drivers license one night. I believe it didn't read right and they just let me in.
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17 years ago
What was worse was that this was a club I've visited before and was never asked for this information that I remember. I asked if it was secure thinking, they probably don't have their information secure or encrypted. The girl said oh yeah. Then another dancer said "we'll go on a spending spree tonight". I didn't think that was funny at all. I thought about leaving on the spot but she already had my drivers license. Maybe the computer is not linked to the internet. Hackers can easily break into so many different computers it's not funny at all especially the way some people think the information is secure just because they have a little password on their pc.
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17 years ago
Most of the time I used to see some corelation between stage tipping and their lap dances. However the other night it seemed like the stage tipping suddenly was a bit lame. Might have had something to do with the 4 policeman standing at the entrance to the club looking all around. One dancer dressed up in some fake police outfit was standing there as well. I walked in but she caught up to me as I walked by. She said something about arresting me and taking me in the back (where the lap dance rooms are). I resisted. Fortunately she didn't put the handcuffs on me. I ignored the male policemen. I joked with a dancer I'm glad they are more interested in watching the dancers than they are the roads. I didn't see them more than a couple of minutes though.
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17 years ago
In the last 30 days I think I jumped up to around the 6 to 7 level on AN's scale. Part of the reason was taking vacation and having a little bit of fun in the evening and traveling a bit more than normal. Good looking dancers that seem to be coming to me and making me one of their regulars seems to keep me interested in coming back. Oh, I'm thinking about the strip clubs. I keep coming back to the web site because it's a lot more fun to think about a nice looking dancer than it is to read the daily news.
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17 years ago
That was entertaining. Thanks. I think they still don't capture the look of some girls walking around topless with the jiggling effect I see in some tits. The general motion of the nipples and breasts seems pretty close though. Maybe they need to refine their display. Show the bouncing breasts, then have a rapid jiggle. Not every girl seems to have the same jiggle effect though. I prefered the regular view over wireframe.
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17 years ago
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minnowAny place that interests me.
Well the clubs I went to I didn't think most guys expected the dancers to get them off. A little bit of bumping and grinding with clothes on doesn't do all that much for me. In fact it seems like most guys in strip clubs just sit and watch the dancers and have no intention of getting lap dances. I do enjoy lap dances but not that much. Maybe the term lap dance factory should be extras factory for such a place where a majority of guys expect to get off.
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17 years ago
I do remember a couple of times a dancer that doesn't typically dance on stage was asked to because she was walking around and all the other dancers were tied up. A few dancers look better if they don't go up on stage in get in the spotlight. However if you see a hot looking dancer but she never dances on stage, you might wish she would occasionally. It would get rather expensive if I had to get dances from the dancers just to see them naked.
I seem to be learning that some of my favorites dance at other clubs. If this keeps up, I'm going to have a favorites list from across the southeast. I used to have one favorite from Alabama. I never did ask her if she danced there too. I got a dance from a dancer from Miami. I may have passed up the ones from Atlanta. I didn't notice sitting down but I'm not used to a dancer being taller than me. I'm around 6'2" maybe 6'3" with shoes on and the Miami dancer looked taller than me. She told me one guy looked up at her with a funny look and then ran off like he was scared. The tallest dancer I ever saw was a feature entertainer and she did a nice show with a sword and fireworks. She definitely got everyone's attention when she was moving a full size sword around on stage as if she was Zena the warrior princess or something. Guess I got off topic like normal.
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17 years ago
It's not like we don't have email. She's bad mouthing all of us who use the web site. I will make sure not to get a dance from her when I visit the club. She sounds a bit confused as well. I didn't think this web site is that important or attracting that many customers to the club in Columbia. However if I'm wrong, then this web site is very important to business there and she's bad mouthing all the customers who use this web site and go visit the club. Either way I don't want a dance from her.
I don't go around talking about TUSCL. I'm lucky if the dancers I meet have heard about the more popular sites such as www.youtube.com not considering tiny little ones like this one.