Aesthetically, what type of girl do you go for?

Please post some pictures of yourself before I answer. That's an informal tuscl rule.

As you said, men's preferences are all over the place.

But seems many like the spinners (small petite barbie tyoes).

I prefer naked women.

Most guys don't care about pole tricks - guys that are interested in getting dances care about what she looks like and carriers herself - never heard of anyone not getting with a dancer bc of her lack of pole tricks - some guys say they like pole tricks but haven't heard too many say they got dances from her bc of her pole tricks - pole tricks may get you some extra stage tips buI I don't think necessarily leads to dance sales, nor the lack of pole tricks will cause less dance sales.

Having said the above, being sexy on stage (eye contact, etc) and acting like you wanna be there def helps and the opposite can def hurt.

Some guys say they like the natural look ( little makeup) - well-done makeup and hair def grabs my attention but it doesn't mean 100% I'll get dances from her just bc she's well made-up but it does help - lack of makeup doesn't mean it's an automatic no-sale but all things being equal nice hair and makeuo only helps, in my view.

A lot of guys also like the GND look (innocent girl next door look)

Her body is all natural. No fake anything. She has an hourglass figure meaning at least a handful of tits and an ass with curves and some hips. I don't like to see ribcage either. In a lapdance she doesn't shy away from my dick and also she doesn't abuse it. She has good hygiene. I prefer and am a sucker for blondes and white girls in general but I would go for any race if she's hot. I also like blue eyes and big noses.

As to pole and stage dancing I treat it as a totally separate thing from getting dances. While I do appreciate a talented dancer, I wouldn't care if she's simply hot to me. What ultimately matters is how she is in a private dance and her attractiveness. Also she must have good hygiene.

You can always do your own field research.

You can go to a popular strip club and observe which girls do well and how they look and act.

Stripping is a sales job and in sales one has to be proactive - many times I've seen attractive dancers not make much $$$ bc they don't approach custiea.

I never cared too much for make up. Not saying it looks bad but I could go either way on it. Not a big deal for me. I’m not going to the club saying “I hope I see a girl tonight with blue lipstick!”

The absolute biggest thing is getting exercise so you keep a nice looking body. Don’t get rake thin. Have some meat on you but just don’t get fat. That ass can be a huge money maker. Squats in the gym would be a really smart move.

Most don’t give a fuck about good pole dancing. It’s cool when it’s really good but we care more how you dance on us.

A big thing with regular types like us, is being cool. You are who you are not gonna change that and I’m not saying to put up with too much bullshit or do something your not comfortable with but work hard to build rapports and be friendly to the customers. It really can go a long way. A lot of dancers don’t bother to do it. Also try not to be too flakey. Shit happens I know but make an effort to make appointments with customers.

The older I get the more I’m into really cool girls I click with. It’s such huge turn on for me because it’s so rare. I mean you definitely have to be hot to me, but if you personality to I’m gonna probably be a regular.

Everything worth mentioning has already been said.

I definitely don’t go for any of the most popular girls that OP mentioned.

I like naturally beautiful women that are not girly girls. My current favorite does not have fake long nails and does not use a lot of make up. I would consider her a GND.

Pleasant attitude is very important. I have seen some ice queens at the club that act so entitled. I avoid those.

Couple more things, could you post a few more body shots just to see what type you are. We could give some constructive feedback.

And also stay out of these ghetto ass clubs with all these fucking crooks running around. You probably will have to deal with some of it. Could I ask what state at least or region of the country your in?

All of my favs have been skinny young white girls with small or medium boobs. Usually average height or shorter. I don't mind tats or piercings. Definitely massive bonus point to anyone who looks like a GND.

Things that turn me off: heavy foundation, contouring, twerking

To the OP Rhiannon - One thing you will hear a lot on this forum is a massive preference for natural boobs. In my opinion this forum isn't 100% representative of the average strip club customer which doesn't mind or even likes fake tits.

Saw you mentioned fake nails. To me long fake nails are a turnoff. Generally anyone who has them is a little ghetto and nothing is more of a turnoff to me than a ghetto or thug attitude/persona.

^^^I gotta admit Paul I would say MOST dancers have fake nails. That shit is so common now. I think Nice even mentioned to work at the Palace in San Antonio it’s a requirement. I will say I kind of like those really bright highlight colored ones. I think those look good. Flat tip not pointy tip though. Pointy tip looks like something out of where the wild things are

Im almost exclusively into short curvy-thick latinas. I just love exotic looking women who look well fed lol. Im okay with fake asses and tits if done well. Tattoos-piercings same deal.

Most important factor after looks is good vibe and chemistry. As others have said...i wont waste time-money on an ice queen or dancer with gps i dont care how hot she is.

Some of my best nights have been with girls that werent originally my first pick but we ended up having strong chemistry.

Fitness model with implants. A bra that's easily removable and pretty much nothing else above the waist. Skirt and panties below the waist and of course stripper shoes. Everything others have said about attitude works too.

sexy sexy sexy...

For me, the attitude makes the girl. If any of the dancers approach me with a smile and good conversation, laughter, touchy and no GPS (Golden Pussy Syndrome), then they can easily make $200 off me in conversation tips alone. When it comes to lap dances, i love the natural, curvy hourglass figures. I will say that the AA gals always seem to capitalize my time because they are always first on scene to get me having fun. The strip Club scene is my release for fun because I work 24/7 and like to cut loose with nonjudgmental people that will allow me to have fun and then walk out that door until next time.

Some of the most beautiful dancers do not attract me BECAUSE they think that they are the best shit since sliced bread. My money goes to the fun gal who will engage eye to eye and literary have fun with me. In my opinion, EXTRAS are termed such for that reason... they are EXTRA .... and not my main reason for visiting strip clubs.

I like seeing a talented pole dancer, but it is not even remotely critical. Projecting FUN and appearing to ENJOY being on stage is a turn on.

I am not that picky. More often than not I prefer big juicy ass and thighs and big tits. I do like my strippers with makeup but not so much that they look like a clown. Pole tricks are cool but im more interested in lap dances.

I’m attracted to tall thin woman of any race, not crazy about the younger girls I prefer sophisticated and intelligent non trashy types, and the biggest boner killer for me are those girls that try to give me sad stories about how finiancially desperate they are.

Attitude is important. Just have a conversation and don’t act like a hustler, desperate, or over the top but be a little whorish/flirty. As far as physically, spinners with b/c cups, toned stomach, and a cute rear.

Thanks y’all for the feedback!! I am in Seattle right now and all clubs here are fully nude juice bars with outrageous house fees. When I was dancing, Dallas and Houston were great because of the low house fees, and in general it was just cool to work there. I was definitely not a good pole dancer and made the majority of money via individual dances. I am very well-spoken and well-informed on a variety of topics, currently enrolled in college and now in grad school. I was very good at making connections was easy for me. I saw girls who would just say “do you wanna dance” and then proceed to talk about baby daddy drama the whole time.
I was never a fan of the ridiculously long nails. Because the club required it, I would do an extremely conservative French manicure but nothing crazy. I would definitely consider myself very, very GND.

Oh yeah and for pics go to my profile to see them.

The Dancers I most fondly remember have had a lot of different looks. Tall, short, slim, curvy, blondes, red heads, brunettes, Asians, Latins, AA’s, White. What they had in common was a more natural look, seemed confident in their own bodies and were engaging to talk with. Some tattoos are OK, makeup should not be over the top.breast implants are fine if done well. Good dancers on stage with some ability on stage do get my attention, but again being into the dance and interacting with those watching is more important in keeping my attention.

Just looked at your pictures, You look lovely.

i'm not that picky. Latinas (they have the prettiest skin tone/complexion) are my fav, but race doesn't matter at all if you're hot to me. physically, the most important things is for her to be natural and wear little to no makeup. the picture in my profile is a good example of what i like as far as looks

i mostly like a dancer with a good attitude. i've met a couple dancers in the past who were SUPER hot physically, i mean, like, exactly my type......but their attitude wasn't up to par

If you're thinking about doing dayshift and/or specializing in PL regulars, this is a good forum to ask. Some strippers love building their business on mostly regulars, but some dislike it, and some do a hybrid where they have a few regulars at a time

If you're thinking about maximizing your income with the Saturday night 1am college guys, this-is-our-one-boys-night-out-wooo guys, etc., you'll very likely get the wrong picture here.

For example:
- I've never been on an internet strip club forum where the overall feeling wasn't strongly AGAINST boob jobs

- I've never known a stripper who didn't claim that strippers' income almost always goes up when she gets a boob job

I have clubbed long enough that the stereotypical stripper type leaves me cold. Too much make-up, too much lip collagen, excessive implants, or plastic blonde barbie types are a pass. I generally like the GND, good attitude/personality, sweet or sassy, easy smile, natural beauty types.
Pole tricks are a plus, but not ultimately important. I like body types from spinners to curvaceous, but want some tone to her body. I have never understood how if you dance for a living you wouldn't achieve a minimal level of fitness.
I am usually drawn to someone who has set themselves apart in a good way. In a room full of blondes, the girl with auburn hair will draw my attention. If every girl comes to stage slowly twirling barely balanced on 9" stripper heels, then the girl that skips out on stage wearing sneakers and then proceeds to dance her ass off is getting my money.

Blonde and busty.

@rhiannon based on your profile pics you are a hottie. Great breasts and that's my type of nose. Nice curves and you have a beautiful smile. If you come down to Portland, PM me. I give a helluva massage if you want one...

I generally go for the brunette girl next door look with B - C cup breasts and a slight hourglass figure. So from what I see of your pics you would be just the type I would buy dances from.

Fake nails don't matter as long as they are not overly long which I avoid after a girl accidentally drew blood during a vip session due to her 3 inch fake nails.

Makeup is something I don't notice unless it is excessive or has glitter and I will avoid both of those.

The only time pole dancing is a factor is if you are in a club that only gives air dances and then they are interesting to watch. I prefer a more sultry and seductive stage show, but honestly I don't think a stage show has ever made me decide to get a dance or not other than letting me get a look at the girls in the lineup. My decision on dances is dependent on looks and the conversation we have before hand.

Natural boobs. No tattoos! No hair extensions.

A nice inny (belly button), taut belly, curvy hips, soft to firm medium boobs, GND smile, long auburn hair.

And erect nipples.

Pleasant conversationalist, happy attitude.

The beautiful lass in your photos looks close to perfect. Can't tell about the nipples (damm tape).

Free the nipples. 😉

A fun, easygoing personality and a nice smile are a must for me. Then as far as appearance, I’m fine with any ethnicity but I like an athletic build. An athletic build can vary a lot, from the gymnast look to the Lindsay Vonn look. But basically it appears that she takes care of herself, doesn’t have a big waist and seems healthy. From there, natural without a lot of makeup or long nails is my preference. I didn’t used to care for the tats but I’ve made peace with them and don’t much care one way or another these days.

Pole tricks can be fun to watch but don’t matter too me in terms of spending and it doesn’t diminish my experience at all if none of the dancers do them.

I also suspect that Subra is right in that the answers you get on this forum might not match what you’d find sells best to the overall club crowd.

529,

To be honest with you "appearance" will perk my interest, but after that, it becomes less important. LESS important, but still an important part. Attitude and personality are most important!

These are good points.

Her attractiveness is important. It has to at least hit some minimum, and the hotter she is, the more that works for her.. but I've ATFed women who aren't my perfect physical ideals.

How fun she is at the table also has to hit some minimum. I'll take an 8 who is a fucking riot at the table, over a 9 who isn't, in a heart beat. Don't even need to think about it.

And, course, there's mileage (or "vampiness" in founder's cringey terminology🤣 ). AGain, she has to hit some minimum at the very least, or no matter how hot or fun she is, she's gone. After that, more mileage can make up for other things.


Pure physical ideal wise, I love a gymnast's body: Slim, everything in proportion: small but heart-shaped and projecting bottom, small gravity-defying breasts, flat stomach, lumbar curve and dimples, firm everywhere. Lack of lumbar curve (aka Asian Girl's Disease) is a killer

5'/ 110 lb spinner

-->"It is incredible to see so many agree on general traits they seek on such a subjective topic. It's not unanimous and there are differences of course, but it's still impressive."

It's also why I claim our advice is so iffy, for a beginner who is looking for mass appeal to the typical Saturday 1am crowd. PLs have a different perspective than random club goers. Our advice is awesome if she wants to appeal to older, regular customers -- who, in many clubs, are the ones with the most money, so it's not terrible advice. Just might not be the best advice for the high-hustle fast-buck sausagefest hours, where fake tits and barbie girl looks still seem to sell

"... If every girl comes to stage slowly twirling barely balanced on 9" stripper heels, then the girl that skips out on stage wearing sneakers and then proceeds to dance her ass off is getting my money ..."

It's my understanding that most clubs mandate the dancers specifically wear those big platform dancer-shoes; AFAIK it's rare for a club to let dancers be in sneakers

Nice pics - you seem to have a nice GND look many custies seem to like - you don't look very stripper-ish which is often a plus with the more regular type strip-clubber.

Also - smiling seems to often go a long way in interpersonal relationships.

@Papi, rare certainly, but I've seen it a few times at a few clubs. Hustler in Washington Park and one memorable girl at 2001 in Tampa off the top of my head. The fact that they could really cut loose with their dancing really made it striking and grabbed my attention.

Not sure why clubs mandate the platform shoes but seems kinda an industry standard - I assume bc it makes the dancers look taller and more statuesque kinda like models are supposed to be tall; and the longer heel I think is supposed to give them a more curvy figure.

Heels make their legs look longer in relation to their body, which is sexy. And sort of force their posture to be butt-out a little, which is sex.

One of the dives here doesn't have any rules on this, and the girls all come out in sneakers. It definitely is not a good look, you can see how short some of their legs are, etc.

I like to see sexy girls in the club... girls that would turn my head if I saw them on the street or in the night clubs and out shopping or on the beach. I don’t mind enhancements if they’re well done but certainly I prefer natural. and I absolutely love pretty girls of any ethnicity. I just love the beauty of a pretty girl. good topic rhiannon. and i like your look!

Unfit = bad. Fat, large, overweight = bad. (Ultra-skinny unfit probably also = bad but, really, I've NEVER met a stripper who was SO skinny that her body-size made her over-all unattractive, so, err on the side of skinnier. LOTS skinnier than most women tend to believe.) Old face = bad. Prissy, prudish, or self-important attitude = bad. Badly done ultra-fake-looking boobs = bad (IMO, but other dudes differ). Bad skin = bad. Floppy post-partum belly = bad. Stinky bad hygiene = bad. Spastic physical control, inability to walk gracefully = often bad. Dirty hair = bad. Loud obnoxious drunk = bad. Brutish, masculine, generally beer-swilling aggressive behavior = bad. Disproportionate body (tits relative to waist and/or hips too big/small) = bad. Excess glam glam bangles, rings, foot-long fingernails = bad. Ghetto trash talk accent = bad. Fake upper-crust talk accent = bad. Asymmetrical facial features = bad. Failure to approach customers = bad. Demand for more money because she thinks she's "special" (without doing anything for the money other than merely existing) = bad. Having a "dance routine" = bad. Pole tricks = bad. Performing something from "Cats" or "Phantom" = bad. Using effort to demonstrate ANY skill that has little relation to enjoyable lap-dance skills = waste of effort, probably bad. Late = bad. Makes customers wait = bad. Obsessed with cell phone = bad. Demands extra tip = bad. Has ugly pushy friends = bad. Approaches in pairs, trios, overwhelms individual males with numbers = bad. Takes off less clothing that any other dancer in the joint = bad. Performs less sexually directed activity than agreed = bad. Performs less sexually directed activity than reasonably was expected = bad. Bad breath = bad. Too much fashion = bad. Too little fashion = bad. Overweight = (I said this already) bad.

Generally, a woman is as attractive as how ever many flaws she can avoid. It's a system of taking marks off for errors. You start as female and human, that's 100 points. Then you get deductions for every failure that you or the gods or your nature or genetics caused. More deductions for the flaws YOU caused, less deductions for the flaws you had no choice about, especially for physical fitness, personal hygiene, and "style" choices.

Women want men. Men want girls. Girls don't know what they want.

I go for spinners, minimal-to-no tattoos, normal nails (with any luck she's going to have her hands on me at some point, right? so forget anything extra-long, and fakes are just one more thing to have to take off), boob size doesn't matter to me as long as there's something there. Pole tricks score extra points, they're not absolutely required. I definitely use the stage dance as an indication of what to expect in a private dance - lethargic and bored (pass) or active and engaging with customers. I believe it speaks to how much effort a dancer is going to put forth to entertain me. And red hair is always worth extra.

I like natural petite girls. I like fit girls who probably are a bit less curvy than most people prefer.I would say I prefer blonds but my current favorite is a brunette. I prefer no non/ ear piercings or tattoos. That being said I’ve liked girls a lot who weren’t strictly speaking my type.

Thank you everybody for the input! My primary customers were older, white conservative men with money, and even though I couldn’t do fancy pole tricks, I would always make an effort to smile and wink and make eye contact with the audience. I managed to do very well, but much of that was demographic. I’m sure that I wouldn’t do well in a hip hop club that’s big on tweaking or one that has offers hipster Suicide Girl type dancers.

Upscale clubs often tend to be a bit more conservative (and intelligent dancers that can have a convo may do better in that environment) - also a club with a good dayshift would probably be a good fit

One more thing if you have older white customers and you have the ability to pick music to dance too. Go classic rock. Another way to connect and what to you care any if it’s not a strength of yours on stage. When I hear a girl dance to an Aerosmith song I look for reasons to try to get dances from her

Here's another data point for r529 (thanks for the pics): Although I favor medium-thick dancers with moderately large natural breasts followed closely by tall (5'6" or more) athletic build dancers, over the years I have bought multiple repetitive dances from dancers ranging from 5' spinners to a 6'3" blonde enhanced porn star. I'm "EO" with dancers who project a nice engaging personality, and can at least deliver a good dance experience. I've bought dances with plenty of brunettes, blondes, redheads, even a few 2 toners.

I'll also confess to a slight bias towards platinum blonde porn star or Marilyn Monroe like dancers- they can grab my initial attention from across the room. But if I dancer wants to keep my attention, she'd better have some good personality traits mentioned by many posters while minimizing the flaws listed by "Book Guy". (Now you can see how he got that nickname.)

Now that I've (hopefully) answered your question, I have a couple for you:

1) What is your age threshold for someone to be labeled as an "older man" ?

2) What standards/signs do you observe/look for to label someone a "man with money" ? Did they show you their bank/brokerage statements ? Were they a principal officer in a major public held corporation where you could look up their compensation package on Yahoo finance ? Or do you judge them by the car they drove up in, the clothes/jewelry that they wear , the drinks they buy in club, etc. Or do you ask them what they do for a living ? Or ask where they live or if they're in town on business, and they let on what they do for living or how large their house is ? I'm genuinely curious about your answers.

-->"One more thing if you have older white customers and you have the ability to pick music to dance too. Go classic rock."

I dunno Muddy, I find classic rock hard to dance to in a super sexy way. A young woman should be dancing to something hip, not dancing to music from the 70s, at least for me

^ Subraman is gangsta

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But Subra that stuff sounds like 💩

You’re definitely attractive and should do well. If we got along well I’d definitely be interested if I met you in the club. I consider myself more middle aged than older at 39 but my preferences seem to be a lot more in line with the type of clientele you describe.

I tend to drift toward younger natural girls who aren't too made up. That gets my attention. Attitude, personality, and the ability to sell the fantasy keep me coming back for more. I prefer a fit/toned body, natural tits, and less make up. Not opposed to fake tits. But fake ass and injected lips are a deal breaker.

And it never hurts for her to be confident but affectionate.

I could not agree more about “classic rock.” Strip club customers hear enough rap, hip hop, Top 40, plus it was primarily catered to older white affluent men. I like lots of music, but dance to the Stones, Aerosmith, Heart, GnR, AC/DC, even some Sex Pistols.
I consider “old” to be Baby Boomers, basically 55-60+. And I have found that the younger guys who are soooo eager to show you pictures of their Ferrari and floss their alleged wealth with flashy clothes, etc are the ones who are stingiest. And the reality is, unless you’re Mark Zuckerberg, it’s pretty rare to find a young millionaire. That being said, I don’t care how much you make, if you’re generous with your money. I’ve had regulars who were not super wealthy but would go fish in Alaska and want to come back and spend all their earnings at the club. I don’t wanna fuck anyone out of their life savings, I just appreciate generosity. Also when I am sitting with a guy, I always ask him about himself, what he does for a job, small talk, etc. Guys in Finance or any type of Tech or Software Engineering tend to be pretty well-off. Likewise, I’m pretty well-educated, and can spot a liar pretty quick. If someone tells me they are a doctor, I say something like “oh that’s so cool! I considered going to med school. What’s your area of specialty?” It’s a dead giveaway if they can’t answer that question? If I guy comes in, I talk to him and he says that he’s a rapper and would I like his mixtape, I usually move on quick

1. Short Latina, curves (not fat) with thick nipples. This was my first love, and I miss I’ve missed fucking her since we broke up decades ago.
2. Black spinner.
3. Asian spinner.
4. White emo spinner.

In general, for dances, I do go for the blonde Barbie look. So far though, these girls are in high demand and sometimes a bit full of themselves since they are so popular.

Personality trumps all though. Lately I've been talking to variety of girls I still find attractive, but not necessarily the blonde bimbo type. I've had much better luck finding someone who can hold a conversation with.

You look good in the pictures. I think not looking like a stripper and being intelligent in conversation will help attract me.

Preferences:
-Brunette
-Race is immaterial, though I do find AA girls hot
-Naturals for sure. B cup + is nice but not required, my CF is A cup
-Slender or athletically curvy, not chubby
-Tattoos and piercings are fine. Prefer not excessive amount, but not a deal breaker
-Personality - fun or funny or both. Clubbing is super fun to me, and a dancer who makes it fun is a bonus
-Dances: Good grind = continued spending. Upstairs access still limited during 2nd or 3rd dance = no more dances.
-Sensuality during stage show = more likely I'll ask you for soem test drive dances even if not necessarily my type. I enjoy watching dancers who do good pole work, but Papi is right now that I think of it - pole work does not automatically result in dances

-And, absolutely no butt implants

Athletic/Fit/Confident/Sweet

Cute, non-smoker, no tattoos, intelligent and fond of sodomy.

Young, skinny, pretty.

I'm also into young (college age, not Jeff Epstein-ish), skinny, and pretty.

The OP describes some other things that are a plus to me: having career goals outside of stripping and going to grad school is interesting to me. I would go to tip rail and find out what you're studying and what kind of career goals you have. Usually it's easier to find this kind of girl online -- but this thread proves it's also possible in a strip club.

Being able to do pole-tricks on stage isn't something I care about.

Without reading through this whole thread I'd say that my tastes vary at times but usually fit, neat, and clean, with a non predatory personality gets my attention. All of which are rarer than unicorns in the clubs I happen to frequent.

I'm all over the map. But generally I like women who are darker and more exotic. I like some "thick" women, but usually I just want her to be somewhat fit and able to finish a meal.

C or D tits preferred, but lately I've been picking dancers with A or B cups.

I'm fine with a lot of tattoos, but sometimes it depends on the tattoos.

I prefer a women who give good eye contact are generally friendly and flirty. That said I do prefer women with long sexy nails (real or fake), Sky high heels, well pedicured toes and can be between thick and skinny but in shape

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My preferences.
A pretty face, friendly attitude are paramount. Looks wise I like long to medium long hair. Short to medium height, 4'10 to 5'7. Petite 4'10 to 5'2 inch dancers often give the best dances, and 5'5 to 5'7 dancers often look the hottest on stage. Tight, firm, athletic body, tight firm butt, firm natural breasts, as long as they look nice, and don't sag. B to C cup usually look the best, but a nice well shaped D cup really turns my head. I also like nice eraser sized nipples.

As for dances, I like dancers who know the correct way to give pressure while moving herself smoothly along my body. I like a dancer who looks into my eyes, whispers sexily into my ears, without sounding silly.