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a year ago
@squarecastle
Ha! Funny and fair enough.
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a year ago
I hope no woman is forced by threat to be a stripper. Other than that, how/why she became a stripper and why I give her my patronage is academic. And remember this, a stripper can make a WELL above average living just working stage and LDs (average salary for age 25-34 is 54k). Show up to work, play the fantasy part, go home, live a normal life but with less extras that extra money provides. And It’s her choice to go even further to earn even more and/or seek the bigger adrenaline rush (both things I’ve seen first hand). 25-34 uneducated woman can do about 40k full time at Walmart. Go do the normal life if displaying your feminine sexuality is a problem for you. It’s that simple.
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a year ago
HDM, besides your substantial knowledge on being a stripper as well as a number of SCs, you seem to have quite a bit of information on the story of a number of SC businesses. You considering writing a book (a la Sunshine:Diary of a Lapdancer) or possibly opening/managing a SC?
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a year ago
@squarecastle “ It’s amazing how many people take these trolls seriously and respond as if their posts are legitimate.”
Whether the op has gone on a tirade or posted something barely coherent, it’s a discussion forum where virtually any topic can be introduced. What their motivation is for posting is largely irrelevant. What’s relevant is the topic and whether it’s something forum readers would like to add their two cents. The topic is: guy who goes to SCs a lot also has no personal success with women, has woefully bad self esteem, and how can that change. Ultimately is the topic introduced worthy of discussion, that is what’s germane regardless even if the op is full time troll or fiction writer. Lastly, assume your 100% certainty the op is a troll is correct. The topic still may be meaningful to another forum reader(s). There’s been multiple on point replies including one from a former stripper. All in all, troll or not, some good information on the topic was posted.
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a year ago
Strippers are very much human. Also, they are humans who sell nude fantasy in a club, sell what you want to hear, sell sexual contact to a clothed you, and some sell you sexual extras. Their entire work life revolves around and is extremely financially incentivized to lie, to put on an act, to hustle, well executed ruse. A stripper has to do this and do it frequently, nightly over months and maybe years to be successful. Recently one was saying she needed a lot of extra money for family in the Maui. Oh I’m sad, now GTFO with that ruse and GTFO with the unhappy stripper that pl money helped get her family past hard times. JHFC. These girls are around you because of your money, period. That’s the A1 primary connection. She wants more, faster, always, period. The chat and any connection with her is great but it’s a house of cards built on your money.
New PLs should read this not the OP. New PLs hear this, when you give money to a stripper it’s for a service you want and she has agreed to, period. Sob stories of family or needs an operation or whatever? Lol GTFO. 100% needed pl response to that: I’m sorry to hear that. Best of luck with that, I really mean it. The next time I see you, I hope you’re doing better …,then move on to the next. (You’ve demonstrated these kind of ruses don’t work with you).
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a year ago
it’s human nature to want results immediately and now but That’s just not my experience whatsoever. results take time and requires cutting yourself slack that your focus can falter at times. Want it, really want the results. Use the negative thoughts you point out in your post as visualization and motivation to want that goal/results. Best of luck…
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a year ago
Confidence is a must have. Better hair cut, workout, better clothes, find and do whatever is necessary to build inner confidence. Female radar senses confidence as well as lack of. Additionally, being a good (confident) conversationalist. This takes practice. Talk with the old lady in the grocery line, talk to the man at the register. Talk with absolutely! everyone. This general conversation builds critical conversational skill with unknown people. FYI, Some will give you no conversation back, cold shoulder. Good! that segues into added advice, take rejection as just a bump in the road. When a man can just brush off a rejection like it’s just a part of the game, he’s well on his way. Also, nice guys finish last. It doesn’t mean be an a-hole but if you meet a girl don’t be constantly backing down or saying what she wants to hear or “sorry” every 5 minutes. A woman wants a man with a backbone. Added, Verbally mess with her in a humorous way.
That’s all part of ‘having game’. “I need a gf” is not confident or having game. What you need is a focus on you. Improve your confidencé, improve your conversational skills, and the worm will very likely turn.
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a year ago
As Skimbum correctly said, going to a SC to specifically get extras (CBJ etc) is not in everyone’s SC plan. For some, probably a lot, going to a SC is for no questions asked, no hassle feminine visual entertainment and direct interaction. At the SC can also include a solid element of ‘on any given night’ what might be seen, occur, encountered, who you might meet — that will be a part of the entertainment all on its own.
As others have pointed out, some strippers are just that, strippers. they strip/LD/work rooms. IMLE OTC I can say that ‘less hassle’ does not equal problem free. For her, escorting (full time escort or OTC) is predicated on hustle to make as much money as there is to make. Again, the meetup is heavily incentivized for her to say ir do anything for more money with no complaint number to call. What hustle might get pulled should always be considered as possible on any meetup with a woman who is a sex worker.
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a year ago
“Quincy”?
I see. Bare Exposure was worth that travel effort for a few times, trying to find that right fit and earnings. In 1997 money, 200 was good. I’m sure you had your nights where you killed it in earnings. That would up the average nicely.
Not doing much couch (lap) dancing and mostly stage while making good money. HDM, Your stage act must have been excellent!
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a year ago
@Dolfan
Tampa vs Miami? IMLE they’re close in availabilities. Are they not?
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a year ago
I was curious about “unveiled” magazine 75-05. I assume it was adult a la playboy or penthouse? But a Web search I could only find Unveiled the wedding bridge magazine.
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a year ago
Wow HDM, 4 hours round trip to a place you were very unsure was going to be a moneymaker and doing it by bus/train. Seriously, That is some determined work ethic!
I’m guessing a stripper always has in mind on any given night she could end up with that one customer who will be spending some very solid cash, or a group of guys come in unexpectedly and they’ve got some good cash to spend.
Depending on the year, 200$ wouldn’t be bad at all if it was close by. Today, the SC I go to once every handful of weeks, the feedback I’ve gotten is 400/500 is minimum nightly take. A good Saturday night is 1000+.
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a year ago
If you don’t mind me asking HDM, what was the $$ earning threshold to make it worth the trip?
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a year ago
there’s a tacky old joke I’m reminded of from that after therapist session post of BlahBlah:
If women were in charge everywhere, there’d be no need for war. They’d just nag each other to death.
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a year ago
@Himalayabound
Agreed, i saw 20k per week and thought that’s a hustle right there.
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a year ago
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a year ago
Every video no matter how wild or bizarre has underlying educational value. For this video the educational value is: across the country pl newbys will be walking into a SC tonight, after drinking, and by the end of the night they will have big insta love for a stripper who has precisely the same mentality as the one in this video.
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a year ago
@studme53
That’s a fair point to make. Anonymity in a SC may not be absolute but I’d expect it would be substantially so. Strippers posting specifics of customers is absolutely! not good. But What I’d say about the stripper, her and her stripper coworker mentioned the woman was taking video of strippers on stage. That also is a definite no and may break that two way implied anonymity agreement.
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a year ago
@studme53
Lots of females like female strippers. A woman at a SC does not mean she’s lesbian. That’s glib.
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a year ago
I did a meet up with Minnow and it was A+. I think it all depends on who the wingman is as well as what’s the goal of the evening. If you’re going specifically to get time in with a specific CF or to bust and run, a wingman is probably unnecessary baggage. But hanging out exchanging observations and any previous experience with a stripper, also seeing what approaches you get as a group compared to being solo can be a good time too. And if it’s SRO, the wingman keeping the table is a big plus.
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a year ago
Woman goes to SC for her bachelorette party. A man who is with her party ends up fooling around with her including “fingering her”. Marina, a stripper at the SC, makes a TikTok video (with half a million views) describing the cheating woman in detail so her fiance will know. Marina said the woman tips badly as well as she was taking videos of the strippers on stage.
There’s a moral to the story somewhere in there.
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a year ago
^^^ a 1 to 3 ml syringe, 18 gauge to draw, 22 gauge to pin, vial of testosterone cypionate 200mg/ml. Inter muscular pin of 3/4 ml once weekly. Now masturbate away to porn. Your testosterone isn’t going down.
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a year ago
Based on only one review in 4 years, this Club 27 is going to be a roll of the dice. I don’t know Orlando but Four Corners is maybe an hour to Tampa. There are places that are known to give you “the stuff I really care about” in Tampa.
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a year ago
I’ve fired guns going back to growing up in rural gun country. Regarding noise creating, (tactical) semi shotgun mag burn is a solid 5 to 10 second ruckus (and what it does to the target has its own interés). But multiple times I’ve fused together a number of 200 gram fireworks cakes to fire simultaneously. The cake names themselves are great: Armageddon, Volcanic Eruption, Absolute Power. Regarding creating a noise adrenaline rush, setting off 7 cakes at one time, you’ll never create 30 to 40 seconds of audio insanity like that ever again in your life. (These Fireworks are legal in Florida)
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a year ago
Here’s Everything you didn’t want to know about gaining substantial fat free muscle mass, in the first person. The most prolific muscle making substance is called AAS. That is short for anabolic androgenic steroids. Anabolic = fat free mass/muscle, Androgenic = male secondary sexual characteristics, steroid = synthetic copy of a hormone minus a carbon (or 2 or 3) in the molecular reproduction.
AAS because are all based on Testosterone or Dehydrotestosterone. These two hormones cause acceleration of muscle(and bone) growth as well as acceleration of male secondary sexual characteristics (male pattern baldness, deep voice, facial and body hair, the V silhouette[no hips, narrow waist, tapers up to wide shoulders), greater fat free muscle mass, reduces body fat. The more you take in a ten week period(a cycle), the likelihood both the anabolic and androgenic increase. Just 1.5 ml (200/200) injection per week for10 weeks along with very dialed in and increased eating (4 to 5 thousand calories per day) as well as excellent form progressive weight lifting — congratulations to a much lower body fat with much bigger muscles, a combination that you were not going to achieve otherwise.
Due to females being low testosterone, there ability to gain significant fat free mas is very limited. But not a problem, they can inject testosterone or an AAS too. And What you’re seeing in the Ops pics are a result in significant part of those injections, the masculinization.
You do you for what you like — but make zero doubt about that, those are masculized females. The makeup and hair helps disguise it as well as their underpinning biological femininity is obviously not gone (maybe one or two cycles). But, sadly, give it a few years and many of them in the pics will be ultra gross. Once you go down the AAS path, it powerfully drags you into ever increasing usage to see ever increasing muscle with lower and lower body fat.