If you’ve promised not to do something, and then you do it, that’s cheating. If lap dances either explicitly or implicitly break a promise, then yes, it’s cheating.
No. And her knowing you're getting it elsewhere could make her put more effort into keeping you. Bitches will put up with a lot if they get hooked on you
Ask your wife or girlfriend if she thinks it’s cheating rather than asking us. I’m guessing you’ll get a rather unambiguous and non-theoretical answer.
This is a question that must be determined by a discussion with your SO.
This forum is possibly the worst place for the advice you are seeking.
It’s better to discuss this before you do it. Ask if she’d consider it cheating. I think - in this case - it’s better to ask in advance - rather than dealing with the fallout after.
It's cheating if she thinks so. Also check your wedding vows and have an open understanding about sexual limits with others. Lastly ask yourself if you would be OK with a naked Chris Helmsworth rubbing his hard boner all over her pussy OTP in a private dance. If you have issue then she might too.
My wife and I have had dual private dances at the same time on the same couch before and also she had flat out told me she would rather I see strippers at the strip club than fuck another woman, civie or not. And she lets me go to strip clubs when I'm on business trips and when I have a boys night out. She would have issue with my frequency of getting dances but not just because I do. Basically sex and extras are what we as a couple define as cheating. But that's just us.
It's not cheating as long as there are no extras. In fact, it can keep men from straying (well, that's what my wife and I both think). She's cool with me getting dances as long as my dick stays in my pants.
Isn't the entire point of the strip club experience to engage in a type of fantasy? Bless my stars, all of these attractive women interested in and grinding on little ol' me!
Is it cheating? At most I'd say it's fake cheating. Unless you whip your dick out.
It’s cheating if you exchange bodily fluids. I get massages and don’t consider it cheating. I even nutted on the massage table once when the masseuse was working my glutes and ramming my cock into the soft padded table from her pressure. Yes, she was hot, at a Vegas spa. She got me off without her knowing as her hands rubbed my ass. My SO even paid for it!!
If we’re considering table dances as cheating, when do you cross the line from hair cuts, massages, pedicures, etc?
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I don’t have a girlfriend but I do know a girl who would be very upset to hear me say that.
This forum is possibly the worst place for the advice you are seeking.
It’s better to discuss this before you do it. Ask if she’d consider it cheating. I think - in this case - it’s better to ask in advance - rather than dealing with the fallout after.
My wife and I have had dual private dances at the same time on the same couch before and also she had flat out told me she would rather I see strippers at the strip club than fuck another woman, civie or not. And she lets me go to strip clubs when I'm on business trips and when I have a boys night out. She would have issue with my frequency of getting dances but not just because I do. Basically sex and extras are what we as a couple define as cheating. But that's just us.
(and guilty.)
Is it cheating? At most I'd say it's fake cheating. Unless you whip your dick out.
If we’re considering table dances as cheating, when do you cross the line from hair cuts, massages, pedicures, etc?
however... what if you talk in your sleep?