Leaving

JohnSmith69
layin low but staying high
So I'm leaving tuscl, or at least taking a break for a while. Like several others who have left, I'm just tired of all of the childish bickering and the argumentative, destructive attitude of so many. Plus I can't remember the last time I read something in the discussions that was of any actual help in any meaningful way. Many days it feels like it would be more productive to spend my time on tuscl banging my head against a wall instead. I don't think it used to be this way, or at least not this bad, but perhaps I've just forgotten.

The start of a new year seems like the right time to make this change. There are many people here who I like, and I have enjoyed meeting and getting to know some of those individuals. I will miss them. But of course there are many others who I'll be glad to be finished with. Hopefully for good.

I'm not asking for a going away party or anything. It just seemed right to say something rather than to just disappear.

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  • chessmaster
    9 years ago
    Noooooo....
  • Papi_Chulo
    9 years ago
    Thanks for taking the time to post – yeah – IMO TUSCL is def not the most-productive way to spend one's time; more of a guilty pleasure of sorts.

    I think you'll be back sooner than later since there is no other substitute for TUSCL for those that really like SCing; there will always be crappy threads/comments but also some good-ones one can-enjoy.

    If you can fill your time with something more productive and enjoyable then more power to you; but TUSCL is still good for what it is as long as one takes the good with the bad.

    All the best and hope you come back.
  • san_jose_guy
    9 years ago
    JS69, Hope to see you back soon.

    I think some people have chilled out. On the whole I like TUSCL, only place a PL and Pervert like myself has been welcome.

    SJG
  • flagooner
    9 years ago
    I didn't realize tuscl was a substitute for therapy. I use it to get a little Intel and recommendations for clubs and an occasional laugh.
  • flagooner
    9 years ago
    Amen sjg
  • georgmicrodong
    9 years ago
    While I sympathize with your position, now the trolls have won, at least in your case.

    Take it easy, John. Be well. If your travels ever bring you to Louisville, look me up.
  • Bavarian
    9 years ago
    JS69, you know people are going to hate. Don't let them bother you. There are some good people on this board. They might bust your chops from time to time but they have good intentions. For the obvious trolls and haters, just put them on ignore.

    I enjoy reading about people's experiences and adventures with their strippers. It takes time to write good posts like yours. Sadly, good contributors are driven away and we are left with a forum littered with crap posts from trolls.

    Every single one of us on this board is pathetic. This is the last place I expect people passing judgment on others.
  • Clackport
    9 years ago
    What's wrong with the ignore button?
  • mikeya02
    9 years ago
    You're a good guy John Smith. Just remember our advice about not taking mollies
  • GoVikings
    9 years ago
    Don't do it
  • RandomMember
    9 years ago
    I get the feeling that you're an intelligent guy, JS. Here's my sincere advice: go out to the gym and find yourself a hot woman that takes care of herself in her late thirties, or early forties. Tell her that your're a successful lawyer. When you find the right one, the connection (both emotional and physical) will be amazing. When you've accomplished that, come back to clubbing and to TUSCL. At that point you'll realize that paying 20-year-old strippers for sex constitutes entertainment and entertainment only -- not a substitute for real human relationships.

    Oh, and GeogeNanoDong: Go fuck yourself.
  • georgmicrodong
    9 years ago
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rY0WxgSX…

    See John, *that's* how you do it.
  • jackslash
    9 years ago
    Take a break if you want, but I hope you come back.
  • ATACdawg
    9 years ago
    JS, I will truly miss your DS posts while you are on hiatus. Seriously!
  • sharkhunter
    9 years ago
    See you in another week or two or so. :)
  • gawker
    9 years ago
    Your adventures as described in your posts have been entertaining but also I've taken them almost as a challenge. Video girl intrigues me with what must be a wonderful streak of exhibitionism. My ATF has let me do still shots of every crease and crevice, stills of her sucking my dick, but not video (yet).
    During my atf's travels to Mexico (for rehab) and to Hawaii ( for shits and giggles) I've been cultivating a new friend who holds great potential. I so looked forward to sharing my exploits with you and in some fucked up way seeking your approval or accolades. It is a game of sorts, is it not?
    I tire of the trolls and make judicious use of the ignore feature, but frankly that frequently interferes with stream of (non)thought in other discussions. There are several contributors who through the years have really added fun and constructive stories and advice - SlickSpic, FarmerArt, JS69, well they come and they go. Rethink your position, please. Think about the next great conquest in your life. What'll you do, call your ex-wife and tell her about it?
  • mjx01
    9 years ago
    embrace the ignore list :)
  • DoctorPhil
    9 years ago
    https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=3…

    @RichardF “John is at that delicate age between manhood and dotage, which makes him an endless source of amusement.”

  • DoctorPhil
    9 years ago
    https://www.tuscl.net/postread.php?PID=3…

    @JohnSmith69 “He's just fucking with all of us. Disappearing is his new strategy to get attention, which is what trolls do.”
  • DoctorPhil
    9 years ago


    “I hate those disappearing attention whoring trolls the most.”
  • JohnSmith69
    9 years ago
    Thanks for the comments from the normal people on the board, who are fortunately in the majority. I am going to stay away for at least a little while. Right now I feel too much of a desire to meet some of our members and try out some of my new firearms. However, most likely I will miss it and find my way back sometime soon.

    Gawker, I have always felt that you are the only one who truly understands my stories, probably because you are the one of the few that has had funds similar to what I have to buy strippers (or rent them if you prefer). I do have many stories to tell, and you're right I can't exactly tell my wife. I haven't even mentioned sex on the beach from my carribean trip a couple of months ago. But I do really need a break for some period of time.
  • DoctorPhil
    9 years ago
    @JohnSmith69 “Thanks for the comments from the normal people on the board...


    you’re quite welcome

  • DoctorPhil
    9 years ago
    now find some other way to whore for attention. i mean what would that psycho rapist san_jose_guy do without you if you actually went away
  • MrDeuce
    9 years ago
    JS69, I will miss your DS stories, even if *nobody* but you uses the abbreviation DS :) When you come back soon, do what I do for the sake of sanity -- put a bunch of these haters and trolls on ignore!
  • Confucious
    9 years ago
    DoctorPhil aka Clackport aka Missionary aka Ranukam aka P whatever...

    Why are you such an asshat? Afraid to post your mean comments under your main user id, so you use aliases. You come off as jealous, bitter, and pathetic. Fix your own life and quit bashing others.
  • Clackport
    9 years ago
    Hey Confucious you moron, I'm not DoctorPhil. I'm guessing you probably believe in the tooth fairy and Santa Claus.
  • Confucious
    9 years ago
    Deflect and deny. Nice try. You've been outed. Again. Deal with it. And quit being an asshat.
  • Clubber
    9 years ago
    JS69,

    As one that has taken a hiatus a couple of times, I did miss it to some degree. Perhaps because in my day to day activities (a creature of habit) I had a "hole" in my routine. Not a big one, but a hole, none the less.

    I don't doubt I'll do it again, in time. The ignore helps, but it wasn't needed many years ago. As an old timer, I can attest to that, right sc?
  • whodey
    9 years ago
    So long JS69 your well written stories will be missed. If we keep losing good contributors based on the actions of trolls I'm afraid TUSCL will go the way of stripclublist.com and numerous other formerly good sites. They lost their usefulness after the trolls descended.
  • crazyjoe
    9 years ago
    Good for you john
  • RichardF
    9 years ago
    Dear John,
    Can I use your magnificently cool avatar when you're gone? The one that appears to be designed by an autistic 14-yr-old boy? Thnx, that would be so cool.

    Don't let the door...
  • PhantomGeek
    9 years ago
    John, you're easily one of the more articulate and skilled writers that I've seen on any number of boards, including this one. You definitely know how to craft a good vignette. After your hiatus -- after what's doubtlessly a very needed breath of fresh air -- I hope you share more stories with us but hopefully with some expanded horizons, adventures that include AMPs, escorts, and maybe an occasional cosplayer.

    Take it easy, man. May the strip club gods continue to favor you.
  • PhantomGeek
    9 years ago
    And here's a ginger grinder for you think about.

    http://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?vi…
  • twentyfive
    9 years ago
    John I hate to say this but this post of yours is similar to the posts of the attention whores that post their ignore list. If you wish to leave the board you are free to go any time . I have enjoyed a few of our back and forth bickering over stuff, from time to time and found you to be an intelligent thoughtful guy, when you are not obsessing like a 14 year old adolescent, over a whore, of all things to obsess about.
    Any way John good luck to you whatever you do.
  • 4got2wipe
    9 years ago
    No disrespect to JohnSmith69, but my new year's resolution in his shoes might be to cut back on the drugs! (mostly joking, as long as he doesn't drive while high and the drugs don't interfere with his life it is his business, though all of the drug use wouldn't be something I'd do)

    Joking aside, people need to not let trolling get to them! JohnSmith69, if you're relaying your crazy stories truthfully you're winning my friend! Embrace that fact! Winning = brilliant! ;)

    And if you're exaggerating but still having fun, you're still winning! Having fun = winning! And we already know that winning = brilliant! So one can use basic math to conclude that having fun = brilliant!

    Stay brilliant JohnSmith69!

    Regardless, enjoy the sabbatical and come back energized to share crazy stories!
  • DoctorPhil
    9 years ago
    @Clackport “Hey Confucious you moron, I'm not DoctorPhil.”


    oh yes you are

    when you’ve been sussed, you’ve been sussed. deal with it


  • RedJohnson
    9 years ago
    No need for the dramatic swan song John. Just stop posting.
  • Clubber
    9 years ago
    Red,

    ^^^ As one that has just done that, it can cause consternation with TUSCL friends. JS69 is trying to avoid that. That is thoughtful on his part.
  • Subraman
    9 years ago
    JS, stick around man! We need more folks who post actual interesting content, even if it's sometimes cringeingly over-romanticized. Well, maybe ESPECIALLY if it's cringeingly over-romanticized :)
  • Corvus
    9 years ago
    Vaya con Dios, my friend. Oh, wait, vaya con strippers, my friend.

    John some of us will miss your stories, but I understand your feelings. I imagine you will be back soon enough though. Just embrace the ignore option.

    And send pictures.
  • tumblingdice
    9 years ago
    I can't believe how many idiots think this guy is legit.
    Let's back up a second here.
    He claims to be a lawyer.
    He claims to be going through a divorce.
    He claims to entertain several strippers at the same time.
    He claims to be clubbing in a new state once a month.
    He's posting 24/7.
    When does he have time to practice law?
    Hey Johnyboy,don't let the door hit ya in the ass on the way out.
  • GoVikings
    9 years ago
    I've met him tumbling....I know it's true
  • Papi_Chulo
    9 years ago
    ^ that's all doable - just b/c you can't do it yourself does not mean it can't be done.

    My cousin is a dentist and only works 2.5 to 3 days a week max - he actually leases out his dental practice to another dentist the rest of the time and he makes very good $$$ and does not work too much at all.
  • jackslash
    9 years ago
    "I can't believe how many idiots think this guy is legit."

    I've met JS69 and partied with him at a couple Detroit strip clubs. I think he is what he says he is. I believe he's a corporate lawyer who travels on behalf of his employer, not a trial lawyer. He most likely goes to various cities, negotiating contracts and reading all the fine print in legal documents.
  • chessmaster
    9 years ago
    I still think with lawyer money you should be banging a new stripper every week.
  • NinaBambina
    9 years ago
    He may practice law part time. Full-time corporate lawyers have shit tons of hours to work. But once you've been doing it for a while, if you're successful you can have more say in your work hours. I would like to work part-time or independently. I would like for there to be a way to make that happen from me as soon as I get my J.D. and pass the bar. Maybe I'll meet a man in law school who comes from money and opens up his own firm.
  • 3LeggedMan
    9 years ago
    JS, enjoy your time away from the trolls. I for one look forward to your return. If the rest of us ignore the asshats, the board can reclaim some of its value and dignity.
  • san_jose_guy
    9 years ago
    JS69, We need you back!

    I don't look at this stuff the way you do, and so I don't really go along with the way you present things in your stories. But this is no reason people should be giving you a hard time.

    That some give you a hard time is for one simple reason, they are jealous of your exploits. So some of our more negative people need to chill out!

    Happy New Year!
    SJG
  • sclvr5005
    9 years ago
    I started out enjoying JS69's posts. But they became way too many and with the same old content. I stopped reading them, but never put him on ignore. I'd welcome him back if he'd just chill the fuck out and not post every thought that goes thru his head.
  • san_jose_guy
    9 years ago
    JS69 has his own ways of looking at things. But we need him back. There is nothing excessive about his posting.

    SJG
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