I'm not a huge fan of pole tricks, but I can appreciate amazing acrobatic talent. I prefer slow, sexy movement with lots of eye contact. I asked a stripper why no one did pole tricks and she mentioned that they cost dancers money at most clubs. Men will applaud tricks and women will tip for pole tricks, but most men will only tip if you dance naked in front of them for 30 seconds, so tricks cut into your tip time. When I first started going to clubs we threw money on the stage, especially for pole tricks, but now it's more personal attention. I like it better this way.
I usually make conversation with dancers and sometimes the talk turns to family and kids. I don't mind seeing kid pictures, as long as they don't mind seeing pictures of my bike. I like feeling as if I have a human connection. I guess it's just my kink. Some have offerred kid pictures before I bring it up I always think that it probably hurts their money with some men. I think parenthood makes people more independant, selfless, mature and sane (at least it did for me). I do remember though, before I had children, the line between "hot, party girl, stripper sex toy" and "mom" was set in stone. It's funny how things change. I've found that mothers are typically better strippers, as they are "profit oriented" and not just doing the job for beer and clothes money. They are also more realistic about the exchange and more grateful for extra tips.
Actually I stopped by Club Erotica near Pittsburgh last night and can confirm that the deals are legit, at least for that club. I asked a few dancers and they have a sign on the VIP counter to direct customers to the site.
I don't understand the butt shaking that most dancers do. Younger guys seem to love it, but I find it comical. That said, I've always apreciated a lady with beautiful, womanly curves. I don't think it's a new developement. I'm reminded of the line from "Some Like it Hot" where Curtis and Lemmon watch Marylin Monroe walk away and one comments that her behind is like "jello on springs."
That sounds like a bad idea. Even if you evade the bouncers and dancers there are other customers who would probably beat the tar out of you if they think you got them on film in a strip club. If I saw that, I would assume someone's wife was paying a PI to spy on him and get fodder for divorce court. I've had dancers OK below the neck camera phone pictures and movies in VIP rooms, including pics of "extra" activities. The two dancers who regularly let me film our fun have never requested any extra money, but both know me pretty well.
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