Escorts & Strippers that R.O.B. customers
Evasparkling
Atlanta
I had my first R.O.B. Experience with a Black escort & I wasn’t even expecting it. The whole scenario was funny to me.
I met an escort online & negotiated service and we agreed on $200/hour for two nuts. Texted her the address to my Hotel and when she arrived she informed me through text that she was outside waiting.
I then texted her my room number & asked her to come up.
Meanwhile the $200 donation was neatly wrapped in a white envelope and placed on top of the television.
When she entered my room she had me press her boobs to prove I wasn’t a cop before any sexual encounter.
After that she demanded for the donation right away. I told her that the donation was in sight and right on top of the television and would be hers once our encounter was over. She insisted that she needed the donation upfront. I told her I never give the donation first but I was willing to compromise and give her half of the donation which is $100 first & the remaining $100 would be given to her at the end of the encounter.
She agreed & I handed the $100 to her and immediately panties hit the floor. After about fifteen minutes she complained that I was taking too long & as a result her vagina was painful & dry. She then said that she had some lubricants in her car and can go & retrieve them to ensure a pleasant experience. While getting ready to go to her car she requested for the remaining donation to put away in her and I foolishly agreed & gave it to her. She went to her car but never came back to complete the encounter rather she drove off & ever since then I haven’t heard back from her.
A) Is it this a normal experience when dealing with escorts?
If yes, how do I minimize the chances of getting ripped off?
B) Are Black escorts more likely to engage in R.O.B. behavior than their other counterparts?
If yes, do I just avoid Black escorts entirely?
C) If you were in my shoes would you have done anything differently?
If yes, what would you have done differently?
D) Have you ever been Ripped off by an Escort & Stripper?
If yes, please share your experiences
I met an escort online & negotiated service and we agreed on $200/hour for two nuts. Texted her the address to my Hotel and when she arrived she informed me through text that she was outside waiting.
I then texted her my room number & asked her to come up.
Meanwhile the $200 donation was neatly wrapped in a white envelope and placed on top of the television.
When she entered my room she had me press her boobs to prove I wasn’t a cop before any sexual encounter.
After that she demanded for the donation right away. I told her that the donation was in sight and right on top of the television and would be hers once our encounter was over. She insisted that she needed the donation upfront. I told her I never give the donation first but I was willing to compromise and give her half of the donation which is $100 first & the remaining $100 would be given to her at the end of the encounter.
She agreed & I handed the $100 to her and immediately panties hit the floor. After about fifteen minutes she complained that I was taking too long & as a result her vagina was painful & dry. She then said that she had some lubricants in her car and can go & retrieve them to ensure a pleasant experience. While getting ready to go to her car she requested for the remaining donation to put away in her and I foolishly agreed & gave it to her. She went to her car but never came back to complete the encounter rather she drove off & ever since then I haven’t heard back from her.
A) Is it this a normal experience when dealing with escorts?
If yes, how do I minimize the chances of getting ripped off?
B) Are Black escorts more likely to engage in R.O.B. behavior than their other counterparts?
If yes, do I just avoid Black escorts entirely?
C) If you were in my shoes would you have done anything differently?
If yes, what would you have done differently?
D) Have you ever been Ripped off by an Escort & Stripper?
If yes, please share your experiences
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>> More common at that price range and if you're not working with providers who have good reviews.
B) Are Black escorts more likely to engage in R.O.B. behavior than their other counterparts? If yes, do I just avoid Black escorts entirely?
>> No.
C) If you were in my shoes would you have done anything differently? If yes, what would you have done differently?
>> Don't give her all the money before the end of the encounter. Work with higher-grade providers.
D) Have you ever been Ripped off by an Escort & Stripper? If yes, please share your experiences
>> No.
Many on here will say giving her the room # and asking her to come up is a bad idea - if she has a thug with her that wants to rob you you're giving him access to your room, instead meet her at the lobby and walk her to your room.
IMO not good to negotiate on the spot - i.e. not paying upfront is part of what I discuss upfront w.r.t. arranging the deal b/f she gets there..
I would make sure all valuables are out of sight - e.g. you may go use the restroom and unbeknownst to you she may lift your wallet from your pants you left on the chair.
I suggest you do the same, and I wouldn’t even know where to search for reviews now with all the internet changes if recent.
$200/hour is the standard rate for escorts in Charlotte North Carolina. At most is $300/hour never more that else you’re getting ripped off.
I shouldn’t be paying $500/hour.
Those Prices are for escorts based in expensive places like New York City, Los Angeles & San Francisco
You had the right idea to refuse to pay until the services were provided. But you backed off on that standard twice, with the second one obviously being the huge mistake. Lots of girls would run off if they had all of the money in hand and a perfectly legitimate excuse to walk out to their car. The only incentive she has to come back is either for repeat business or concern about a bad review.
I would have just finished in her mouth.
I did read some reviews but it’s difficult to know which ones are real & which ones are fake.
A friend even said that some escorts now create alternate usernames to write great reviews about themselves.
But as we all know with most escorts is always YMWV.
I believe I fucked up.
I let my guard down easily after the panties dropped.
But I thought since we already started fucking then there wasn’t really any incentive for her to run away.
If $200/hour is too low. Would $400/hour suffice?
I believe paying $400/hour for a non-GFE Sex would drive the prices up significantly which in turn isn’t a good thing for us.
In my case it looked like I could get everything I wanted from a strip club, so I never followed up. I found them by googling "escort" "cityname". Not sure if any are left, post-FOSTA/SESTA anymore.
Next time an escort presses you, firmly insist that the donation is available after the deed. Repeat again, firmly, if needed. Anything else after you told her firmly NO twice, and I'd kick her out. Which ever side holds the money is supposed to have the leverage in a negotiation. Remember that. You'll position of power comes from your ability to walk or send her packing. I understand that's hard in the moment, but dig deep and find it.
Or maybe, if you want the $200 market rate escorts, maybe start with 1/2 hour or 15 minute visit ones. To get some experience under your belt with lower $$$ risked. Happy Hunting!
Agree with this. I only did a few escorts before I realized it wasn't for me, but between those experiences and reading the forums for decades, I think if you want 100% security, you will end up having a lot of escorts walking away, because many won't agree to a process that gives you 100% security but reduces hers -- she, after all, both needs the money worse than you, and is at far greater risk of getting ripped off. IME, most mid-range and up escorts want payment up front; if you want to pay at the end, switch to OTCs.
So, if you're paying up front, that means all your precautions have to happen before she show up:
- Stick with well-reviewed escorts, and learn to spot fake reviews. "A friends says some escorts fake reviews" is incredibly weak sauce. Most of those are easy to spot. Plus most review sites will tell you the number of reviews a reviewer has -- an escort won't have 45 reviews across 10 years, but many real reviewers do. There's no excuse for failing to do this, it is not a difficult problem, and is the #1 thing to keep you from getting ripped off.
- Stick with mid-range and above escorts. I'll kinda sorta believe your claim that a $200 escort isn't low-end bottom of the barrel in your area, but I'll do it with an expression on my face that connotes disbelief :)
- If she's walking out of the room for any reason, you're getting ripped off. You're not allowed to hold her there, that's kidnapping, but I'd be pretty shocked if she came back.
-->"C) If you were in my shoes would you have done anything differently? "
I would have done a better job at ensuring she's well-reviews. That's not a 100% guarantee, but it does raise your chances of a positive experience, a ton.
b) No, ROB's have DNA wired the same way irrespective of skin colour.
c) As an experienced monger I'd never get in the same situation, but even when starting I'd have not fallen for this.
d) Despite being experienced and not falling for this particular trick I have been ripped off, once and never again when in Vegas which is why I never book an 'escort' even though Casino girls are one and the same. I'll share by PM if you want.
Also her texting someone once she's there could also be problematic in that she can be letting someone know which room she's-in in case it's a setup - again not common but it's something to consider (and if she texts someone could be for a legit reason but still worth noting).
Usually a provider giving off a vibe other than trying to please you like complaining about stuff, trying to hurry you, or acting like that's the last place she wants to be, it's a red-flag to have your guard-up IMO.
"... They met at the club. A gun and a drink later, he was out cold and out 200k, cops say
It’s an old tale, but with a new twist: A young man out partying for the night goes home with two women he just met at the club. They drug him and abscond with all his expensive jewelry.
But, according to police, in this case the victim was forced to drink the concoction at gunpoint. What the drink was laced with, wasn’t clear. Police aren’t saying.
The haul: More than $200,000 in chains, bracelets and watches, including an Audemars Piguet wrist watch valued at $56,000.
“This time,” said Miami police detective Kenia Fallat, “they pulled a gun on him and forced him to drink.”
Police on Tuesday didn’t release the incident report detailing the ripoff. They only released a three-paragraph narrative and a video of the women walking into an elevator at the pricey condominium where the man lived. There was no mention of the victim’s details or even where he met the women.
According to police, the victim returned to his apartment at The Mint Condominium on the Miami River at 92 SW Third St., with the two women at about 4 a.m. on Sept. 14. Once inside, police said, the two women “prepared alcoholic beverages, walked into the victim’s bedroom and at gunpoint, forced the victim to drink a cocktail.”
Fallat said the man fell asleep almost instantly. When he woke up a few hours later, the women were gone, along with his jewelry. Apartments at the condo range from between $260,000 to $1.6 million, its website shows.
The brief video taken at the elevator in the condo tower shows the three walking through the lobby, then into an elevator with a reflective mirror. Both women are wearing low-cut, tight black dresses. One has long blonde hair. The other long black hair. The victim is wearing ripped jeans, white sneakers and a long-sleeved black shirt. His face is blocked out in the video.
The women are later seen leaving in an elevator. There is no time stamp on the surveillance video ..."
https://www.miamiherald.com/news/local/c…
"... Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places: 2 Men End Up Kidnapped, Robbed After Using MeetMe App.
MIAMI (CBSMiami) – The Broward Sheriff’s Office said two men were kidnapped and robbed by the same late-night date after using the MeetMe app to meet her.
Her name is Ednita Leon-Alamo, 17, and police said she used the same method in both cases.
Here is how Leon-Alamo lured these men and perhaps others, according to BSO:
“Leon-Alamo meets men on the app MeetMe and lures the victims to a location. Once there, several masked males ambush and kidnap the victims at gunpoint. Leon-Alamo rides along as the group goes from ATM to ATM. The victims are then released under the threat that if they contact law enforcement they’ll get in trouble because Leon-Alamo is a teenager and not an adult as she claims on the app.”
Police said the first victim met Leon-Alamo at around 1 a.m. on August 7 at his house in the 5100 block of Northeast First Terrace in Deerfield Beach.
BSO says the second victim met her at around 2 a.m. on August 8, near East Sample Road and North Dixie Highway in Pompano Beach.
BSO believes there are other victims who have not come forward. They said they would not pursue charges against anyone who was duped.
Following their investigation, BSO announced these arrests: Leon-Alamo, 17, on August 16, Peterson Joachim, 22, and Shnyder Dumas, 19, on September 20 and September 26.
All suspects face two counts of armed robbery, kidnapping, and carjacking.
Police are asking for anyone who has been victimized by this group to contact Robbery Det. Neil Munson or Det. Robert Sokol at 954-321-4200 or Broward Crime Stoppers at 954-493-TIPS ..."
https://miami.cbslocal.com/2018/10/02/lo…
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DC - there's a huge difference between an escort that fucks so many guys that she can't get wet without lube and a girl who got into stripping purely to strip, but eventually decides that she's wiling to make an exception for the right customer.
Put another way - is there any tread left on the track or are we basically throwing a hot dog down a hallway at this point?
I never called escorts bad people. I called them whores. They have sex for money (ie., definition of whore). Strippers don't necessarily do this, but can be persuaded to with the right customer, and the experience feels much less whorish.
How many escorts have you been with? How many strippers have you talked out of the club? Are your thoughts based on theory or experience?
I don't care for escorts in their professional capacity. It's not a reflection on who they are in their private life and I did not say that they are bad people. I feel the same about lawyers, though I get the impression that skibum is a fun guy in his private life.
Yes, whore is a disparaging term. The entire point of my comment is that I find strippers on average to be less whorish. That, and I can't stand escorts. They're all whores.