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20 years ago
I should add it's a bad idea, very bad idea to spend money you can't afford to and to give away things you can't afford to replace. Just my opinion though.
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20 years ago
I behave like most other locals in my area only paying between 10 to $15 per lap dance but I do get at least 2 dances at those prices. I don't usually tip anyone except the dancers at the stage on occasion. That's normal where I live. I think I would stay home or need a pay increase to live where you guys live at. Oh, I do usually tip the waitress a dollar per drink when I am drinking. I feel like a big tipper when I'm doing that, lol. I believe I am a big tipper (my area) doing that too because the waitresses come back often asking if I want any more drinks.
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20 years ago
and some of those men may be filthy rich as far as RL is concerned and not even have change lower than a $20. That would be like four 5 dollar dances to RL. Obviously wasteful spending. I bet oil tycoons must have really low self esteem to be wasting so much money. A multi-millionaire could go into a strip club if he wanted and tip hundred dollar bills as if they were one's. That guy would have really low self esteem wouldn't he? or maybe some people have money to burn. That would be nice.
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20 years ago
Maybe it depends on the metal detector sensitivity. I know my pants zipper doesn't set off the metal detector but a credit card pocket scissor set off the alarm with one of my coworkers. He had forgotten about it. I bet it would be embarassing if a clit ring set off the detector. Just imagine if they want the girl to remove it. I guess she could do that in private. On the other hand maybe all piercings are recommended to be removed before travelling by air.
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20 years ago
If a dancer puts on a good show I enjoy them on occasion. If someone wants ideas, while I enjoy the fanged sexy looky vampire look, a futuristic look might look sexy as well. I am picturing a girl either wearing a very short red skirt with all red above on the outfit and a smooth bikini or raincoat feel to her outfit. Or maybe a red silky loincloth and red bikini top with half a loincloth look and several other artifacts on her to make her look like she just came from combat. Maybe leg sleeves on both legs with fake combat knives. A belt full of bullets just above her skirt. A cool looking futuristic gun that shoots blanks toward the back of the stage but sounds real. A 3d holographic projection and communicator device on a wrist watch device would look cool too. I don't know if anyone invented that combination yet though.
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20 years ago
RL if you are having problems with strippers, there are tons of male sexual enhancements ads floating around the net. I'm sure you can find an ad and you might even become more popular with the girls one day. Let us know how you do though. We are curious.
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20 years ago
I bet he'll feel justified at annoying everyone for years if one person out of all those years saved 5 bucks on a dance sometime somewhere.
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20 years ago
What do I think of guys who pay for conversation in strip clubs? Well let me tell you something RL, lol, it amuses me that you are getting so ticked off at the lack of attention in your local strip clubs because some rich guys are paying dancers just for their time in the club. While I haven't heard of this happening in my local area, I will believe you if you say you see it happening in Houston or wherever you live. It really doesn't bother me one bit if some guy or several guys in the city of Houston are paying strippers just for talking. I guess you aren't getting to talk to any strippers except the poor and desperate ones.
I'm more concerned with a stripper starting to act like I'm her boyfriend or something. They will want you to start getting them something for their birthday and stuff like that. I'm not interested in that.
In some clubs you can actually tell something about a stripper's character when you tip. If a lot of guys are tipping 2's or more for the stage tipping, you can tell something about a girl when you tip a one dollar. If she acts rude or says something like cheap ass, then that means she is rude, uncaring, and only after as much money as possible. She's not the type of girl I would want to get a dance from. I doubt that many dancers will read this though and stop displaying what they are already used to doing. If a dancer is still nice, well she just stands out. Of course this won't work if everyone is tipping ones.
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20 years ago
RL maybe you should change your post a little bit. Maybe you could say, if you are a customer who has paid strippers for conversation, you have irritated me beyond belief and I WANT to know WHY you guys keep IRRITATING me so much! Please explain.
You might get several responses.
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20 years ago
You're not alone. I believe it's very unusual to pay a dancer for conversation where I live at. Of course there are strange people out there (RL) and some with cash to burn so to each their own. Just considering a possibility if I lived in an area where the norm included paying strippers for conversation, I believe I would try to boycott all the strip clubs or just tell all the strippers I don't want to talk to them. Seems strange to pay someone for something that you have trouble stopping them from doing. Lots of girls like to talk and talk and talk. I prefer some peace and quiet sometimes. Maybe some guys pay strippers to be quiet and just dance. Now there's a thought.
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20 years ago
LOL, That's good. I hope he reads it and learns something.
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20 years ago
I've noticed female bartenders on different occasions who looked better than all of the dancers in a club. I believe some of these girls were former dancers. On one occasion I remember one of those bartenders flashed me (maybe she was flirting but I forget why). Alot of the crowd was apparently watching as well and she looked better than all of the dancers.
I remember another girl who used to be one of the hottest looking dancers in my opinion. She looked real nice from head to toe and I got to see her very well since she worked as a nude dancer. Anyway after a couple of years had gone by she had quit. I just happened to keep running into her later on. She had a job at Hooters for a while. Then she got back into dancing at a topless only club. That didn't last long. Then I saw her again working as a bartender. I believe I talked to her more as a bartender than all the time she was a dancer. She told me she was studying to be a veterinian. Seems a little strange that a former girl who was a star attraction and been photographed by a men's magazine would quit it all and work as a veterinian. Hopefully she's happy.
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20 years ago
I had forgotten that situation a bit but it suddenly came back to me. I think the one dancer was upset apparently because I left her and went back to a VIP room to get lap dances from a dancer I had been sitting with for a few minutes. Dancer A who had just come over said it was ok. I came back maybe 20 or so minutes later and then that's when I heard those statements asking if I was sleeping with her too. Too much drama might be a reason not to sleep with a dancer and then go to the club where she is working at. I thought she was probably sleeping around anyway so I didn't think it was any big deal. It may be time to move on. I know of a few other blondes I am interested in.
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20 years ago
I feel sorry for you FONDL. You apparently never felt the excitement of watching a close game against a hated rival team and watch them go down in a terrible defeat. As a college student, you also got a free show with sexy college cheerleaders in the air right above you. If the game ever got boring, the cheerleaders always kept things exciting for me. Of course my favorite team won the national championship a year before I started college so I loved seeing the dunks and sharp shooting along with the cheerleader stunts from one of the top 5 cheerleading schools at that time. I wasn't bored. I believe Michael Jordan was on one of the opposing college teams. I lived in basketball country.
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20 years ago
I would really enjoy seeing Oklahoma State beat Illinois and watch NC State beat NC and Duke. However that is probably a pipe dream.
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20 years ago
I like that name GO PACK! Do you happen to know what time the game Sunday will be played if both NCSU and UNC win on Friday?
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20 years ago
How about golddigger?
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20 years ago
By the way RL, how much money did you spend to acquire a REAL NAME? I hope you didn't put a second mortgage down on your trailer.
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20 years ago
It's a VERY BIG DEAL to get a stripper's real name RL. I hope you didn't actually succeed. The stripper will need to call an insane asylum IMMEDIATELY to seek help because she has obviously lost her MIND to give RL her REAL NAME. She should also CALL the POLICE because she is likely to require IMMEDIATE protection from someone who constantly posts (for years and years) bad things about strippers and anyone that says a good thing about strippers. This is TERRIBLE NEWS if you have succeeded in getting a stripper's REAL NAME RL. Please tell us it isn't true. Will you make us feel safer RL? Or do we have to speculate that a dancer may be in serious jeopardy because you have attained a REAL NAME? I consider this to be a BIG DEAL. I'm worried now.
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20 years ago
Guess I won't be going to any strip clubs in France.
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20 years ago
I can see a link to the words RL anti and negative. I believe the word lover is an attempt to throw anyone new off the trail. Obviously someone who posts negative messages for years consistently without virtually anything positive might be a concern for others to watch. Strippers need to keep their thinking caps on and watch out for dangerous people. RL is OUT THERE somewhere. Remember if someone acts like a jerk, only wants to pay $5 for a lapdance, and keeps asking for your name and phone number, he might be a dangerous person or just a fool.
Just remember a line from Clint Eastwood seriously mangled by me for maybe a dancer.
You have to ask yourself, do you feel lucky punk customer, do you think you can get a REAL NAME or do you think I think you may be RL? Because if I think you're RL, you're ass is getting kicked out the door by the bouncer.
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20 years ago
If a dancer gave you an email that is untraceable back to her then it is no big deal. If in fact RL was a dangerous criminally insane person trying to get stripper's personal information, it would be a BIG DEAL if a stripper accidently gave out the wrong information. There are anonymous email accounts and then there are email accounts where a person's name, address, and telephone number can be easily looked up online. If a dancer doesn't know the difference, then they should just assume any guy could be RL. It's dangerous not to know and to give away personal information.
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20 years ago
Shadowcat: I'll agree it's no big deal for ordinary people.
However when someone potentially dangerous (RL??) gets ahold of personal information, it can become a big deal and dangerous to give out info.
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20 years ago
I've lost alot of interest in the NCAA lately as well. I prefer anyone over NC though.
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20 years ago
Where are you getting this information from RL? Is this just something you read about on another web site?