Comments by ei8ht_Ball (page 4)

Sinclair knows what he's talking about. Here are my top 3: 1) Ric Flair 2) Abdullah the Butcher 3) The Great Muta

I can't stand escorts. They're all whores. I hang out at strip clubs because I like hanging out at strip clubs. If I get along well with a girl it generally leads to more, and we both trust each other by that point. It's the only way I feel safe, both from ROBS and from LE.

Not everyone can afford to club on a regular basis. If you can afford to do it responsibly and you're not spending money that should be used for something more important then you should view it as a sign of success. You've found a way to get lots of girls. Good for you. Be happy about it. Who cares what society thinks and you don't need to deceive yourself into thinking that you need to justify your enjoyment. And who cares what the girls really think anyway. Their men (if they have one) obviously aren't providing enough for them. Don't fall in love with the girls. Fall in love with the experience they provide. And don't consume it in higher quantities than you should rightfully afford. That's all you have to do.

She's standing on a street corner near you . . .

"Funny bits coming from someone who claims to be female and a dancer" twentyfive +10

"A lot of the reasons Ive heard or know of aren't even sexual." Trust me, it's sexual. It's very, very sexual.

"guys leaving a SO for a whore were probably on their way out long before the whore showed up.' You should hear about the poor fool my CF keeps talking about (being taken advantage of by a different girl, of course, not by my CF). I greatly respect and appreciate my CF's honesty and her lack of interest in pretending that what we do is more than it is . . . but at other times, she doesn't really need to be THAT honest about it, does she? I'd believe her if she pretended to go through the rest of her life emotionally scarred because I'm already spoken for, but I can see why she doesn't because i'm not going to pay extra for the ego boost. Oh well.

rick . . . but your input is always welcome

"Guys with means and opportunity have been chasing side tail since the beginning of time. It is only in this modern era of hyper-sensitive males that men have been gettinng all twisted up over it." I don't have an issue chasing side tail, obviously, but my question was more or less aimed at what should be discussed in front of said side tail rather than getting all bent out of shape over the fact that I'm chasing side tail. I assume you're going to tell me that you discuss only what you feel like discussing, and should it be something she didn't care to hear, it's okay because she's only side tail. Is that accurate?

"why would they be upset by pics of your wife?" My CF tells me she feels bad about all the OTC we do now that she can attach a face to the woman I'm married to. I think others just felt inferior because of how attractive my wife is.

"@ei8ht_Ball - I would say from your self description that you found in your positive social interactions with strippers that there is definitely something missing in your life" Yes - it's a rotating group of interchangeable women that go out of their way to make me feel like royalty. One could say that this is missing from just about every man's life, though I wouldn't really call it a need, and I never would have realized how much I appreciate it if I hadn't started going to clubs for a different reason. "It could be as simple as you aren't getting enough emotional support from your significant other. Or you could be one of those guys who's wife is always nagging or otherwise negative." Actually, my wife is better than any woman I've ever met at a strip club, it's just that through clubbing I've learned things about variety that no man will ever get from one woman. But I still love my wife above all else. I'm glad you mentioned this though, it sparked an idea for what I hope becomes an interesting discussion.

"But if I am totally honest I am just like the other regulars and trying to fill a hole in my life with the SC." The hole in my life that I tried to fill when first going to strip clubs is that I wasn't constantly surrounded by as many naked women as I wanted to be surrounded by. Period. It wasn't about social interaction. I have a regular social life and didn't need the companionship. It was purely sexual. Over time I've come to enjoy talking to hot girls who pretend that everything I say is completely awesome and worth listening to, and now I'm accustomed to that. So I don't think I've been filling a hole at the strip clubs, I think I've been creating one. What are your thoughts on that PaulDrake?

If she shows me a good time then I give her money and continue to come back. That's all it is and I know this. Yet for some reason I still want it to be more. But it's not. I've had very long conversations with my CF over whether or not it really matters if the girl is a complete bitch and unlikable in real life. Our conclusion, if she shows the customer a good time without allowing her true self to come out, then it really shouldn't matter. My CF is super sweet. And to her I'm special. Or are we?

I think Papi's statement is 100% accurate. But what the question really asks is whether or not a knew reader would even know that they can get good advice here based on content from the past month, versus someone who started reading a year ago, or two years ago, or five years ago, etc.

I'm definitely more sociable with girls half my age that I have nothing in common with after I've had a few drinks, but I have better VIP experiences when sober, mainly because I'm paying attention to what I just dropped a respectable sum of cash on. That, and some of those places charge an arm and a leg for a drink. So anymore, I'm more likely to stay sober.

Yes, she's Japanese.

It cost me a dollar to pee. I ain't buyin' nothin' else.

"The fact that its legal to pay someone to beat you up but not to pay for sex shows how fucked up our country's ethical priorities are." Amen!

I read your posts and pretend that they're interesting . . . that kinda creeps me out . . .

I haven't. But I know a girl who was fired because a different customer dropped her off for work at the front door, and then came in himself 45 minutes later. I thought this was odd, considering she always made me wait for her across the street at White Castle. Guess she was getting lazy.

Darkblue999 - you understand they don't have sex with clients, right?

"What I continue to not understand . . . how are so many guys still completely fooled?" It's the power of boredom that you don't underestimate.

I'll go along like this is legitimate because I really have no reason to believe that it's not. Here are my questions: 1) Was this your first career choice? If it's not and you could go back in time and make all kinds of different decisions, what would you be doing right now instead? 2) How much did you earn for your first trick? 3) What's the most you've ever earned for a trick? 4) Do you treat it like a business woman who wants to maximize her monthly income and place all excess cash into appropriate investments? Or when you need cash you go do some tricks? 5) At what age will you retire (or move on) from the profession? 6) What is your exit strategy?

That's probably true about most topics.

"The article is basically saying its OK cos middle class white girls are doing it" I interpreted it to mean the middle class white girl says it's okay because it's what she chose to do with her summer, and anything that pays her money is okay. And she needs to work on her math skills.