Comments by lopaw (page 11)

I still get guys approaching me & my dancer at clubs, with them assuming that I am a friend of the dancer and not a customer. The first few times it happened I was pretty chill about it and let it go, but now I make sure that the guy knows the score. Because I know all too well how shitty it is to be interrupted when I am with a dancer, I would never do it to someone else. At most I will send a waitress over to her to let her know that I am interested if I sense that she is bored or just taking a break and hanging out.

What happens between me and my many professional girlfriends is for our eyes & ears only.

The only club that I still see that happen in regularly is Bare Elegance. They run the "cattle call" alot, especially if they are busy. On the one hand I like it as it forces the lazy girls out of the DR and we all get a chance to see the girls available at that time. But on the other hand it is demeaning and the girls generally hate it and most will do anything to get out of it so you really don't wind up seeing all the girls.

Us ladies and gents tell our wives whatever we need to in order to stay under the radar on our extra curricular activities. The alibis are catered to support our individual needs.

I have literally stumbled across them a few times without even trying much. They are always at the casino bar (especially late night), and always alone. They are usually dressed to the nines and sipping on a girly drink, often playing video poker. They are everywhere, lol.

She got mixed up with a couple of other GPS dancers when she was at SRCOI and they corrupted her. It's a shame. I wish that I had met her before she became the diva princess that she is now.

@MisterWonderful, I just met Suki last week during a late dayshift at Synn. She is hot af and she knows it. First thing she tells me if that she only did VIPs and her minimum tip requirement is $100. She was friendly, but when I asked what she wanted as a tip her price was ridiculous. She said that she had never taken a woman to VIP before, so I'm sure she padded her normally high to amount even more. I passed on it and she stayed and chatted with me abit so I'm hopeful that maybe one day she will realise that her GPS is costing her some good potential customers.

What twentyfive said :)

@SirLapdancealot, I think most of us have given up a long time ago trying to figure out how dancers think. You'll drive yourself crazy trying to figure them out. I don't try anymore....I just take them to the back and enjoy their bodies, not caring too much about anything more than that.

Thanks GoVikings, but I have no interest in reading hate so I'll pass on reading that thread :) Good for you for finding dancers that got you what you wanted! I love it when a dancer walks by me and then I am approached by someone hotter who KMSO in VIP. Karma, baby! I

SirLapdancealot maybe but like I said that reason seems to be in the minority, at least based on what I've been told by dancers. At the end of the day it's all about the mighty dollar, so most dancers approach customers that they aren't sexually attracted to, male or female. Hell, if they only approached people that they found sexually attractive we would all be sitting there alone, lol.

SirLapdancealot, You'd think so, but no. Nine out of ten times the reason they don't approach me is due to shyness and their fear & uncertainty of how to approach a woman. I've had some dancers finally approach me on my 3rd or 4th visit to a club, and when I ask why it took them so long to come over they tell me that they were shy and intimidated. Go figure, lol.

GoVikings, I have no idea who pinksugardoll and eve hartley are, so I guess I put them on ignore. Whoever they are, they can bitch and complain all they want about female customers, it don't matter to me. I know the type of customer I am and it's a shame that other women customers are rude or disrespectful. But does it surprise you that some of these broads stereotype customers? How many times have generous and respectful AA guys been ignored because of stereotyping? I think we've all been on the receiving end of that in clubs at one time or other. And as far as those who don't approach us - fuck 'em. They ain't worthy of our time or money anyway.

As a female clubber I get ignored more than guys, but less than couples. But it doesn't happen nearly as often now as it used to. I agree with rh48hr's philosophy. It's their loss, not ours.

*Smfh*

oh hell yezzzzzzzz

With all of the clubs in LA/OC they choose some of the lamest. It's a joke, and a bad one at that.

I'm sticking with TER & RubMaps for now.

The beauty of all of this is that we have options, despite what the fucking gubba-ment is doing to try and shut everything down. Between stripclubs, AMP's & escorts, everyone can find what they are in the mood for that day.

@Smalltowncpl- did you two get any dances from her? @Clubber - you gotta check out COI clubs if you are ever visit SoCal. There are some ridiculously hot Asian women working Synn & SRCOI.

I'd tip her stage but I'm not into blondes so I probably wouldn't pursue her for any dances.

Misandry (& also misogyny - try posting as a female monger over there and hear the hatred fly) are/were the cornerstone of SW's existence. The "dancers" sense of entitlement and GPS were thru the roof. I used to post there years ago, mainly in the SCJ section, but it got to the point that the venom and arrogance displayed by those twats was just too much to take so I left. To hear that the site is possibly in it's death throes is music to my ears. I can't think of a place that many of us will miss less.

I'm always searching for an Asian 10, but have happily settled for 5's thru 9's. Since they are such unicorns I pretty much keep an open mind for any dancer that I find most attractive during a visit. She may be a 7 MILF or a 9 Eastern European or even a 5 spicy Latina. Keeping options open ensures that you'll probably find someone to your liking and won't leave disappointed with all your cash still in your pocket.

I'm fortunate that in my area the forums on USG are very active and are quite useful. I can see how those people whose area on USG is dead would have little use for it.

Hi! :)