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6 years ago
When I first started I fell in love once. Luckily the girl disappeared and I learned my lesson. I now try to pick favs that are vastly different personality types than who I would want to marry. There is a narrow slice where a girl can be super fun for an hour or two a week but I wouldn't want to live with her.
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6 years ago
Regarding wet spot issues I use a form of baby powder that lubricates during the dance and then absorbs moisture after. It helps a ton with the wetness issue.
@nicespice - Take note of the last paragraph houjack just wrote. I think I said the same exact thing yesterday. Also the more I think about it I am not super suprised you didn't notice the LDK. You did eat a taco with cocktail sauce on in instead of salsa and didn't notice!
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6 years ago
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shailynnThey never tell you what you need to know.
Brunette
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6 years ago
I guess I tend to have more of a poker face than I realized. I wasn't trying to have one for sure.
I think for me initially (for the first few visits) with a dancer I have to concentrate to bring myself to orgasm. Although I can't control it completely I have a fair bit of control over when I cum. So it may be that when I am concentrating on that I don't show much emotion.
As time goes on and the dancer and I get into a groove I don't need to concentrate on it and can focus on enjoying the experience more organically.
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6 years ago
TFP - nicespice is at my local club this week so I have been getting in all the LDKs I can with her!
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6 years ago
@EchoPizza - If you want to help out the guy why not email him anonymously?
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6 years ago
@mal_hodgson - Seeing a dancers social media almost has the opposite effect for me. I see them in a more realistic and less idealized way.
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6 years ago
@nicespice - Interesting thread topic but it might have been better to put a disclaimer at the top to dissuade people from just discussing their own personal preferences.
Do the higher end clubs in Austin allow twerking? The weirdest clubs in my opinion are the mixed clubs that cater to both make it rain/twerking lovers crowds and old white guys/twerking haters.
Past that I don't buy into the idea that clubs are racist. Or at least I would say that it is an oversimplification. A strip club is just a business that is trying to maximize it's profits and to do that it caters to customer preferences:
https://theblog.okcupid.com/race-and-attraction-2009-2014-107dcbb4f060
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6 years ago
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flagoonerEverything written by this member is a fact.
Yeah BJ99 was awesome!
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6 years ago
@Vantablack - No she does not like you romantically. You are one of her favorite customers and have some degree of real friendship although she will still never hang with you as a friend for free outside the club. If you enjoy spending time with her that is fine as long as you can get your head straight as to what it really is and isn't. Past that keep in mind that giving her more money can not buy her love, make her like you more, or buy her approval/affirmation/acceptance.
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6 years ago
Yeah make sure to get the money upfront!
Also nicespice is way hotter in person!
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
@rickdugan - Look forward to your Dallas reviews. Stop by Bucks Cab on a Friday afternoon, the late week day shift is impressive for day shift. Sucks you aren't here this week as nicespice is here! I also have come around to agree with you that some of the baby dolls reviews are shills.
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6 years ago
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Papi_ChuloMiami, FL (or the nearest big-booty club)
Sucks if the guy had his money stolen. However it's stupid to put $500 in your shirt pocket.
Also I personally have screwed up probably a dozen times handing someone a $20 instead of a $1 or $100 instead of a $20. Once I even gave a dancer $300 instead of $60. I have a system now $1s in one pocket, $20s/$5s in the other and no other denominations allowed.
I tend to think sometimes when guys assume they are robbed they just screwed up themselves. But that might not be the case in this scenario.
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6 years ago
@question_anon - So why are you using an anonymous account?
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6 years ago
New troll?
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6 years ago
SJG - Your whole theory is nonsense and anytime you are willing to man up and accept my offer of a public debate I will easily rip you to figurative shreds. But since you will never agree let me pick apart one tiny part of your twisted worldview.
Let's say for a minute that you are right, that if guys would just try to kiss strippers that suddenly we could magically have legal brothels in the USA. Even if your theory was right, your implementation is never going to work. The audience here is too small and non-influential enough. And you have been spouting the same line here for 4 years with exactly nothing to show for it other than becoming the whipping boy of the forum.
Next what's up with the chump insult? If you want to change peoples minds insulting them isn't going to do any good. And you know that so since you are the only person with this magical knowledge it would be arguable that the person holding back the movement is you...
Maybe you could argue that you are trying to reach casual lurkers on the forum. I could see how your repetitive posting might achieve some of that goal. But lurkers aren't influencers. And now with TrollWarnBot around it sort of neuters your "spam" based strategy.
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6 years ago
@Marrakash - Sorry for all the nonsense. This forum is unmoderated, basically anyone can post anything they want. So a lot of accounts are trolls. Basically all of the posts on this thread are trolls except for shayliynn. So here is some serious actual advice:
First off if you are thinking of stripping or waitressing (bartending is probably not super realistic) you should probably visit a few clubs as a customer to get an idea of what it's like. If you want to apply pick a club and do it. It's not a bad idea to waitress first and then transition to stripping. Or just apply as a stripper from the get go. If you decide to apply you can make a separate thread here for tips on that. The only advice I would give you on stripping is that yes there is way more money in it but it isn't like the movies. You aren't going to make money by dancing on stage. Most of the money is in giving lap dances.
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6 years ago
@question_anon - A lot of guys want to see strippers as "broken dolls" that they can help fix or as previously mentioned "baby birds" that they can give guidance too. Think about the fact that a lot of strippers whole fake personas are based around themselves going to school to better their lives. Guys want to hear and buy into that so they can feel better about giving them money. Past that there is a whole second side to the "broken dolls" part where a stripper having a terrible backstory makes a guy feel better about the fact that he will never posses her. But I digress...
Remember that us guys have an unfulfilled need to give women guidance and protection in life. We want to be rescuers. And strippers are good at helping fulfill or exploit that desire.
A golden rule to remember: Never give strippers life advice unless you think they actually want it.
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6 years ago
There is a wide range on something like that. Some questions to ask:
Is this someone you want to chat with or get dances again in the future?
If yes, do you want get priority from that dancer over other customers?
Nightshift/dayshift?
How in demand is that dancer?
What part of the country, what do dancers typically make in a day there?
In some cases (as in you don't want to talk to or get dances from that dancer again) the price of drinks or food might be acceptable? In others $20-60 is the range I would probably be willing to pay. I can see cases in other clubs I don't normally frequent where more than $60 would even be reasonable.
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6 years ago
@nicespice - LMAO, I literally spit out my drink!!!
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6 years ago
@question_anon - Can you give us some more details on the situation? How long has it been going on? How old are you and how long have you been mongering at this level?
It sounds like you have a reasonable idea of what to expect out of this. You have romantic feelings for her but know that you will never actually get that in return. This is sort of like the mirror universe version of being friend zoned by a hot girl. You get to fuck her but not actually get a genuine connection. There are 2 red flags I can see in your post:
1. "We're just having fun. And when we're together she seriously comes across like she's having fun, for real."
If you aren't sure that she is having genuine fun that is a problem. You should see another girl occasionally just to keep some perspective.
2. "Ideally, I'd like it to end by her eventually saying we can't get together again because she's found someone closer to her age who she can go on and build a life with. I care about the girl and I want good things for her."
I can relate to the "caring about her in a genuine way" thing. I am the same type of person. It is important to remember that if you are feeling that way that you are extra vulnerable. She is not a little baby bird that needs your guidance in life even though you want to give that to her. You need to be extra on guard if she tries to ask you for extra money to help with things in her life.
Giving her extra money will not make her love you, like you, or give you genuine affirmation or acceptance.
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6 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
I do think having a few more active dancers on the forum has mildly tempered some of the most extreme misogynistic comments which is good.
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6 years ago
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GACAUn-retired: Met my ATF. Married her. Divorcing her.
Yeah the site is WAY better with the addition of interesting, insightful, and hilarious dancers.
We need BJ99 back.
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6 years ago
Surprising candor.
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6 years ago
Zoey101 definitely has pointy-er elbows.