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12 years ago
I got news for ya- sugar mommas certainly do exist. I have had a few sugar babies from time to time...a cougar needs her kittens.
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12 years ago
its just self-deprecating fun for most of us. I doubt most use it here seriously, though a few here certainly seem to fit the original meaning.
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12 years ago
I think most dancers that have to dance for someone that they are repulsed by simply block it out and go to that special place in their heads where everyone is physically appealing and don't smell like old-man or B.O.
Or they mentally make their shopping or laundry lists, or plan their kids baby-daddy visits.
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12 years ago
If I wasn't already spoken for, and it was legal, I'd probably do it in a heartbeat.
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12 years ago
"unless this chick is a cougar, then I would find it odd."
wtf???
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12 years ago
lol steve I have alot of dancer text/fuck buddies, but 60 texts over 2 days with one of them is a bit much....just watch out for carpel tunnel!
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12 years ago
Often the dancers will confide in me how repulsed they are by most customers. It amazes me that they can even get physically close to many of them.
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12 years ago
Been there done that. Alot.
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12 years ago
Fake number? What? With strippers giving out their phone numbers like halloween candy as marketing tools, you've gotta be a total fucktard in their eyes for them to give you a phony number.
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12 years ago
Yeah I worry about this constantly.
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12 years ago
Yeah....I'm also going with "scared".
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12 years ago
Starting out in the SC and then taking your fave dancer OTC after her shift is my favorite way to do it. Combines the best of both worlds.
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12 years ago
They go into my phone, and as soon as I leave the club I delete them. Can't risk having the SO find them.
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12 years ago
"attract more business" or "cater to" doesn't matter the wording. Its semantics. Call it what you want but if a business modifies how it's doing things in an attempt to draw in more business it is addressing the demands of that group of people, period. Obviously by doing so proves that it does give a shit about that clientele. That is all that I am saying.
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12 years ago
^^^I disagree. I'm sure alot depends on where you club. All I can tell you is that many of the clubs I go to do cater to the daytime folks, even going so far as to drop forced valet parking and remove cover charge before 6pm. Add on the individual perks alloted to some, and I certainly am not complaining about it.
And as far as griping goes - the older folks tend to be the primary customer base during the days, and as a group they are well known to be grumpy & demanding - so why would anyone expect otherwise?
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12 years ago
Don't know about #2-5, but the #1 statement is completely wrong. Believe me - the smarter managers give a gigantic shit about daytime customers, since many daytime customers tend to be regulars that spend a reasonable amount of cash and they are the ones that dayshift dancers depend on for their cashflow. As a daytimer, I've had managers bend over backward to make sure that I'm happy & comped for things like cover charges, drinks, parking, etc.
They know where the money is coming from, regardless of the time of day.
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12 years ago
Lots of very generous dancers in the daytime, and what they may lack in youth they can more than make up for in mileage. The patrons tend to be much older as well - often I'm the youngest customer in the club in the afternoons by a good 20 or 30 years. Afternoons are quieter and many dancers are more than happy to sit & chat before hitting you up for dances.
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12 years ago
not feeling too sorry for you.
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12 years ago
steve229 -
1. Probably
2. No more than usual
3. Doubtful
4. Unlikely
5. DEFINITELY
My Magic 8-Ball has been very busy today.
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12 years ago
Wow. I'm going to have to see if this will affect any of the clubs that I frequent.
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12 years ago
yes.
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12 years ago
gsv brings up a good point - this approach might be good in a club that you aren't a regular in. Seems like it would be an option for travelers or business people visiting random clubs with no intention of going back again anytime soon. But I wouldn't do it in a club where the dancers all knew me.
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12 years ago
No.
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12 years ago
oops meant to say "post", not "thread".
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12 years ago
Stiletto25 & I rarely converse, but she certainly strikes me as someone who wouldn't stop contributing just because of a thread started by an idiot. She seems more than capable of handling herself here. I'm happy in predicting that she'll stick around awhile :-)