I doubt that you're trolling @PhatBoy. My overall impression is that you're a young guy who has trouble dating in the vanilla world. I have a preconceived suspicion of *any* guy under 35 who's addicted to strip clubs.
She's there to make money and strippers are masters at manipulating lonely guys. You should find some other place (College campus? Tinder?) to meet girls.
@Subra: " Seriously -- check that sub out, or find yourself some other arrangement forums, there's no reason to guess about this."
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I post occasionally to the sub you're referring to and have about 500 up-votes over a period of 1.5yrs. In fact I introduced joc13 to the sub when he sent me a PM a while back.
I'm reacting to your comment about "serial liars" which is lot different in tone than saying my experiences are "overly-idealized." If it wasn't directed at me, then fine. I have a good understanding of the pitfalls associated with sugaring and going online. I don't embellish any of my stories. I've posted here on TUSCL about being stood-up at meet@greets, but I've never had any event that I consider a serious danger.
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