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2 years ago
A few weeks ago I was in a club with a jukebox and some dancer picked a song that was easily seven or eight minutes. It was the second song with the dancer in my lap, and at some point I let her know she could stop because I was only doing two songs and nothing better was going to happen if we kept going (was in a regular lapdance booth in no-touch Killeen, TX).
In the clubs I'm just trying to get what I'm looking for without too many headaches. If I'm one song apart from a dancer on the count I'll usually just let it go.
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2 years ago
Good for them. Hope it works out. What Ben said about Jennifer Garner was a little douchey, but only because he said it in public.
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2 years ago
Probably why he doesn't do them lol
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2 years ago
Hey bman, tried to send you a pm and it's not working. BOLO
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2 years ago
If I'm only in town for a few days, my schedule drives the process. But if I'm not pressed for time, these days I'll just call it off if the interest isn't there unless I've agreed to meet someone.
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2 years ago
I was thinking no matter which path I chose, Option 1 was going to happen if I was out because it's open later. So I asked myself if I was really in the mood to go out and the answer was no. I might've also remembered that the club I was leaning toward has a Sunday dayshift and they publish a dancer schedule. So it'll be a modified Option 2 I'm thinking now.
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2 years ago
"and up until recently seemed to have a decent life with him."
Do you think she told him because she felt guilty and wanted to set the record straight or because she was tired of being married and wanted out?
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2 years ago
"I did this ONCE and got a response from an old OTC dancer that said, "I'm dead now. Heroin."."
Maybe someone else who knew her had the number. A dancer who was phenomenal ITC and followed up in texts for a few suddenly went silent. I decided to reach out and got a "this isn't her number anymore. All you guys can stop writing" reply. Found out later from another dancer who used to be a good friend of hers that she got drunk and died in a fiery crash. True story. It was in the news and it was her.
"As much as I would love to be the first PL to bang a stripper in Heaven, I was completely. confused and did not respond."
She might've just been trolling you, but it takes energy and interest to do that. Not responding was probably a good play.
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2 years ago
Anybody can play lol. The game is called "here's what happens when you take a hot ass stripper who clearly wants your money for granted" with a "then you change your mind" mini-game.
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2 years ago
Thanks for the thoughts on this. My "sure thing" is still another week out, so maybe I'll just take a quick look around.
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2 years ago
"WTFIT?"
Lol. This is what happens when wallanon gets bored...
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2 years ago
"Have you ever done that? Go thru old contacts and hit up old phone numbers?"
Yes. I don't throw numbers away. Never know when a deliciously ace dancer will suddenly sour or a dud bud blossoms into a beautiful flower lol.
"I'll have to remind them or send them a pic."
I never do this. Never. Ever. Those numbers get recycled all the time and you don't know who's on the other side until you see the whites of her eyes or the pink between her thighs.
"I may need to ask for recent pics of them in case they have gained some weight."
That's your choice, but if I'm asking for something I just go with the flow. If she got fat and you lost track that's on you, not her.
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2 years ago
"I agree with what shadow said."
Did you read what shadow said? Was it the part about knowing when time is right?
"If you come across as presumptuous that extras and OTC can be had, most dancers that I've met will take that as a dis."
You can come across as interested without making it sound like you think she's a low rent hooker. If you create obstacles for yourself when you club then it's just more to trip over. Stripping's a whole job and dancers like money. Somebody will want the cash. The key to the hobby situation is matching up your spending money with a girl you want to spend it on for services you can agree to. That's it.
Working it out over one or two visits or ten gets you to about the same place. It took two years and a global pandemic to get my ATF OTC, so I'm not saying it's always a cakewalk but it's also not rocket science.
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2 years ago
"So Champagne Room does not guarantee that she will have sex with you?"
In case this isn't trolling, no. Spending more money does not guarantee more mileage.
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2 years ago
"fair warning: most are professional thieves, not professional lovers...OTCs can present 10 times the rob opportunities as ITC encounters."
I've had girls no-show, but only a few times. I've never had a girl take the time to show up somewhere and not deliver.
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2 years ago
"It may also be because dancers I like can reliably make $200 a week off me without doing extras or OTC."
Don't know the clubs in your area, but this is what I was thinking for some of you. Maximized returns with minimized effort isn't just a stripper thing, it's a general business principle. If I see a dancer who's OTC material I ask her about it the first time we meet. Helps set expectations because dancers have goals for developing their client base just like we've got things we're shopping for.
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2 years ago
I tried to go to French Quarter in Hot Springs, AK the other day. No parking lot and maybe there were a couple of street parking spots out front. I parked about a block away in what looked like a small neighborhood just past a massage parlor. Walked up to the door and the place didn't open for another hour. That parking situation seemed like a pain in the ass so I'm not sure if I'd bother going back.
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2 years ago
If you've already got two OTC hookups set up that you like, not sure how much we can help you.
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2 years ago
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"They hustled you for a few commissioned dancer drinks and that sucks for sure."
No, I offered them drinks before they could do more than say hello because I had things to do and wanted to skip ahead to the important details. If I'd given them the chance to speak one of the three would've probably tipped me off. The chattiest one spent the next five or ten minutes explaining anything and everything about the place and what was available. The next club I went to the first dancer I talked to told me her drink was going to be $27 when she asked for it. She wasn't really my type, but I bought the drink anyway to kill time waiting for the dancer I wanted to free up.
I mentioned the hundred dollar drink hit because I thought it was a funny story, not because it bothered me.
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2 years ago
I was in Nashville the other night and the PG Crazy Horse was charging $40 a song for shitty lapdances. Some dancers were charging more because they can set their own prices.
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2 years ago
I purge those so I'll leave this as a reminder to try and dredge up a memory.
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2 years ago
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rickduganVerified and Certifiable Super-Reviewer
I offer a dancer a drink if I want her to stay and chat. There's whatever time it takes the bartender to make a drink and then whatever ritual goes along with it. By the time all that is out of the way I'll know if I want her for anything else or not.
The other day I saw two girls sitting together at a table that I wasn't really interested in, but they were chatty, and another dancer I thought looked hot except for an obvious wig but was being shy. I figured for $20 extra bucks I'd get all the info I needed on the club and enough time to decide if quiet girl was worth a VIP. So I wave the shy one over and let them order whatever they want. Then the bartender brings over the drinks and tells me it was 97 fucking dollars. Lol.
So I paid it because I'm the one who asked for the drinks, but when the bartender lady walked away I did ask how much the drinks were. Turns out clubs in that town charge Baltimore Block prices for dancer drinks even in the dives. Obviously that was a fuck up, but what that turned into was three dancers watching some random guy hand over $100 with no worries. After that all they were waiting on was which of them was going to the back after I got my tour of their VIP rooms.
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2 years ago
Behold! The Power of the Internet!
https://www.texasattorneygeneral.gov/news/releases/ag-paxton-celebrates-end-roe-v-wade-announces-abortion-now-illegal-texas
This was from three days ago. If you decide you'd like to actually read the statement released by the Texas AG, it states that although the US Supreme Court judgement has not been issued there are Texas laws never repealed banning abortion (and are potentially enforceable immediately). Now the tongue waggers and random lawyers are saying this is uncharted territory and the 1925 TX law was considered effectively repealed, but the sitting AG has already shown himself to be a...creative thinker. So at best in the TX it's already a tossup. The Louisiana AG has also made a public statement about their trigger law, but I just skimmed over it the other day.
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2 years ago
Question 1 doesn't really cross w/ Rowe v. Wade. On Question 2, yeah maybe it's time for some of us to rethink the raw girl.
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2 years ago
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ilbbaicnlKeep it in my pants when I do OTC. If I were a stripper it would stand for I like big bucks and I can not lie.
"I wonder if this is a statistic that the government keeps. LOL. :-)"
Do you really think nobody knew that Bill Clinton was storing interns under the Resolute Desk for an occasional blowjob? Somebody is keeping track of the unscheduled executive time these Capitol dudes are pulling, but you're not getting that in a FOIA. And if you run your mouth you get Cawthorned.