Escort asking for a selfie of you just before going to her room

CJKent (Banned)
“The more a person needs to be right, the less certain he is...”
This a new, for me, screening procedure, I texted a girl on Friday afternoon to set up an appointment for next day Saturday at 9:30.
She said she was available and that we would have blast.
Next day I got ready cut my hair in the morning, had a therapeutical massage, showered and texted her I was leaving, she texted back saying she will be ready, texted her 4stars hotel address.
I drove to the place 30 miles away and as soon as I parked at the place I texted her, I am here.
She texted, "For my safety can you please text me a selfie sitting in your car holding up the peace sign".
I didn't want to do that and we texted back and for, she said she had been physically hurt before and that is why she screen this way now.
Needless to say common sense prevailed and I left before sending a selfie. I was very tempted because in her pics she is clearly a 9.5+ girl.
Has anyone gotten this kind of request?

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twentyfive
6 years ago
You should have sent her a dick pic, if there was ever an occasion that called for one that was your opportunity
Cashman1234
6 years ago
That’s odd. I’m not sure how you and a peace sign would keep her safe?

You did the smart thing - and got out of there.

However, twentyfive is right. A dick pic - making a peace sign - would have been perfect - unless she orgasmed hard and fell asleep right after...
JohnSmith69
6 years ago
The peace sign, I assume, was to prove it was you. So you couldn’t just send some random pic from the internet. Kind of like holding up a newspaper with today’s date on it.

I have never heard of this before and I would never send her the selfie. Lots of strippers have asked me for pics over the years and I declined them all except for the DSes (we took lots of pics together on our trips). Video girl was the worst about this, she always insisted on me sending her videos of us having sex. I always refused.

There are lots of other ways for this girl to feel safe without your picture
Subraman
6 years ago
On the board I used to read, this kind of request was uncommon but definitely not unknown. It was strictly an escort thing -- never seen a report like this on the AMP, FBSM, or BDSM boards, after many years or reading.

The guys hated it and all claimed to refuse to provide selfies. Although some guys must have submitted to it, since some of those girls stayed in business. I'm guessing that perhaps they only asked for selfies for guys who didn't provide references
georgmicrodong
6 years ago
I’ve been asked for such selfies by escorts before. I’ve always declined. Sometimes the girl has relented, sometimes not.

No fucking way I’m sending a face pic to some random hooker.
Smalltowncpl
6 years ago
While I would never do that I can kind of understand where she is coming from. If you killed her then split the cops could look at the history on her phone and know who she was with last.
crsm27
6 years ago
She should have made that known before your encounter that a selfie was needed. Which again you both can decide then if it is worth it.... (i would never send one). But then you are not wasting both of your time.

I do get why she wanted one. For said reason of abuse, death, etc. She or LE has something to go off of. But again for your safety no way. her "screening" should have taken care of any of her fears. Good call on not going to appointment.
twentyfive
6 years ago
^ That’s stupid they will know who texted her last picture or not.
Jascoi
6 years ago
i can see her point... as long as it a visit where a ‘fee’ has not been yet discussed.
londonguy
6 years ago
One of the reasons I stopped thinking about seeing escorts in the U.S. is the ridiculous disclosure they asked of me, that and the piss poor quality and over inflated prices. One girl asked my d.o.b., employers name, tel no, my home address blah blah blah. Strippers OTC is much more fun, as well as the girls who work the casinos.
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
An AAMP I was close to used to ask guys what color shirt they were wearing, just before sending them up to the room. But then a couple guys freaked out over this. So they stopped.

It was just to make the girl feel safer.

LE usually does try to cut in on appointments when they want to make a bust. When they cannot do this, it does trip them up.

LE never got in via RedBook and making their own appointment.

SJG
flagooner
6 years ago
What could possibly go wrong.
lopaw
6 years ago
No, but I only book with providers that ask for references upfront, so there is no need for any pics later on.
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
With AAMPs the girl is usually not the primary management. Its just to stop LE from cutting in.

With domestic escorts, they usually are in charge, and lower volume, less front door traffic. But still, if LE wants to get in, it will be by just cutting in. So picture of who to expect to see at the door peep hole would help.

SJG
abqspencer
6 years ago
I’ve seen it. Not a big deal
Dblednmike
6 years ago
No fucking way!!!

There is a scam that was pretty common with chicks on Craigslist Personals where you text them your pic then they try to blackmail you. If you’ve kept your shit straight they don’t have any personal details, or ways to get it. After you send it, there is no room number, just crickets. They do it with personals the same way, after you’ve been telling them all the nasty shit you want to do when you finally meet up they threaten to reveal it to a SO or post it on line. Some guys must fall for it, or they wouldn’t keep doing it.
ToyChaser
6 years ago
No, If a hooker gets killed that is her fault she should have paid a pimp. At a strip club the club is the pimp and the girls are asked for half or whatever percentage of the money for offering services. Does she really expect to charge $300-500 a head and get all the money, come on now if your going to sell it like its a business act like its a business and count that money "lost" for protection or whatever as if it is what it is. That is so unprofessional and LE likes to lock up Johns and try to ruin their lives as if these women are not consenting adults willing to partake in these acts for whatever reason...(i.e Love for their pimp, or poverty, or love of money.)
JAprufrock
6 years ago
Weird. Couldn't she have just taken your photo with her phone when you got to her room? And having exchanged texts she already had your number, so isn't that enough security?
Reminds me of an ad I saw recently of a high-end escort in Toronto who on her Web site detailed a lengthy screening process that included the guy providing his workplace so that she could call and verify he worked there. WTF? Who the fuck would ever agree to that?
"Hello, this is Tiffany. Can someone at this company verify that Skip works here, before he pays me $500 to fuck me in the ass and cum in my mouth?"
lopaw
6 years ago
^^Lots of people apparently agree to it, especially the ones that either have no references at all or who have been burned in the past from BackPage ROB's and agree to get screened.
rogertex
6 years ago
+1 londonguy
georgmicrodong
6 years ago
@JAprufrock: There’s a local escort agency who won’t book you unless you give your real name and employer for verification. Supposedly, they claim to be a creditor or rental manager verifying employment. The pimp, er, I mean, agency guarantees that the girls never see the information.

I would never do that sort of thing, especially since my employer considers soliciting grounds for termination, but apparently a lot of people do give them the info, since they have been in business for a number of years.
Subraman
6 years ago
-->"Couldn't she have just taken your photo with her phone when you got to her room?"

That wouldn't work if part of the reason she wanted the pic was:

- To make sure he wasn't the undercover officer who arrested her last month

- To make sure he wasn't the abusive customer or pimp trying to get in to see her under a different name

- To take the pic and, as DbledMike said, put it on a blackmail site, etc., in which case she isn't really even in that hotel (if CJKent did his homework on checking reviews, etc., this one shouldn't be the case)
Icey
6 years ago
whats the big deal? it makes sense, especially if she doesnt have a pimp
san_jose_guy
6 years ago
The issue is, she does not want LE to cut in by knocking on the door before the custie. They do this, this is how they make busts. She wants to be able to look at a picture and know that she is seeing the guy her phone operator has been talking to.

SJG

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justaguy79
6 years ago
LOL, fuck that.

At the risk of becoming a one-note SA shill, this is another great thing about SA: why should I bother jumping through hoops for an escort, when there are 30 girls in my phone who are just as cute, provide a more fun experience, will hang out and fuck for 2-3 hours for the same price as an hour with the escort, and all the verification they require is a blurred face pic, a few texts from my burner, and to meet them for a drink for 15 minutes in the hotel bar beforehand?

The only advantages the escort has are that she's a lot more likely than an SA girl to be ready on time, and I don't have to pay for the room (but the room is a lot cheaper than an extra 1-2 hours with the escort). In most cases not worth the trouble.
rickdugan
6 years ago
Another vote for "fuck that!" It's been a long time since I dialed up an escort, but no way
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