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The DFK: The Last Frontier?

DougS
Florida
Tuesday, January 16, 2007 4:50 AM
In light of some discussion taking place on the subject of "Bases", a few comments that were made raised my curiousity on this. I definitely like DFKing with my dancer friends, but have not found it all that common either. In fact, in all of my years of clubbing, I've only enjoyed the DFK with three dancers. When I think of all of the dancers that I've been with, including OTCing, etc., that number is amazingly low. The three dancers are as follows; one dancer that said she was extremely horny, and who was obviously drunk, but non-the-less fun, one dancer at a Detroit club which has a rep for skankiness (although she didn't look skanky at all - probably one of the hottest dancers I've ever seen), and one dancer that I consider to be my ATF. Amazingly, I never DFKed with my prev ATF, with whom I thought I was very close to, and spent a LOT of time with - over two years, including MANY OTC engagements and a lot of money. She never said "no", but also never gave me the opportunity. You always hear that most hookers/escorts will not kiss you because of the intimacy thing, but does that also apply to dancers? Does it imply anything, if a dancer readily DFKs with you? Especially when it almost always is her initiating the kisses, and I'm almost always the one that pulls away first. I'm talking marathon DFKing...

8 comments

  • shadowcat
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    17 years ago
    In my expierence it has not been that common. Maybe 6 in total, including the one in recent topic of "More erotice adventures. None of them were with my 2 previous ATF's. MY best guess is that is will happen with an unmarried, without boyfriend dancer that is a little horny more often than not. I also agree that light kising on the lips has become a lot more common. During lap dances, stage tipping, and just saying hello.
  • FONDL
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    17 years ago
    Blockbird, are you aware that Baltimore has the highest rate of STDs in the country? The Block is the last place that I'd DFK.
  • blockbird
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    17 years ago
    One of the things that got me going to the Block 6-7 years ago it that frequently a Blockette would just walk right up and start DFKing you, as a way to say Hi." One of the things that got me to virtually quit going the past couple of years is that this now rarely happens.
  • Book Guy
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    17 years ago
    I've done FK with a few of the girls I've had lappers with, in several cities. I think they just "get into the moment" and also realize that it's something her customer (me!) will enjoy, therefore it's good service. I'm not sure if it's "D" FK or "L" FK, but somehow it doesn't matter, since anything done in a lapper is so evanescent and momentary that you often find the best way to deal with it is to just enjoy it for its mere fact of existence, than for the ongoing contact and stimulation it provides, whether you're talking FK or HJ or any other acronym.
  • Mickkeyc
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    17 years ago
    In a couple of clubs I fequent, DFK is synonomous with champ. room, at least with 90% of the dancers. A few DFK on teh floor withoutr regard to what the other dancers or management think, but they are fewer and farther between.
  • casualguy
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    17 years ago
    I got surprised recently when I thought a dancer was going to hug me and instead of just a hug, she kissed me right on the lips. I wasn't even expecting a hug. Been a little while since I got surprised that much.
  • chandler
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    17 years ago
    Maybe it depends on how D the FK is. Sorry, I'm not up on escort terminology. I know what French kissing is, and personally, I enjoy it more with a stripper when it's somewhat light and doesn't last forever. I get that with a fair share of girls I get lap dances from. Five or six come to mind in recent weeks. Usually on my first time with her. It's something she's either inclined to do or never does at all. Not something you work up to. I don't take it to say too much about her feelings for me or anything. However, it's the strippers who give all other kinds of mileage but never French that you long for the most. Thus, it is the new home run or the last frontier. Not first base anymore. It hasn't always been this way. I've heard about clubs from before my time where your $1 tip was routinely rewarded with a French kiss. It seems to have been more a Southern or rural custom, or at least it died out more recently there. In fact, 10-12 years ago at the Hip Hugger in the Indiana corn belt, a few girls did it as part of their tip walk. One memorable time I was there two girls were making the rounds - one about 35 and chunky, the other about 20 and cute. I kept moving around to different seats trying to be next in line for the cute one's kisses, but kept getting stuck with the older girl. Felt like being in a Benny Hill piece.
  • FONDL
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    17 years ago
    I've never encountered any DFK in a strip club. Nor do I want to. I do think that light friendly kissing has become more common though, that used to be pretty rare.
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