Comments by lolruned (page 12)

I don't think this is an appropriate platform to ask this question. Like I said, I would recommend you speak with a therapist (and perhaps couples therapy). You're not going to get the appropriate responses here that would in anyway help your situation. I understand your situation but do not forget that you met your wife in a SC. I think there's that one rare unicorn that meets the love of her life and forgets about the SC lifestyle. A majority of dancers probably have difficulty forgetting that lifestyle

I encourage more people on TUSCL to do the same and not just post reviews

I post a lot of updated information and information I think is vital (but not posted) for the SCs I frequent

It comes down to one bad apple that ruins it for the rest of them

I would consult with a therapist

I can see why I'd be upset if I was in the dancer's position. I can also see why it shouldn't matter from the PL's perspective. I guess it all comes down to the first dancer not closing it faster

Don't worry champ, you'll get them next time. Keep your shoulders straight and head held up high

There are some genuinely good looking people that are either one of those or both. That being said... it wouldn't affect my decision much if at all. Personality counts way more

I've heard Disney is always hiring

Hookah lounges are such a waste of money. You pay $20+ per person to smoke a hookah and sit on a couch that probably hasn't been washed in years. If you really want to smoke hookah, you should probably buy your own and invite people over. Now, hookah in a SC sounds like a pretty good combination as long as prices are reasonable. I've heard of these places but never checked out

It's always good to see others stepping up their game when it comes to reviewing SCs

It's always good to see others stepping up their game when it comes to reviewing SCs

I personally do not think you should consider dancing at this time. I've also seen dancers with worst bodies than yours

It really depends on how you carry your weight. That being said, I think 190 lbs is too high. I saw your pictures and you look like you're average in height. Your BMI is most likely over 30. Get down to at least 150 lbs

"Keeping it real, I know my looks are average and not really “society’s demand”. I’m beautiful but not exotic looking, average height, “slim thick” build (for lack of a better term via C cup, size 9-11 pants, that sometimes flat, sometimes pouch stomach, thick thighs), often get mistaken for 16/17 when I’m actually 21" Your idea of average will be different than other another's. There are many dancers that are "not exotic looking." I've seen many that are somewhere between short to average in height. Dancing isn't some kind of job where you need to be really attractive. You can get by as a 7 with a hustler's mentality. If you want to get an idea, I see most dancers as around low to mid 7. Every now and then there will be a dancer above an 8 and below a 7

Bartending seems like it'd be a good fit for you. I haven't taken account your attractiveness. I would think being more attractive and social than other people would mean more money

"The only thing though is deciding between the two of which I should go for. Im very social, outgoing, carefree and am often called the life of the party and wild one of the group." I don't think any of this really sets you apart from any other dancer when it comes to making money. It really comes down to whether you are decently attractive and have a hustler's mentality. Dancing is a customer service job at the end of the day. I personally would become a bartender because some of them make more than the dancers

Face and eyebrows look weird here but this is the kind of woman I think of as a low-mid 9. I hear people throwing out "yeah, that one dancer at the SC was a 9 or a 10" all the time. Show me these dancers that are a 9 or a 10

^ Oh come on. SJG does his chores on time and never complains about doing them

shadowcat is almost 80. I doubt he gives a damn whether you know he goes to these kinds of festivals or not

^ Which is probably a great way to be able to enjoy SCs for a long time without getting worn out

^ "I really enjoy more romantic style of touch, which it seems like not a lot of dancers do really well." Basically a GFE, right? I like this as well and it gives the illusion of a connection. I doubt most dancers do this with their customers because it can be a tiring hustle to have and/or just do not have the fortitude to keep up with it

Club Risque in Philadelphia. They have 3 franchises all within 15 miles of one another. Looks like 2 out of 3 of them are good

Club Ris

I will usually assume any bachelor parties are new to SCs and therefore probably not be on TUSCL