The Direct Approach
Tucky70
Illinois
After a bit, her comment struck a note with me. I approached Dancer A on the floor and said, "You don't do it. Do you mind saying who does?" She had no hesitation about identifying Dancer B who provides extras. I approached Dancer B and went to the LD area. After her first dance, I inquired about going the extra mile and she was pleased to oblige, "for a good tip."
Well, that was cool. So later in the weekend, at another club, I was getting an LD and once again was told "I don't do that." So immediately at the end of the dance I asked her "Would you mind pointing out the dancers who do?" She was more than happy to provide names and point them out on the floor. Once again, her tip was spot-on.
Why didn't I ever try this before? This approach saves a lot of time and wasted dances.
Anybody else in the habit of getting pointers on which dancers provide extras from those who don't? Is there a hazard in this approach?
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One time I told a girl at a Deja Vu that I was looking for a girl to go home with that night. She said "Oh, I don't that but most of the girls here will. I'll go ask for you. Who do you like?"
Another time I was told a stripper that what I really need was an escort that night (in tone a thought she would take as joking). She says "Oh, I have a friend who does that. Want me to call her?"
Never put two and two together and thought to try this approach seriously, though. I like to see how sharp my instincts are, but it sounds like fun, maybe try it sometime for entertainment.
Good discovery and thanks for sharing!
1.)If Dancer A hates one or more of the other dancers in the club. So Dancer A might purposely not point out those dancers to you out of spite.
2.)(and I would hope this would be uncommon) If the club is very strict, or even zero tolerance, about extras, Dancer A might rat you out to management. I would think that the perceived possibility of getting in trouble with law enforcement would outweigh the money made from one customer.
If I was a regular at a club, I probably wouldn't want to be known as the guy who seeks this out so directly all the time - but, if I was relatively new I don't see the harm in trying this out.
Either way, I suppose it works for you.
My last trip to DeJa Vu COI I wasted money. This should save me some $$$.
Thanks for the tip.
Lopaw has a point though.
Dougster - thought the direct approach was your motto.
I wonder if a further implications is that it is better to be known as a perv as opposed to act like you are above that. Maybe once word gets out, girls who do find their way to you.
Most want to be in control of what information givien to guys in the club and may get 'touchy' (not in the way you like) after discovering another dancer is talking about them-even if it's promotional.
Also, recommending an extras girl to LE could get that person in more trouble than the person doing the dance. ("Attempting to promote" I think).
So,to keep the drama to a minimum, I usually keep quiet and resist the temptaion to help out.
The success of this approach depends on the club and the girls and how they perceive you. What works in one club, may not work in another.
Thought you were in a Truce Mr Dougster.
Most, if not all the time I go to clubs I know are Xtras friendly. So it is usually about which sex worker provides what type of service. BUT there are times when I have to roll the dice & discover the information on my own.
“Most†dancers don’t care what comes out of your mouth – most of them care what can comes out of your pockets.
More often than not I will get much better service from a dancer (i.e. much closer to what I desire/expect) by being direct rather than letting her “figure it out†or her performing according to what “she†likes or feels comfortable with.