Thrown out of the club?

Strip club managers are the chillest of all of the bar/nightlife managers. At least in my experiences here in the Dallas clubs. Rarely do you see someone getting kicked out. They’re very lenient, you’d have to do a lot to get thrown out.

I agree which is why I was confused by the situation last night. I couldn’t make out the reason the guy got thrown out. Didn’t look like he did anything egregious from my view across the bar

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Better Not Throw Out Mi Lil' Baby!

If a guy tries short changing a girl or even if he gets accused of doing so.

Ive only seen a guy being kicked out for being too drunk. Maybe he got too aggressive with a dancer or tried doing something she didnt want to.

Clubs will ban anyone they think is a liability.

They could be kicking out a dancers boyfriend.

You can't always apply logic to an action where you only saw the outcome. Especially in a strip club.

I've been thrown out of a strip club twice in over 30 years of helping scantily clad women help me live my best life. Both times it was for silly reasons but make for funny stories. You can search for the longer versions of these because I've written about them before.

First time I got escorted out by a bouncer after he'd finally caught a dancer with my dick in her mouth. He'd been mixing up the timing of throwing the VIP room door open trying to catch her doing something for about 10 minutes. Found out later he was pissed because she wouldn't fuck him.

Second time a dancer had the manager throw me out because she was mad I said no to an OTC because she was trying to lecture me about her privacy needs. Plus I think she figured out I was only talking with her about it because I wanted her much hotter stripper friend in my hotel room for an indecent proposal lol...

1-- manager was jealous of my girl. Eventually she quit working there because of him.

2- manager was jealous I was treated like a celebrity by the dancers and waitresses. He hated the attention I was getting

3- I was doing more managing in the club than management

4 - they used the no boyfriend in club policy as an excuse

Club managers are usually unstable drunks or coke heads

I got banned from the club by my ex brother-in-law is the manager because the dancer lie and said I was recruiting. I Book dancers for bachelor parties, but I don’t pull them out of that fucking club.

Meshuggah, just pretend I posted a giant laughing meme here.

Wallanon “ Second time a dancer had the manager throw me out because she was mad I said no to an OTC because she was trying to lecture me about her privacy needs.”

What was she saying about her privacy needs? She must have been annoying for you to refuse OTC due to that…

I've only seen it a couple times and it was very gentle for dudes that were visibly too drunk to stand or walk and looked ready to pass out.

In some places they can be liable for what happens if they let someone get too drunk then just let them leave on their own. They should call a cab or uber

I was almost thrown out for eating outside food. I was thrown out for snoozing. I've experienced someone maced -- it was impossible to remain in the club after that.

Saw a guy get kicked because he kept on taking his pick out in the main room, seen a number of too drunk, belligerent, or trouble makers get the walk

Several times for being drunk. Not belligerent, just sloppy. Silks Downtown Milwaukee, got encouraged to leave because I kept reflexively putting my hands on a dancer's waist during a lame LD. Very strict no touch policy. Weasel watching the cam called me out three times during a single song. Moseyed over to Silks on the water and had a much better time

I was thrown out twice by the same floor guy at two different clubs. Both times it was because the dancer did not tip him to look the other way before performing extras in VIP. The guy was a total asshole. Those were the only two times I ever saw him working at either club. I remembered him because it was very unusual for a white club in Atlanta to have a black floorman.

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have been thrown outta' da' club, basically fired or penalized reprimanded/scolded/chewed out, but still noticed that either you witnessed, or
she/other strippers told you later.
I have heard of fights with other dancers, wrong conduct in pvt & lack of attendance.

I've never been thrown out of a club, but I'm extremely well behaved, careful about who I interact with, and I avoid drama like the plague.

I've seen other patrons thrown out of clubs for the following reasons:

1. Falling asleep in the club.
2. Falling out of their chair, or a failed attempt at even sitting down...lol
3. Trying to start a fight.
4. Getting on the stage without permission to be up there.
5. Trying to take pictures or record video.
6. And obviously, being rough with or touching the dancers without permission.
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   I've seen clubs be way too lenient with poor behavior from some customers. Sometimes only warnings are given out when I think they should immediately be tossed...
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   I remember one guy in Tampa getting scolded for touching a dancer's vulva with his one dollar tip at the stage. He actually tried to say that he wasn't TRYING to touch her there, to which the dancer yelled "WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU THINK WAS IN THAT AREA?" Yep, all he got was a warning for doing that, unless you count all the dirty looks and the cold shoulders...

I was never kicked out of a club, but I went with someone who did, mostly because he was playing pool at a club with pool tables and got into a fight with the other pool player. That was the last time I went with that guy. He couldn't be bothered to look at the naked ladies.

Whenever I see a guy get kicked out, it's either they were drunk or they got into a fight.

I did see a non-stripper female get kicked out for breast exposure once.

Some pothead weirdo and a dancer he was pimping out tried scamming me and then picking my pockets- so i instinctively slapped both then got kicked out

I got kicked out of Mardi Gras (an upscale, non-extras club in one of the Atlanta suburbs) along with the gal I had brought with me to the club. One of the dancers had the hots for my friend and convinced us to do a threesome in one of the VIP rooms. Shortly after we started, both of the girls were naked and all over one another and my pants were down around my knees when the waitress peeked in and returned with the manager, who promptly showed us the door. Standing outside, she and I had a good laugh, but geez, I wish the peek-in hadn’t happened a little later in our session.

^ "hadn't happened until a little later..."

Nope never been kicked out of any club.

Never been kicked out of a club, except at closing time. But over the years I saw two other idiots get tossed. Ironically, they were both chased out with a baseball bat.

The first was at Bottoms Up in Irvington, NJ maybe 15 years ago. Young, skinny, creepy-looking fuck sitting against the back wall. Refused to buy a drink, just watching the show. When girls would stop by, he'd feel them up, and then not give a tip. Obviously, the girls stopped going by him. Then the owner went and told him he had to buy a drink, but he refused and got belligerent. Started yelling about how it's a free country and shit. So the owner who's like 70, but a tough old Korean war vet, goes and gets the bat. Poked the guy in the ribs, and then kept jabbing him with the bat all the way out into the street. A couple of us were heading outside to back up the old man, but he came right back in and said the kid ran away.

The other time was just a few months ago at Marcet in Paterson. Some scumbag attacked one of the girls. He was literally choking her with both hands. Could have been a jealous boyfriend or something. Anyway, about three other girls all jumped on him and almost immediately a dude comes out of the back with a bat. The guy let go of the girl and the bat guy chased him out. I didn't see what happened outside, but I'd like to think the scumbag got a good beat down. Bat guy definitely pursued him because I left only a couple minutes later and they were nowhere to be seen.

@misterorange in the first example did the club charge an entrance fee? Or did they have a one drink policy and the guy just forced his way into the club and refused to buy a drink? If they require drink purchases it should be disclosed upon entry to avoid those situations. If they charge an entrance fee, they need to disclose if they also require other purchases. Ive been to several clubs with cover charges and never seen anyone get kicked out at them just because they were watching and not tipping or buying dances.

Regarding the second example, yes its possible the guy was a jealous boyfriend or it could be that the dancer was a thief, or robbed him in a dance, or it was a boyfriend who didnt know she was a dancer. I wouldn’t assume the guy is a scumbag unless i knew more about the situation.

Just 2 times, both in the early 2000's involving a miscount issue. Both cases dancer went to bouncer, not kicked out literally, but asked to leave. (Spearmint Rhino, downtown L.A. and a club on south side of Indy (Racers ?)
One traveling dancer at Brass Flamingo, Indy made the mistake of asking for upfront payment of $20 (twice the going rate) . When I balked, she threatened to have me thrown out if I didn't pay her a tip for her time. She didn't know that house mom and bartender knew me from many visits, A few minutes later, bartender motions me over, saying that dancer accused me of inappropriate contact. When I told him about upfront overcharge, and her attempted shakedown, he went over to house mom. Dishonest dancer was gone after that.
Sometimes it pays to be at least fairly well known by staff.

@ricky - 1st one it was a filthy hold-in-the-wall place. No cover or official "rules". Just if you act like an asshole, you're gone. I'd say grabbing titties and then not tipping is just cause. 2nd one, if you saw how this guy attacked her, you might feel differently. Looked like he would choke the life out of her if they didn't stop him. And it was at a table in the bar area, not in VIP or LD area, so probably not a rip-off situation.

One reason why I’ve never been kicked out of a club is I don’t act like an asshole, it doesn’t hurt that in the clubs I go to regularly I’m fairly well known and socialize with most of the people employed by the club, I regularly reciprocate if I get comped a drink I return the favor, I generally tip well not extravagantly but regularly so I’m a known quantity. It’s not rocket science fellas just be a stand up guy and don’t act like an asswipe you should be fine.

Misterorange i see, that makes sense, sounds crazy

Only once. I had just started the 2nd of a 3 song dance. Dancer stuck her nips in my mouth just like on previous visits. Bouncer had been watching the camera and storms in telling me to leave (NOW). Caught the dancer at another club months later. She said the bouncer was possessive. They hooked up once and he thought she was his. She left, because it was affecting her tips.

Local Hick what a weirdo! He spends his days monitoring every act she does with customers

I have never seen anyone kicked out. Most clubs I go to just have 3-5 pl's sitting around waiting to get a hj or bj.

I wasn't kicked out but Jimmy at Oasis in Philly chastised me because the cleaning ladies found a condom in the VIP area and I guess the CCTC traced it to me. I knew it had slipped off and dropped from my pant leg but I couldn't find it. The girl I was with said we had to stay out of VIP for a while.

^ Why are people so concerned about 2 grown adults having consensual sex? So odd.

Not kicked out, but I was once chastised at Follies, a now-closed “anything goes” place in Atlanta.

It was packed, and I was posted at the bar at the only seat available when I got there. The gorgeous gal sitting next to me was not quite as scantily dressed as the other girls in the room, but she was warm and friendly and I bought her a drink. She unbuttoned her top, baring some of the cutest breasts and perkiest nipples I’ve ever seen, and let me explore them freely. She was a 10 in a room full of 9-plusses.

As I continued to get a good feel of her upper attributes and was about to inquire about doing a VIP with her, one of the bouncers came up beside me, nodded towards my hands, and said – quietly and politely – “Sir, you’re not allowed to do that with the customers.” 😄

East coaster- wow! Sounds like she was an escort hanging out there to find some customers?

A bouncer at Desire, an imposing Black fellow, charged out to the smoking patio to yell at a dancer and me, loudly and intensely, for smoking a joint. My impression was that the dancer was none to popular with management or the other dancers and one of the other dancers literally narc’d on us and that’s why the bouncer got up such a head of steam. I promptly self-deported to try to avoid a permanent ban. I’ve been back since

@EastCoaster. I think you found the resident lesbian that was there frequently. Bouncers would have kicked out any female trying to solicit customers for OTC.

Theres a poster on here, this guy out in vegas who got banned from several clubs there for slipping drugs in dancers drinks, trying to recruit dancers to work for him etc. that stuff will definitely get you banned from clubs

Baristafan has been thrown out of 9 out of 10 coffee bars in Metro Seattle.

I was thrown out of Heavenly Bodies 20 ish years ago, was in town on business and LDKed just as one of the Lap Dances I was getting was over, girl asked if I wanted another dance and I said no, I just “finished”. She asked me what I meant and I said you just made me come, she jumped off ,y lap and said that’s disgusting and left the room, moments later she’s back with the bouncer who told me it’s $50 for the last dance, I explained I had 3 dances and paid for 2 of them upfront so I owe $20 for the 3rd, not $50. He said $50 to the girl, was not going to argue, gave her $50. (I would have tipped her anyway, but not $30 Additional, maybe $20). He then said something like Ok, you are done here and escorted me to the door and said don’t ever return.

@EastCoaster - If she was a customer, you should have asked if her if she wanted to leave with you.

On a slightly different note, why is wearing a hat backwards banned in many SC

^ Maybe because you look goofy.

I've never been kicked out of a club. But I did get cut off a couple of times over the years, which is basically the same thing for me, lol.
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The first time was in Blush (now Rick's) in Pittsburgh. The bartender thought I already had too much. I know for a fact I wasn't sloppy because I never am and I know my limit. I guess my limit was a bit higher than she thought was appropriate.
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The second was Ruby II in Bridgeport, a BYOB club that is purportedly nude. Apparently the bartender thought I was behaving like "an animal" for having the audacity to thank the nude girl on stage for being the only one to actually do a nude set while I tipped her a 20. Sadly that bartender is now the owner and the club has continued to decline.

Once I went to Zanzibar once in Toronto with a friend. The bouncer nastily told him to take off his beret. Pretty sure it was about him having a dark complexion.
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Among gay men, a turned around baseball cap means you like to suck dick (no visor poke).

I got kicked out for fighting twice. One was an actual fight, a swing and a miss which I wasn't expecting (I thought we were still in the talking phase), and I countered sitting him on the floor. I got the bum rush for that one.

Second time some belligerent drunk was hassling everyone. Knocked me into my friend when were sitting in the bar, minding our own business. I stand up. Dude gets in my face and I push him down (didn't push that hard, but I suspect his own inebriation did most of the work.) After a bunch of talking we were all thrown out. I thought we would get a stern warning, because it was a calm, peaceful discussion. As soon as we are escorted out, the police show up. My friends and I walk, the drunk gets taken into custody.

I've seen people get tossed for sleeping, touching a girl at the bar/public area. Tossed out of VIPs (I can only imagine what was happening there). A bunch of girl fights. The least I've seen was too much drinking.

I've been thrown out of dance clubs for getting wasted and puking all over the place, but never a strip club. I've seen a couple people thrown out of strip clubs for fighting.

Wow, thrown out for LDKing. From now on, the first rule of LDK is, there is no LDK.

I was thrown out of Good Guys in Georgetown one time because I complained about the waitress taking my drink that I was only half done with. Right off the table, while I was sitting there.

^wow. Insane. I heard they have no entrance fee but once you go in they expect you to order something.

I got kicked out of a cuban club for being chicano. I was willing to make it rain, i had 5k with me i was gonna blow all on stage tips. It didn’t help that i kept farting and they saw my chicano tattoos.

Last time I was required to leave a club for a drinking related issue it wasn’t drunkenness per se. A few hours earlier, I did a face plant on concrete while running for a shuttle bus. Had scrapes and bruises all over my face. I took a long nap, washed off all the dried blood, and Ubered over to a club. Hadn’t had a drink for hours and, while still somewhat drunk, wasn’t wasted. Managed to order a drink before a manager got a load of me and ordered an Uber to take me back to the hotel, on the club’s dime. He also helpfully alerted the police and EMTs, who were waiting at the hotel entrance, rooftop lights flashing. Not cool since I was there for an employer sponsored event.

Everybody was under the impression I had been beaten up. To the extent I was still drunk, I sobered up real quickly politely but firmly telling the authorities there had been no crime and I didn’t require medical attention.