Comments by gSteph (page 28)

Scrub, I am sorry if your mother was mean to you, I really am. I, verified member, gentle Steph have met Nicespice also. She actually exists, a nice person in my opinion, definitely a girl. I understand your having a mean persona is a defense mechanism to help ease the pain in your life. Maybe, just maybe, you could take a real look and see it's not working so good for you. And maybe, just maybe try a bit of kindness, not necessarily to others yet, but toward yourself. As a start. Best to you, sir. There is the potential for good in all of us. Have a great day.

Suposed to maybe snow here this week, that would be pretty.

I, too, was busted by the NOSE. My second strip club visit (that had lap dances). Come home buzzing with endorphins, horny as heck, bit of purfume on me. Hop in the bromine water of the hot tub, hold my nose to go completely under, get bromine scent all over, take a full shower. Few hours later, we're going at it, getting close, she's goes "how'd you get purfume in your nose?" That was a boner shrinker. (We laugh about it now)

I wonder why the paralegal world took 6 years to delete him.

Hilarious. And a good night at the club. Win, win

@drewcareypnw: only on her face?

Here's my thoughts after being cleared to live longer (from a not yet old fellow) Being nice is harder than being callous. But in the long run, it's the way to be. It's exercise at being a better person. If I were that fellow, I'd be touched to be offered one free one. Whether that's a cup of coffee, a lite lunch, or if he is up to going to the club, one free dance. I would let him know though, that this is the one last time, so you don't get sucked in too far. We ALL, if we're lucky, will grow old and possibly feable, the kindness of others means more than you may know. This all presumes you feel strong enough emotionally. Best to you.

Oooo, Oooo, can I be your lawyer. 1st thing, what's Facebook?

Back home, after one night. Ow. But not much, feeling better every day. Especially after reading the 8 keys words from pathology report: "Margin Status: All margins negative for invasive carcinoma." Sweet words. They got it all. Thanks again for the encouragement and kind words.

Just a few hours till tomorrow REALLY early. I checked. Doc says, Yes, I am a morning person. I may go radio quiet for some time. Or not. I don’t know. I do know that I’ll be back in a club eventually. I didn’t wander the wilderness for 39 years (https://tuscl.net/article.php?id=57732), and finally discover lap dances 4+ years ago, to give up on them now. May all you PLs have Happy Holiday Clubbing, and all you dancers a prosperous season and New Year.

Yep. Right thing this time. Disagree with 2nd sentence though. Sometimes a conscience is an inconvenient thing; it is bad not to have one.

What gran1511 said. 1st thing, I gotta believe you were there. Tell me something. Some sentences, paragraphs don't.

I like round nipples.

Actually, doesn't sound like it was all luck, but a lucky find from a planned search .

You might have mentioned it. You lucky . . . . . . . 😉

In fact, a PSA test, a few months after treatment (PSA has a half life) is how they determine if "they got it all".

The take away for others: Get your PSA* checked. Simple blood test. Current recommendations is all guys 55 and older. Starting at 40 if father or a brother has had prostate cancer. It's the 2nd most common cancer in men. Used to be fatal for most/many, but with earlier detection, and finding it early enough for a cure, not so much. *For those who may not know, PSA is a protein made only in prostates, all prostate containing individuals have some level in their blood. The level goes up with aging. If the # is high, or going up too fast, something is causing it. Get checked out.

Some people burp a few times a day, scrub does this.

@ MrJ. Yes and no. This was my 1st and only 'room' to date. 'Twas great knowing I had that much time with a fav. Mutual nipple play and hugging with my shirt open (at least partially) is one of my personal high points with lap dances. And though I've had bits of that in the communal room, it's fleeting and some have gently discouraged it. Was great to spend some actual minutes playing this way. And the frugal side of me thinks for 125 I could have 6 dances in the lap dance room; someone knocked on door and said VIP time was up; I think I was shorted on time, felt like 4 dances at most. Since I don't "go for more" and I'm a frugal guy, I'm unlikely to buy many VIP rooms. But as for 'different options', wink, wink, I've had dancers at SI that would keep grinding long enough for a different option to happen. I don't go there, and I don't know if I could, but I've had hot dances that made me wonder.

Must've been some scary costumes.

^^ Oh, I don't know, I did the 2nd think ONCE, but if I even considered the 1st, my wallet would jump out of my pocket, and slap some sense into me.