Comments by VanessaM (page 10)

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I would not have an issue spending the night but customers tend to want more say. If we gonna cuddle, watch tv and share some laughs yes. I can turn off business mode if he can turn off horny custy mode

Confused 🤔 $400 dollar dance sounds like a CR. So, you walked all the way to the CR for a dance you didn’t want? Manhattan clubs have such a process for CR rooms that I’m not believing your story.

Go up to every one in the room. Even if it’s just a hi Don’t accept a drink only from a customer. If he is only offering drink ask for a tip instead. He may be hesitant but he’ll understand your here to work. Drink to celebrate not to get through your shift. Do not be concerned with other dancers opinions of you, their money or their customers. Mind your business ASK! If you don’t ask you’ll miss an opportunity. Another dance wouldn’t hesitate. Take care of your body and health. On stage single a customer out, make eye contact, dance just for him. Be naughty n playful. Other customers will see this and want that attention. Be the first dancer on the floor. Managers like that. You make early money and you’ll be warmed up for peek hours. Stay away from men your attracted to. They smell giddy school girl. Men will speak their mind. Have a tough skin. As long as he doesn’t put hands on you. Use dove body spray deodorant NOT perfume. Never argue with a customer. I walk away in mid sentence. I won’t let a customer ruin my shift. No one’s your friend. Management. Dancers. Bouncers or customers. Your priority is to always make it home safe. Not win an argument or make a friend. Be humble!

It all depends what city you are in. In New York City at a mid tier club girls can make $300 to $1,000 per shift. When I worked my last day shift in the Bronx pre pandemic I made $600 between 3pm and 8pm (no extras)(No VIP areas) I think the issue with most dancers is consistency in relation to her spending. It’s really not drugs. If a dancer could commit to 4 shifts per week and spending frivolously on what she earned on only one shift only, a dancer could still make out good if her average is $500. She can buy one expensive $500 item per week and still have $1500 for life things Now if you don’t live in a major city you’d have to tailor your spending

To clarify staying in your lane isn’t solely based on looks. It can be character, it can be value, it also can be social awkwardness Some men/women are socially awkward and that keeps them at the lower end of the rating. Everyone thinks they are great but have no idea of how the outside world is experiencing them. I just made up with someone who would bet his life I was using him for his money as a “pretty girl”. I had to explain that his aggressive texts in which he always had to tell me about myself is why I wouldn’t answer. I’ve dealt with many men who told themselves a narrative that years later when we bumped into each other I got to clear up. It made me realize that y’all are just as emotional as women. And there’s always a great women somewhere that you passed up. So now I’m never bitter about men who I think played me for a better looking girl because honestly I don’t know how I came across to them

And don’t worry as a fairly attractive woman I’ve had to hit my glass ceiling of reality as well but by reading some of these discussions I know that men suffer from chasing delusions too

Um, don’t act like y’all never overlooked or walked all over the nice girls. You know the basic, homely looking ones that will do anything for you but her looks don’t add up It’s not just a woman thing. And now we have these woh is me men aka incels, mad because they don’t want to date on their level, keep getting rejected by 7-10’s. But still can’t face the reality that dating would be easier if they choose people in their lane.

I think she did it to keep you. Only because you said she wouldn’t do extras with you before and you wanted to avoid her because of it. Whatever the reason, you had fun and felt good and that’s all that matters.

They said he was talking her and her father found weird writings on her wall of her apartment. FYI she wasn’t an Onlyfans star, she got a name for herself by being in music videos and being a top urban stripper

I ask if I can’t read a customer. It allows him to either invite me into his space or a polite escape to blow me off. I know it may be redundant but it is a polite way for a stripper to ask “am I your type”. So just play along. The alternative is her waiting for ques that she may not quickly get.

That’s a pointless lie. I focus on what makes my client great, maybe he has a warm touch or tongue. Maybe he has a mean stroke game. I don’t know but I don’t lie

Someone from here(Tuscl) came to see me two months ago. Not more than 5 minutes went by (I timed it) he had a chick in his lap blowing money(raining) I tried to stop by and say hello because it’s polite if someone comes and see you to do. The dancer was rolling her eyes getting mad. I asked him you couldn’t wait 5 minutes for me or tell her you was here for me. Because she looked like she wanted to fight. He replies she wouldn’t take no for an answer. I cut his ass loose on the spot. But dancers wouldn’t be aggressive if that shit didn’t work. That’s never been my hustle but I don’t believe customers when they say they don’t like it. Because my eyes throughout these years tell me different

That’s what I was thinking when I saw it in unpublished reviews I was gonna hit reject shill ad but assumed y’all had this this. Disappointed

I was in my old club’s locker room and watched in disdain as this younger dancer talked liked this influencer names B. Simone ……. “Cause, baby boi”, (in a high pitched squeaking voice) 🙄

Silently giggling to myself a year later when I see a review about fucking the same old hoes titled “These same old hoes got me again 😤”.

The truth is everyone is trying to hustle everyone. If I gave a customer a lap dance or pussy for free he would thank me and go about his way(let’s be honest). Why be mad at a worker because she wants to play on a leveled field. I think a nut would feel better knowing that at least both parties are leaving satisfied. But this is the case with all things in life, we all like to feel entitled to something even though most times it comes at someone else expense

Day shift in my dancers opinion is better for customers. Me going home with a man at 4 am is Highly unlikely. My shift ends at 7pm/8pm so I may be more inclined. Also if we arrange out the club for a later date it’ll be more in line with my work schedule anyway. Most dancers who do day shift are more consistent and dependable We provide better quality of service Although dancers tend to be older that is not always the case especially if it’s a club that is lenient about their shifts and allow dancers to do doubles or come and go as they feel. Most younger dancers have the energy to work doubles so you will see them in the day for clubs that operate with leniency

Lol @tetradon

I commend you on only giving descriptions on the dancers you liked I think the only time you should put a dancer description if you had a good time or bad time. Giving descriptions of women you didn’t interact isn’t nice. You don’t have to say the name just say the rest of the women there wasn’t that sexy or whatever

@desert . A picture can do a lot. Like identify you if you go and rob a customer…. So NO it can’t actually verify that you are a dancer but if you was to meet up with a dancer and her looks didn’t match up with her looks in person, you’d know to run It means at the least that the pics on the site came from an actual woman

I also assume you can be a dancer and not be verified or vip. I’ve encountered some dancers who do not have all the icons above that I have

We send pics with our name date holding it up on a piece of paper

@nicespice you gave me quite a few points to think about. At this moment I agree with your findings and thoughts