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18 years ago
Good warning. I remember one time a dancer asked for my phone number out of the blue and I think I gave it to her. Didn't even know her. I was thinking big deal, she could just pick any number out of a phone book. I guess if she started calling at the wrong time I would have to turn my ringer off on my phone. I don't have a cell. Most dancers I know haven't taken too much time to call me though as far as I know. I don't answer my phone that much though and I only will pick up on it a small percentage of the day. Darn trooper association is the one that is more persistant than a stripper. They always want donations. I was thinking about asking if they have a 10 or 20 year do not call list but I don't think so.
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18 years ago
Sounds rough.
I once had a wild dancer literally jumping and bouncing up and down on top of my lap doing what was supposed to be a table dance. She was really rough and had something sharp somewhere on her leg. I felt a slight pain in my leg after the dance. When I looked down, I saw blood running down my leg where she had apparently scratched me. I was wearing shorts (summer time at the beach) but never expected to get cut during a table dance.
Last night I was waiting to get a lap dance and both of us were watching this pretty dancer near by tell the guy she was dancing for. She said to guy "DON'T FREAK OUT! STAY STILL. I'm not going to hit your nuts." The dancer next to me said to me "yeah just one nut." The dancer suddenly did a back flip landing her head near his nuts (actually on the sofa) Guess the guy lucked out.
I once got a nasty bloody nose from a dancer I was trying to tip during a stage tip. I swear I've had dancers do all kinds of acrobatic moves including putting their high heals on my shoulders during some one dollar tips. I think some like it dangerous (for me that is). If I see a dancer who seems to rough, I'll avoid the dancer unless I'm not thinking straight.
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18 years ago
Another stupid thing to do is to tip a dancer another dollar after you just tipped her one dollar and she calls you a cheapskate. This should probably be under stupid dancers as well since I'm a regular at that club and am probably one of the top tippers. However I tip one dollar at a time. She won't be getting any more tips unless she knows how to use a computer and can read this. I'll just look for the dancer with the fatty bulge on her sides and I'll know that's her.
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18 years ago
Did someone say something above? Just joking, I skimmed over that first post and lost it somewhere. Just thinking of stupid things I have done. I believe one time I went to Platinum Plus in Columbia and I either was drunk or possessed or something because I offered to pay $20 for every dance I got one time. I must have been drunk. That was many years ago. I don't think any girl turned me down that night. I overpaid everyone. Of course a few girls may have given me a break but my memory is a bit fuzzy about it all. The next day I vaguely remembered and was scratching my head thinking WTF did I do that for? I never paid more than 2 for 20 back then, sometimes less if a dancer wanted to offer me an additional break to keep going. I get 2 for 20 even now with some dancers.
I remember one time I was in a strip club at the beach and one of the dancers seemed to like me a lot. She gave me her number and I told her I thought I could memorize it and would call her the next day since I would be in town for a couple of days. She asked me each hour for 2 or 3 hours if I remembered her number. I did. After about 4 hours I left and got the numbers transposed. Stupid idea to trust my memory when drinking.
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18 years ago
I guess that's one good thing about south carolinas blue laws, I go when they don't serve bottled beer or liquor and don't get asked to buy drinks unless I go too early. I just get asked if I want a dance every 5 to 10 minutes though in certain clubs unless a dancer is already sitting on my lap.
I did encounter a dancer desperate for $5. She offered a table dance for five dollars. I said ok.
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18 years ago
I once saw a dancer get too close to the edge of a tall stage, slip, and fall down off the stage. You just knew that had to hurt. A bouncer carried her away.
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18 years ago
I might have countered how about 60 bucks for 4 dances? If she said yes though, I might have to wonder if she could count.
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18 years ago
I got surprised recently when I thought a dancer was going to hug me and instead of just a hug, she kissed me right on the lips. I wasn't even expecting a hug. Been a little while since I got surprised that much.
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18 years ago
I myself do not like spending too much money on any one dancer. Have several favorites so that if some are not there, you'll always have some backup company. Since I'm not married to any of them, I don't think they should see any problem with me getting dances from whomever I please and I believe everyone knows that. I did have one dancer who didn't understand at first that I wanted to still have fun in a strip club in that way. I think she thought just because I slept with her that I shouldn't be getting lap dances from a number of other dancers. She acted surprised at first, then angry, then she got over it. It wasn't like I had just slept with her, it had been at least a few days.
My very first ATF was quite possessive of me though. She chased all other dancers away until she got dances from me first. Then she let me go free to enjoy the other dancers. If I walked into her club and another dancer sat down to talk with me, she would even come over and get the other dancer to go away until she got some time with me first. That could be a bit annoying at times.
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18 years ago
I noticed the 9th girl managed to smile for her mug shot. :) It should be a crime to prosecute girls for having sex or prostitution charges. I think sex should be made legal. It's perfectly natural in my opinion. I guess too many people think sex is harming them in some way. The funny thing is, without sex, none of us would be here today.
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18 years ago
Getting seen by dancers buying dances from different girls seems to draw attention.
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18 years ago
I must look like a free agent. Even though I have some favorites, almost every dancer in some clubs seems to like to ask for a dance. I like the phrase one dancer told me. "Looks like you have been getting a lot of booty tonight." That's the way I like it. Then the question becomes how many favorites are there and do I have enough money to try out any new girls. One girl from Memphis asked me for a dance about 3 or 4 times until I decided it would be better to tell her no thanks instead of maybe later.
Then some dancers from another club where I never bought a lap dance due to high prices and very strict rules seem to be moonlighting late at the other club I visit. They even asked me for dances at the club where they saw me buying dances and asked me why I never bought any at the other club. I could have said I only have so much money to spend and try to maximize what I get out of it but I said something more tactful. Unless I got a dancer sitting on my lap, I seem to be known as someone who shops around.
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18 years ago
I once had a female customer sneak up behind me when I was tipping a dancer on stage and then when I sat down she was smiling and waved me over to her table. She laughed or smiled very hard about how someone else thought me and her were having sex or something together. I never even saw this girl before. I was thinking Who? thinks I'm screwing her and who why did she tell this to someone? Crazy girl is all I could think of. I departed back to my table and I accepted a dance from a dancer. As I sat down for the dance, the dancer noticed I was alone and asked "did you want me to bring your girlfriend here?" She remembered the other girl who seemed to be playing with me.
I remember once visiting a nude club at the beach and I kept seeing lots of college aged girls and some guys with them. I asked and thought I heard some girls were visiting the strip club as part of their bachelorette party (guys with them though). I was thinking strange way to party at a men's club. Maybe it's not though. Other pretty female customers in a strip club don't bother me unless they seem to be the only one having a miserable time because someone took them to the club against their will and they look sad or angry while everyone else is happy.
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18 years ago
I might have 3 favorites I almost always get dances from if they are in the club. They aren't always there and with 2 of them, I don't know if they will be. I have the phone number and name of one and she tells me personal things especially what her plans are. I have other favorites who I may or may not get dances from. Sometimes I'm so busy I never even see them in the 3, 4, or 5 hours I'm in the club. The club I visit is pretty big with lots of people. Then I seem to have other dancers from another club where I haven't bought any lap dances starting to work at a club where I do and asking me why I never get dances from them. I think if I had a thousand dollars, I could easily blow it all if I got dances from everyone who asked me. There are some dancers who are very friendly to me and I tip them a dollar on stage from time to time but they don't ever ask me for a dance. They must be the ones who don't feel like competing. I don't think I ever asked them for a dance either. I don't ask for dances in a club if I get asked for a dance every few minutes unless a girl is already sitting on top of me. The only shackles holding me is how much money to spend.
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18 years ago
If I had a fantastic time in a club, I might give it a 10. Once in a blue moon I might give a club a 10 if I'm in a really good mood. I think my requirements for a 10 now are set so high, I will only do it just to be different from some other posters. Of course if I compare what I give some clubs when I rate them a 7 or 8 compared to the 9 I give somewhere else, there's actually a big difference in how much fun I had. 10 seems to be perfection though to me now so I don't give that rating much anymore.
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18 years ago
I don't remember too many dancers with glasses. If a dancer wears glasses, that won't bother me. She can wear combat boots on stage and that won't bother me either. I try to see past the little articles of clothing to see the beauty behind that. :)
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18 years ago
I don't think I have. Most of the dancers that I visited at their homes a long time ago either lived alone or with other dancers or friends. I've met sisters working in a club and been told by many dancers of the other dancer they are rooming with. I do remember one girl had a number of friends but I didn't ask who everyone was. I didn't seem to care too much at the time. I was just there to pick her and another girl up and then we were going to the beach. I guess most of the dancers I've met outside of their work have preferred to be alone with me. I have met a dancers cat. She told me her cat didn't like a lot of people but of course it wanted to rub against me. I think all cats do somehow sensing I'm allergic to them.
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18 years ago
I have a new one. Last night why walking through the parking lot, I spotted a drivers license. I decided to pick it up and turn it in at the front door of the strip club. The girl looked young in her 20's (it was easy enough to tell since it had a lot of information on the card). Anyway I was wondering who it might be other than the full name, address etc.. and how she managed to drop it in the parking lot. I was wondering if it was a dancer or not. The girl at the front door said "oh yeah, she was here last night." Apparently she left her drivers license lying in the parking lot all day. She's just lucky I'm not some guy like RL. I thought maybe I saw one girl in the club who resembled her. hmmm, it might have been funnier if I took the card into the club and asked if this was her pointing to the card. I'd probably be awful if I had to ID someone from just their face. Now if they would just include tits and ass on their drivers license photo, I could much more easily identify them.
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18 years ago
Another stupid thing a dancer did. Last weekend I was just one of about 3 guys sitting at the stage and a dancer came over. I immediately tipped her a dollar. Her first words "cheapskate!" I threw another dollar at her and left the stage not liking her attitude at all. I decided I wasn't going to be tipping her anymore at least for some time unless I'm already sitting at the stage like I was that one time. Anyway, she obviously didn't remember or doesn't think calling customers names upsets them in the least. After tipping several girls last night, she comes over and asks for a drink and then a dance when I decline that. Before asking for the dance she wants to let me know about all the extra expensive VIP rooms, champagne room etc. What an idiot. My memory lasts longer than 2 seconds especially when I make a point to remember her so I can avoid her.
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18 years ago
I hear very little rap in the clubs I go to. I believe the clubs I go to the dancer performing on the main stage has selected the music. That seems normal in most of my visits to strip clubs. I enjoy Metallica, Rob Zombie, AC/DC and other popular rock and heavy metal. I even heard one foreign song I believe called Gasolina or something like that I kind of liked. I don't think that is rap either. What I really do not like is country and to a lesser degree, the techno music where it's difficult to tell when a song starts and stops because it sounds like a jigsaw of songs grouped together.
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18 years ago
It's been many years since I asked a dancer for a dance. I think it was back in the 90's and I thought the dance I got was just as good as any other. My experience with a new club is usually one of feeling like I'm fresh meat. I have noticed sometimes a dancer will seem very horny and very insistent on getting a dance on a few occasions. Those girls usually give pretty good dances. Sometimes they're willing to reduce the prices they charge as well if they really are that determined to get a dance from you.
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18 years ago
I guess if you wanted free lap dances you could visit her house and fuck her good. However then she probably would expect presents for her birthday and other events and you would have to hear about all her personal things and be asked when you are going to visit her again etc. etc. There seems to be no free lunch. Then she'll want to go places with you and then there are travel expenses. Might be better off with $10 to $15 lap dances especially if you don't want to get involved.
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18 years ago
I barely remember what one girl looked like (she was too close to my face most of the time) then she started talking about me calling her to let her know when I was going to be back. I'm thinking I don't even know if I want to call because then you could have my phone number.
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18 years ago
The reasonable prices are for regulars and for guys who pretend to be to unsuspecting strippers. The high prices get charged to the guy off the street who wants to burn some money or someone who really does have money to burn.
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18 years ago
LOL, years ago I was a bit relieved when my phone rang and it was a computer calling me or reconnecting my call that I didn't hear something like "Do you want to play a game?" I'm referring to an old movie called wargames in case someone didn't see that one. Even weirder was the strange email messages I got a few times. Straying off the subject here but is there such a thing as a T3 line? I don't remember for sure what those messages were about.