Same here, although I had a sort of ATF that I knew had children, but I have never heard of them outside of being mentioned once, and never seen pictures, nor seen them.
Off the top of my head I can’t recall that happening to me.
Under most circumstances, I would not mind seeing pics of a woman’s kids – but in a SC setting – yea – kind of uncomfortable and out of place w.r.t. the setting.
I'm okay with them talking about their children. Hello? They are women. Got allow them that. The one thing I don't want to hear about though is their bf. I'll change the topic the second they start with that shit.
boogie, it is just ice breaker stuff. Most club customers have kids too, so it is normally pretty safe territory. Also, knowing that they have kids to feed is not necessarily a bad thing. ;)
I agree with those above, who say a little conversation about strippers' kids is okay, but showing pics is more than I want to know. I always remembers that parents, particularly mothers, like to talk about their children. It's natural for them to do that. But, showing photos, and especially in a strip club, is more than customers usually want to know about. Other stripper moms in the club--yes, they'd probably appreciate them.
I agree. Huge turnoff to see pics if junior and his slobbery baby sister on a dancer's phone. Maybe they ought to start banning dancer's from having their phones while they are out on the floor. Between baby pics and the dancer's ignoring customer's while they sit & text at the bar...it may not be such a bad idea.
I have never had a girl show me pics of their children on their cell phone, not even the ones who I know have kids, which is a good thing, because I don't want to see them.
It's not a turn off for me. Dancers just want to make conversation. When shown pictures of the kids, I just ask for little Emily is going to be a stripper like his mom or if little Bobby is going to be a convict like his dad.
To let you know what your money is going to?
I had a old stripper tell me about her kids and how succesful they are back home while she's stripping back here. He kids are around my age, I'm like great, leave me alone.
aaaaaah... because they're proud of their kids? newsflash, guys, but most dancers haven't "accomplished" much in their lives, and we know it. for most of us, having a beautiful baby or two shows something... like we can have babies and work to take care of them. the term "mother" generally illicits more respect than the term "stripper".
It wouldn't bother me. As a proud dad myself, I show my kids off all the time. Not necessarily to strippers, but I will show pictures to others. It also makes for good conversation.
@ carolynne: You would do well to learn the difference between the words "elicit" and "illicit." In the event you were being facetious, that shoots your argument.
I usually make conversation with dancers and sometimes the talk turns to family and kids. I don't mind seeing kid pictures, as long as they don't mind seeing pictures of my bike. I like feeling as if I have a human connection. I guess it's just my kink. Some have offerred kid pictures before I bring it up I always think that it probably hurts their money with some men. I think parenthood makes people more independant, selfless, mature and sane (at least it did for me). I do remember though, before I had children, the line between "hot, party girl, stripper sex toy" and "mom" was set in stone. It's funny how things change. I've found that mothers are typically better strippers, as they are "profit oriented" and not just doing the job for beer and clothes money. They are also more realistic about the exchange and more grateful for extra tips.
Lol I thought about this thread on Saturday when a 19yo dancer that I had just met sat down with me and somehow the conversation got around to kids (dammit) and she tells me that she had a baby 3 mos. ago and "oh let me show you his picture"!!! It looked like a pink rat. But I had to laugh despite myself when I thought about some of the comments posted here.
And she was indeed quite motivated in the VIP area to get the cash to keep her rat....er......kid taken care of financially.
I usually see this as a sign she wants to date me and she is just letting me know what I'm getting into. I'm glad they let me know she isn't single with no kids. To actually go out and then find out she has kids at home is not the time to surprise you with the information.
I don't mind the kid pics and my current ATF has a really hot 20 something daughter so I'm real good with those LOL. (if you're doing the math, she had the kid in her junior year of high school, typical SS)
One had a daughter who also stripped (at a different club), but had stopped by the time I found that out. Fortunately, none of the three I mentioned in my thread ever showed me pics of their grandchildren.
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She was amazing.
Under most circumstances, I would not mind seeing pics of a woman’s kids – but in a SC setting – yea – kind of uncomfortable and out of place w.r.t. the setting.
I don’t want to see that shit either.
They are human after all.
If she wants to show me pix of her cute little puppy and talk about animals, that's totally OK, tho. Love animals...hate rugrats.
W.C. Fields: Boiled!
But not all strippers have kids.
For the ones who do, I dont mind if they show me pictures of the kids, it kind of makes a connection.
I had a old stripper tell me about her kids and how succesful they are back home while she's stripping back here. He kids are around my age, I'm like great, leave me alone.
And she was indeed quite motivated in the VIP area to get the cash to keep her rat....er......kid taken care of financially.
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One had a daughter who also stripped (at a different club), but had stopped by the time I found that out. Fortunately, none of the three I mentioned in my thread ever showed me pics of their grandchildren.